Different from Dad

[OKCLane]

Viva la choice. That’s where it comes from. Why wouldn’t you expect some to be pissed?

I mean yeah, you may not care, but people who feel wronged can be pretty bitter about it.

There are many cut v uncut threads on this site to wage that crusade.

As my very smart grandfather used to say, the past is a guidepost, not a hitching post. This topic seeps into many threads like a disease and creates strife, division, and name calling - just as it has done here.

So much worse happened to me (and other children) because of parental choices that the fact that I’m cut isn’t even in the top 100. I encourage counseling for anyone genuinely bitter or emotionally damaged by his parent’s choice.

 

[cockydude2018]

Viva la choice. That’s where it comes from. Why wouldn’t you expect some to be pissed?

I mean yeah, you may not care, but people who feel wronged can be pretty bitter about it.

There was a time in recent American history when circumcision was considered par for the course. In fact, uncut penis was considered “ugly” and “unhealthy” by many. Now that the pendulum has swung to the extreme, uncut cock is highly regarded at the expense of those who had no choice in the matter. Witness all the uncut braggarts here on LPSG and their devotees.

 

[deleted972301]

I never knew my father, but my mother made the choice in having me circumcised at birth. I kind of go back and forth with that decision. Sometimes I love being cut and sometimes I always wonder what life is like as an uncircumcised. My brother isn't and he refers to life being pretty normal much like I do but I always wondered... I know the majority of women that I have been with actually preferred that a man have a circumcision but I think thats on a skewered perception of a man's cock in today's society.

 

[1141702]

There are many cut v uncut threads on this site to wage that crusade.

As my very smart grandfather used to say, the past is a guidepost, not a hitching post. This topic seeps into many threads like a disease and creates strife, division, and name calling - just as it has done here.

So much worse happened to me (and other children) because of parental choices that the fact that I’m cut isn’t even in the top 100. I encourage counseling for anyone genuinely bitter or emotionally damaged by his parent’s choice.

I do agree about he mixing of topics. I only care about RIC it shouldn’t be done. As an adult you can do what ever you want.

That someone is more worse off then you is a bullshit cop out argument.

It’s not the act, it’s the widespread ignorant practice. I mean, most people here never learn the difference or how they should function by nature, yeah, that’s not an issue. Lol / it’s a systematic assault on male sexuality through willful ignorance.


I find people trying to tout - wish I was done as a baby. Good for you. - why mention it? - you want to convince people on RIC (not you), that kind of drags me in on the others.

 

[oliverrevilo]

My father died when I was pretty young so I never really got the chance to talk to him about that, but honestly I'm not sure I'd ever have discussed it.

My father was uncut (from what I remember, as I said I was young), but I am cut.

My sons are all uncut. If they want to discuss it with me in the future, I guess I'm okay with it.

I feel that's how it should be, discuss it!

 

[Buddie]

Dad's uncut which is the norm in Greece. I was cut at 12 and again at 25.

Why did you get cut twice

Buddie

 

[CuriousAustralian]

My father is circumcised. They had planned to have me circumcised but a nurse at the hospital talked them out of it.

 

[latino]

both dad and I are uncut

 

[larsmi]

I'm cut, same as my father was. He died all too young so we never discussed it. My circumcision has never been of concern to me, so it's not even something I ever thought about before seeing so much discussion here. I was fortunate to have loving parents who modeled a great relationship and, despite our family not having much money, I never felt we lacked for anything and I certainly never felt that I lacked a foreskin (or tonsils which were also removed).

I am grateful for what I have - a penis that gives me (and my wife) pleasure. I'm not knocking anyone who wishes they were different, just saying it's not my case.

 

[james_steeep]

my dad is cut & very well endowed, i am uncut & small

 

[circedbychoice]

my dad is cut & very well endowed, i am uncut & small

Don't feel like the Lone Ranger. I have a friend who told me his dad's dick hung down to his knees. But he didn't get that lucky. The big pisser is his only child a son also was blessed with a big one, not as big as his grandfather's. But bigger than his dad. My friend is sort of pissed because the big dick fairy passed him by.
He knows this because his son's GF told him his son has a big dick. My friend once asked his dad, when he was a young man, if he thought he would have a dick as big as his? His dad told him " probably not " His dad was right.
I saw a young man who had a dick bulge to his knee. You could easily see his dick head outline in his pants. Yep down to his knee, left pant leg.

 

[Lost cover]

I was cut at birth wish i wasnt ,my two boys are not i wanted it to be there choice

Mad respect

 

[TobiasTalon70]

Mad respect

Indeed. That’s the way to do it!

 

[1141702]

Indeed. That’s the way to do it!

Agreed.

 

[SirConcis]

While times have changed, there were a number of generations of guys who grew up with "cut is the new and improved" and "uncut is ugly, causes cancer, women dislike it" etc etc. Uncut anteaters were joked at in locker rooms. So basically, ayone growing up cut in that era would feel superior and would want his son to have the same improvement.

With the ethical question of letting the boy choose, and debunking of many of the anti-foreskin arguments of last mid century, it is easier now for dads to agree to have a son not get the circumcision and be different.

I am not sure it was ever about "being different" or "being like dad" I think it was more about believing opne model was superior and wanting to ensure your boy gets that model.

 

[Buddie]

While times have changed, there were a number of generations of guys who grew up with "cut is the new and improved" and "uncut is ugly, causes cancer, women dislike it" etc etc. Uncut anteaters were joked at in locker rooms. So basically, ayone growing up cut in that era would feel superior and would want his son to have the same improvement.

With the ethical question of letting the boy choose, and debunking of many of the anti-foreskin arguments of last mid century, it is easier now for dads to agree to have a son not get the circumcision and be different.

I am not sure it was ever about "being different" or "being like dad" I think it was more about believing opne model was superior and wanting to ensure your boy gets that model.

SirConcis

Are you for circumcision or not for circumcision?

I am against it an wish my parents didn’t have me cut.

 

[Lost cover]

SirConcis

Are you for circumcision or not for circumcision?

I am against it an wish my parents didn’t have me cut.

Im with you on that 1

 

[SirConcis]

I used to be very against circumcision, even aftert my first partial circ (which I though still kept me uncut).
Eventually accepted I was no longer uncut, and that the partial circ had greatly improved my penis so my opposotion to circumcison started to drop for adult circ, but still against baby ones.

Used to think it was impossible to "aim the scalpel" right on RIC, but it turns out that with growth spurts, the penis grows into a perfectly normal circumcised adult one, whereas getting cut as adult is often quite a challenge in getting just the right amount of skin off. So opposition to RIC dropped on that aspect.

Also read that right after birth, the adhesions are still mushy (think rubber cement) and bcome "hard" adhesions a few weeks later, and that removed another opposition to RIC.
Then reaslised the anti-circ videos were dishobest because they dubbed soundtrack of hysterical baby crying over the circ procedure. And with local anesthetic numbing things, that oppposiotion to RIC also dropped.

So in the end, I would not be against having son RIC, but that doesn't mean I would have him done. The right to choose, and the social environment (fitting in) matter as well. But if left uncut and he he my original long foreskin, I would be wanting a partial circ on him.

If left intact or even partial circ, I would explain his option to get full circ to be like me. But having gone through uncut, semi cut and fully cut, leaving him uncut would still be "like me" during boyhood and teenage years.

 

[1141702]

I used to be very against circumcision, even aftert my first partial circ (which I though still kept me uncut).
Eventually accepted I was no longer uncut, and that the partial circ had greatly improved my penis so my opposotion to circumcison started to drop for adult circ, but still against baby ones.

Used to think it was impossible to "aim the scalpel" right on RIC, but it turns out that with growth spurts, the penis grows into a perfectly normal circumcised adult one, whereas getting cut as adult is often quite a challenge in getting just the right amount of skin off. So opposition to RIC dropped on that aspect.

Also read that right after birth, the adhesions are still mushy (think rubber cement) and bcome "hard" adhesions a few weeks later, and that removed another opposition to RIC.
Then reaslised the anti-circ videos were dishobest because they dubbed soundtrack of hysterical baby crying over the circ procedure. And with local anesthetic numbing things, that oppposiotion to RIC also dropped.

So in the end, I would not be against having son RIC, but that doesn't mean I would have him done. The right to choose, and the social environment (fitting in) matter as well. But if left uncut and he he my original long foreskin, I would be wanting a partial circ on him.

If left intact or even partial circ, I would explain his option to get full circ to be like me. But having gone through uncut, semi cut and fully cut, leaving him uncut would still be "like me" during boyhood and teenage years.

I disagree completely about RIC somehow creating a better circ. It might look better, but you end up with side effects sometimes. Lopsided cuts, too much taken, bent cock. How many cock bends have you seen at circ lines? I’ve seen a lot, including my own.

 

[Spike Baltar]

I am cut just like my dad, and my flaccid dick looks just like his flaccid. I was circumcised automatically, they didn't even ask [late 60s, Texas.] Evidently there are many accounts of this. My younger brother was not circumcised.