i would say be honest to men and women i dont see how that triggers you. Unless thats a sore spot for you. Its literally just a way to start a sentence it means please answer my question and dont get off track and bring up past posts
Do You Like Beards?
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i would say be honest to men and women i dont see how that triggers you. Unless thats a sore spot for you. Its literally just a way to start a sentence it means please answer my question and dont get off track and bring up past posts
It's ok that you aren't intelligent enough to understand why telling us to "be honest" is a thinly veiled insult.
We don't blame you. You clearly don't know any better.
You aren't gonna get your answers. Maybe move on? Just a suggestion
i see it as a plea for an honest answer and clearly it was necessary look how much we arent on topic. Ironically it didnt help.
So your answer is no, you don't understand how its offputting and dismissive and disrespectful... despite it being explained umpteen times.i would say be honest to men and women i dont see how that triggers you. Unless thats a sore spot for you. Its literally just a way to start a sentence it means please answer my question and dont get off track and bring up past posts
You're also showing me that there is zero point in continuing conversation. You don't care to understand women or your answer might have been something like "I didn't mean it that way, but I see your perspective" or anything other than doubling down by saying we are triggered.
I have tons of men friends. I watch their interactions. The term "be honest " is rarely used with other men, but IS used with women. Its another one of those unconscious gender biases that men dont realize they're doing, or how its hurting equality. But what happens when men are made aware? My friends apologize and dont do it again. You accuse us of man bashing . So who's triggered?????
? im sorry do you also kick puppies in the face
so men dont say be honest to each other? What other false assumptions about men do you have, no wait idgaf.
You've explained that already, and refused to accept our explanations. As we predicted. Which is why no one is talking about beards.
No, puppies get endless love and cuddles from me. Cuz puppies are awesome. You? Not so much.
If you don't give a fuck why don't you leave this thread to die? Seems like you care a whole lot, bruh.
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i really friggin hate the blatant sexism inherent in the notion that women go for bad boys & not nice guys, which the OP clearly believes. therefore i flat out refuse to answer anything about beards.
Depends on the guy. If you look like the unabomber then I’m not sure if it’s actually the beard’s fault
Beard, no beard...it’s a personal preference. I find that if a man is ...well, if it’s blatantly obvious that he spends a LOT of time meticulously grooming it into shapes or special side burns, etc.....that’s a bit too much. Hell, I take 7 minute showers. 5 if I’m not deep conditioning my hair. I don’t think I would want to date a guy that spent more time getting ready than I do
Beard, no beard...it’s a personal preference. I find that if a man is ...well, if it’s blatantly obvious that he spends a LOT of time meticulously grooming it into shapes or special side burns, etc.....that’s a bit too much. Hell, I take 7 minute showers. 5 if I’m not deep conditioning my hair. I don’t think I would want to date a guy that spent more time getting ready than I do
I go back and forth with having a beard as to weather it looks attractive or straight up Amish.
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Why would you need to request an honest answer from people who you expect honesty? If you have to ask, the implication is you expect without asking, you will not get honesty. You are, in fact, implying that the ones to whom you submit your entreatments are habitual liars. Taken further, you are in strong company here with many men who come to us because they don't want to believe the answers already given by the women they know, and men, like you, who ignore or deride those of us who give answers that do not align with the askers hopes, and thank those who say exactly what the asker wants to hear for being honest. Men like you can't even tell the difference between real women and men pretending to be women.
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nope actually its implying dont hold back i wont be offended either way. Also known as a blunt or "truthful" explanation as to why or why you dont like a beard on a man. Beards are currently trendy hence why i was essentially saying i wont be offended if you hate beards despite their popularity. Im shocked you read into more than what it really is. Kind of paints a bad picture of your quick action to attack a man on here for just about anything. Very telling. The truth has been shown.
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Bluntness is not the same as honesty. Honesty can be diplomatic. Moreover, you demonstrably don't actually appreciate bluntness.
Rapid attack? Absolutely anything? Laughable. You are ridiculous. This is not my first time addressing you. Go back over your threads and see how much of your nonsense I have tolerated, waiting for you to put yourself right.
Rapid attack? Absolutely anything? Laughable. You are ridiculous. This is not my first time addressing you. Go back over your threads and see how much of your nonsense I have tolerated, waiting for you to put yourself right.
