Do you prefer masculine or feminine men?

[talldarkuk]

Somewhere between fem - jock, not a big fan of hairy guys, possibly because I am stocky and hairy and I like my partner to be different to me

 

[deleted19462351]

Lol, I love stocky and hairy even though I'm not hairy.

 

[SilverDadBottom]

feminine, for certain

They can be surprisingly hard to find.

 

[bigboaster]

They can be surprisingly hard to find.

I find that a bit hard to believe, respectfully!

 

[SilverDadBottom]

I find that a bit hard to believe, respectfully!

I just mean that in the world of online sex-connections, gay and bi men tend to emphasize their own “straight-acting” behavior, as well as their desire for other straight-acting men.

Which is totally fine. But there’s no antonym for “straight-acting” that quite captures what I like—and it’s made even more complex because I’m turned on by bottoming. I also tend to be turned on by gay men (as opposed to bi and “straight” DL types).

 

[bigboaster]

I just mean that in the world of online sex-connections, gay and bi men tend to emphasize their own “straight-acting” behavior, as well as their desire for other straight-acting men.

Which is totally fine. But there’s no antonym for “straight-acting” that quite captures what I like—and it’s made even more complex because I’m turned on by bottoming. I also tend to be turned on by gay men (as opposed to bi and “straight” DL types).

In that case I get that perspective actually.

What a refreshing change of pace in the sea of "str8" and "masculine" chasers. Godspeed sir

 

[daftman]

no doubt...I maybe care less about feminine, per se, care a lot about smooth... and fit. I am very smooth, but neutral between fem and masc... it is more that smooth guys really turn me on!

 

[SilverDadBottom]

In that case I get that perspective actually.

What a refreshing change of pace in the sea of "str8" and "masculine" chasers. Godspeed sir

Thank you. I appreciate beefy, rugged, and masculine guys, but I find the intense clouds of testosterone oddly weiner-shrinking.

 

[Rob1hallz]

I find more CD, femme and sub than masculine. And I prefer masculine

 

[beginner63]

I prefer masculine as I like to be a little submissive

 

[18wheeler]

I’m about 98% a bottom….. and I want to bottom for a masculine men…. But there have been a few men I’ve seen who were less masculine that have tempted the “top” in me.

 

[MagnumV]

I'm into masculine. I want men to be men. I like bears, otters, wolves types. I'm a bear myself. I have no issues with feminine but that is not what excites me.

 

[MagnumV]

Definitely masculine. Much prefer jockstraps to panties.

I love jocks, wear them exclusively and think that all men should wear.

 

[Ohiojohn]

Definitely prefer masculine guys but the occasional feminine guy is fun

 

[Lookinginconshy]

I tend to be attracted to all sorts but not overly feminine men. My preference is tall, hairy butch fit construction worker type guys. But some of them can be quite feminine once you get them alone.

 

[Schlong87]

I tend to be attracted to all sorts but not overly feminine men. My preference is tall, hairy butch fit construction worker type guys. But some of them can be quite feminine once you get them alone.

im kind of like you i like traditional masculine guys that's why im attracted to men in the first place , really dont' like guys who act like women or like to wear panties and stuff like that.

 

[juanchojuan]

Definitely masculine men. I find feminine men repulsive.

 

[Assman1]

I kinda go back and forth.

 

[Wingman11]

Masculine guys. I like confident and fit women, too.

So I think it comes down to most 'feminine' traits seeming like an affectation or fake to me.

 

[deleted1371933]

I like men. Prefer masculine but feminine have their appeal too!