Straight men out there who watch mostly gay porn or pay more attention to the man in straight porn?

[BCH]

Considered myself straight for the longest time, 33 now, and I'm bi, but I don't seek out male encounters. If people ask, I say I'm straight to avoid the extra conversation. If I know they're curious, I'll say I'm bi. Kind of into the gay porn because I enjoy the masculinity comparison aspect. Not just dick size but body hair, the way they fuck, how they groan, how they cum and how much, and how it all compares to what I do. The vulnerability part is also pretty hot. Men are stereotypically tough and dominate, so watch gay porn breaks that barrier. I can't comprehend a relationship with a guy, but the sex part seems "fun" and I appreciate a hot body regardless of gender. I get off knowing the other person is turned on. But I get off harder when a guy I find hot is moaning under me than a woman.

I realized I wanted to experiment with guys just a couple years ago. I was in the gym and was washing my hands with my shirt off and another dude said I looked good and just grazed his hand from my pecs to below my belly button. That was it. Never thought about a guy before that, but my heart beat so fast I thought I was going to pass out. Reminded me of the first time I was with a girl. That shockwave feeling. But that's all it ever was. It's something Im really glad I tried and am still open to, but I'm okay with not diving head first into the whole gay relationship thing.

My advice: if you're fantasizing about a guy in any way, try it out. If it's not your thing and you just like gay porn, cool. But grabbing a hard dick that isn't yours, even just out of curiosity, is something everyone should experience

We need more guys like you. The gym story was hot, and do you wish that you followed through with more? For me, I was in denial until a friend and I went for drinks. He kissed me, and that was it. My extra hard dick couldn't deny what I liked. I am mostly a side. In my younger days, I was a top. I love porn with dominance. I would submit to an Alpha or a top like this - Aiden's Triple Load IV (Travis)

 

[Tantrumcake]

We need more guys like you. The gym story was hot, and do you wish that you followed through with more? For me, I was in denial until a friend and I went for drinks. He kissed me, and that was it. My extra hard dick couldn't deny what I liked. I am mostly a side. In my younger days, I was a top. I love porn with dominance. I would submit to an Alpha or a top like this - Aiden's Triple Load IV (Travis)

Do I wish I followed through? Yes, just to see what would've happened. It doesn't keep me up at night, but thinking back now, yeah I missed an opportunity. I didn't even realize he was flirting until a year later. I was always told not to think with my dick, but if someone touching you makes you rock hard, maybe you should look into it lol.

I wish I was sluttier with guys in college. I was the typical straight guy who would jokingly fool around with other straight guys but not really do anything major. I don't know if I just didn't pay attention to the signs or if it was a slow burn.

I will say, being openly bi, I get hate from both sides. Gay guys say I'm straight and that I'm gay baiting. Women say I'm selfish and need to accept I'm just gay and always seem uncomfortable when I'm around good looking men. And both think that I want an open relationship because I'm bi. So it did cause a lot of drama. I'm also not into flamboyant guys or butchy women, so I got gay hate for that too. Fun fun.

 

[BCH]

Yeah, there will always be haters. Women inherently know that they can't compete with men sexually. Gay guys are usually more judgmental than any group. After my first gay kiss, I was all in. I have a certain type of woman that I find attractive, and now that has become more of a question: who could I have a child with? I know a gay guy who got tired of the "typical gay stuff" and wanted a family. He married a woman who knows his past and seems amazing together. I have no idea if they are open. A lesbian told me (she was very attractive) that she'd be into men if she found a guy who hit all of her buttons. There is a saying...That bi girls like dick more and that bi guys like dick more. I told my mom when I came out that if I were on a desert island and there was an obese woman or Angelina Jolie (pre-Brad time) to choose, I'd have to be with Angelina. If it were Brad or Angelina...Brad is getting fucked good lol (I didn't say the F word lol). Society allows for women to be bisexual but not men. So sad and hypocritical. I feel bad for women in the sense that their value is usually predicated on their looks, and their sex drive diminishes over time. Some guys, too, but if we take care of ourselves, we can have fun for a long time. I find older and in-shape guys very attractive. Wishing you the best!

 

[BIGBULL29]

Yes. Depends on the mood, et.

If they're in mode of wanting to see big dick, then yes. But that doesn't mean that they're paying any attention to the women.

A majority of straight men love watching a big penis in porn (that's why studs are usually well-hung). Remember -- straight porn is made by straight men for straight men. And big dicks is a bit component.

Now, men are a bit pickier with the men's looks than they used to be. But, culture dictates a lot of what we like and don't like.

One more thing: straight men will fantasize of being the stud in the scene. So there will usually be some focus on the stud from a straight man's perspective.

If a straight dude has no desire or interest in looking at cock/male body, he can easily watch lesbian porn.

 

[Tantrumcake]

I found this text exchange from a year ago and figured it may help someone. I told myself I would start saying I was bi if people asked.

This exchange led to this guy calling me and asking me if I wanted to hookup with him and his wife. They were both curious and wanted to experiment. This dude was attractive and muscular, but I wasn't ever interested. Stereotypical straight guy who never said much and didn't even look at me twice. But he went on and on about how he thought I was attractive and how he wanted to fool around with me while I hooked up with his wife. Probably the most amazing experience and something that would've never happened if I just hung onto the strictly straight label.

I still see him at work and we talk a lot. We haven't fooled around in awhile, but I jokingly tell him it's hard to look at him without seeing his ass arched taking my dick. And he'll jab right back. So now we bicker like straight friends, except the experience we joke about actually happened...a couple times.

 

[Brayboy]

Well I’m gay and I mostly only get off to straight porn. I’ve never even seen a naked woman close up - let alone touched a naked woman.

I have a theory that porn is making everyone think they are a bi.
As we search for the new high - the internet algorithm is gonna take you to different places. I don’t think it actually changes our sexuality though in the real world.

I like rough sex with gay guys more of a sub/dom aspect to it. Gay porn than does that often has the guys in unappealing kink gear OR it’s a big age gap. Straight porn often feels more adventurous - I love seeing a girl get dicks in all her holes. A bi friend once told me, there is less you can do when you just have sex with guys.

Also. Men need the physical human contact of other men. It’s not gay to get that.

 

[ScotGirlJ]

Do you honestly think you will get a true, broad reflection amongst the men who engage in this activity with the men from this site?

Most of the straight guys on here lean towards the gay end. Most of them won't acknowledge it, half aren't even aware of it, and the rest are surrounded by delusional idealogies to get them out of it. When you start looking at most of their past activities, though, thats when you see how this site is prioritised with gay objectification being centered. I'm not complaining either, because no one finds hot men as good as the gays!

There's a reason porn users are known to escalate fantasies over time. Some go on and do serious crime activities, whereas others embrace the more taboo situations. Our minds are so adaptable that anything is possible, and many contradictions can soon become permanent. Practice makes perfect, and you can normalise anything over a period of time and under the right circumstances. Usually, these people give off a vibe.

 

[bigboaster]

Well I’m gay and I mostly only get off to straight porn. I’ve never even seen a naked woman close up - let alone touched a naked woman.

I have a theory that porn is making everyone think they are a bi.
As we search for the new high - the internet algorithm is gonna take you to different places. I don’t think it actually changes our sexuality though in the real world.

I like rough sex with gay guys more of a sub/dom aspect to it. Gay porn than does that often has the guys in unappealing kink gear OR it’s a big age gap. Straight porn often feels more adventurous - I love seeing a girl get dicks in all her holes. A bi friend once told me, there is less you can do when you just have sex with guys.

Also. Men need the physical human contact of other men. It’s not gay to get that.

physical contact =/= gay sex acts. Which would be gay in some instances.

 

[BCH]

Do you honestly think you will get a true, broad reflection amongst the men who engage in this activity with the men from this site?

Most of the straight guys on here lean towards the gay end. Most of them won't acknowledge it, half aren't even aware of it, and the rest are surrounded by delusional idealogies to get them out of it. When you start looking at most of their past activities, though, thats when you see how this site is prioritised with gay objectification being centered. I'm not complaining either, because no one finds hot men as good as the gays!

There's a reason porn users are known to escalate fantasies over time. Some go on and do serious crime activities, whereas others embrace the more taboo situations. Our minds are so adaptable that anything is possible, and many contradictions can soon become permanent. Practice makes perfect, and you can normalise anything over a period of time and under the right circumstances. Usually, these people give off a vibe.

I think that some guys who do horrible crimes and get locked up are unaware that the real reason is that they will be forced to have sex with men. They aren't even present of their homosexuality desires because they have stuffed them down...while having raging hardons at the mere sight of another erect cock. I blame society and religion.

 

[elklindoxxx]

It's one thing to talk about it on the internet or watch gay porn. To me, the threshold is engaging in sexual activity.

Ever since college, I've been going to my bate club. And over the years I've seen guys who show up and participate, who claim to be 'straight'. And I've been jacked off to completion by guys who were claiming to be 'straight'....lol.

However, If you are just engaging in idle chatter or jacking off to gay porn. I don't consider that person to be gay or having any gay tendencies.

 

[damonstrong]

I like the male butt shots.

 

[LVCB77]

Married for years but secretly and mostly exclusively get off to gay porn now...

It started as a novelty and was me increasingly pushing the proverbial porn boundaries, but now a days, despite being a long time, married straight man, I almost exclusively watch and get off to male gay porn.

 

[bigboaster]

It's one thing to talk about it on the internet or watch gay porn. To me, the threshold is engaging in sexual activity.

Ever since college, I've been going to my bate club. And over the years I've seen guys who show up and participate, who claim to be 'straight'. And I've been jacked off to completion by guys who were claiming to be 'straight'....lol.

However, If you are just engaging in idle chatter or jacking off to gay porn. I don't consider that person to be gay or having any gay tendencies.

I don't agree. I don't believe sexuality or orientation are predicated on physical activity at all. Your attractions, your turn ons etc are moreso a mental or psychological thing. I think the fantasies you get off to in your head are more telling than the physical actions you take.

There are plenty of barriers in real life preventing people from doing things they want to do sometimes. Both physical and mental. The mind is free.

 

[Brayboy]

Don’t forget that in the movie The Kids Are Alright - the lead lesbian couple (played by Annette Bening and Julianne Moore) only get off to gay male porn.

The sex scene between Julianne and Mark Ruffalo is pretty hot too

 

[ScotGirlJ]

Married for years but secretly and mostly exclusively get off to gay porn now...

It started as a novelty and was me increasingly pushing the proverbial porn boundaries, but now a days, despite being a long time, married straight man, I almost exclusively watch and get off to male gay porn.

No one likes to mention this part about porn use. I'm no prude, and I like porn myself. But with the right conditions, it can escalate into needing more exciting taboo scenes, and after a while, in comes the fantasies that urge you to want to try things out for real. "Why not try it if no one knows about it?" Is what many now divorced men said. Do you know how many women over these last few years put posts up on a mums site that I'm on, under the "my man's gay" subject matter. So many are upset, confused, and heartbroken about catching their husbands or boyfriends watching gay porn, having the grindr app or similar apps, and some have even caught theirs on subreddits talking to other men. There's more subreddits for married men to meet men than there are to meet other women. I suppose it's because women need effort and time with maybe some commitment before they would give those men what they want, which is just sex. Two women wrote that they divorced their men after decades together once they became obsessed with pegging and couldn't climax from penetration after a while. Those ones started f*cking around as the story came out after their divorces. They told us all some funny stories. One woman, though, had lost her 8 month unborn child after getting off her nightshift job early and catching her husband of 8 years with a man from grindr in her f*cking living room. She went into shock and lost the child. He blamed her being pregnant and not having sex as much, which led him to porn and then this because he thoughtfully didn’t want to put in effort or make commitments to women (how sweet!). He had done it 3 times before, and the first time he did it, he was drunk, he claims. I feel like I'm living in the twilight zone. A lot of men now just put their own sexual pleasure above people's feelings. People who they claim to love! Those personal stories were an eyeopener to some naive women.

I don't give a sh*t what men do or want to do, but just stay single doing it. Why even open that door if there's no intentions? It's cruel. Especially when it's those women who lose the most whilst everyone else goes off into the sunset to live their best life. I'm maybe bitter because my friend has been through it, and she was and still is on a scale of top model level type of beauty with the humbleness and kindness to go with her. She was everything I wanted to be. Yet because of this mans selfishness, she managed to lose all her self-worth and confidence in one night and then soon became depressed and suicidal. She hasnt been the same and hasnt dated properly since. Even though her ex was sorry and claims he wants her back even now, it's just too late. All trust in men and her own judgment has gone, and he took that from her. We egged his windows and car one night whilst drunk because I'm petty like that, but it cheered her up.

So if anyone's capable of some empathy and feels guilt, then I'd maybe think of ending situations before starting any new ones. Turn off the porn and the media and listen to your own instincts once it all calms down with no other influences to help you.

It's all just a sign of the f*cking times! I'd rather have 187 cats and a highly powerful, long life battery-powered vibrator than deal with this sh*t. Bliss!

 

[winger2087]

No one likes to mention this part about porn use. I'm no prude, and I like porn myself. But with the right conditions, it can escalate into needing more exciting taboo scenes, and after a while, in comes the fantasies that urge you to want to try things out for real. "Why not try it if no one knows about it?" Is what many now divorced men said. Do you know how many women over these last few years put posts up on a mums site that I'm on, under the "my man's gay" subject matter. So many are upset, confused, and heartbroken about catching their husbands or boyfriends watching gay porn, having the grindr app or similar apps, and some have even caught theirs on subreddits talking to other men. There's more subreddits for married men to meet men than there are to meet other women. I suppose it's because women need effort and time with maybe some commitment before they would give those men what they want, which is just sex. Two women wrote that they divorced their men after decades together once they became obsessed with pegging and couldn't climax from penetration after a while. Those ones started f*cking around as the story came out after their divorces. They told us all some funny stories. One woman, though, had lost her 8 month unborn child after getting off her nightshift job early and catching her husband of 8 years with a man from grindr in her f*cking living room. She went into shock and lost the child. He blamed her being pregnant and not having sex as much, which led him to porn and then this because he thoughtfully didn’t want to put in effort or make commitments to women (how sweet!). He had done it 3 times before, and the first time he did it, he was drunk, he claims. I feel like I'm living in the twilight zone. A lot of men now just put their own sexual pleasure above people's feelings. People who they claim to love! Those personal stories were an eyeopener to some naive women.

I don't give a sh*t what men do or want to do, but just stay single doing it. Why even open that door if there's no intentions? It's cruel. Especially when it's those women who lose the most whilst everyone else goes off into the sunset to live their best life. I'm maybe bitter because my friend has been through it, and she was and still is on a scale of top model level type of beauty with the humbleness and kindness to go with her. She was everything I wanted to be. Yet because of this mans selfishness, she managed to lose all her self-worth and confidence in one night and then soon became depressed and suicidal. She hasnt been the same and hasnt dated properly since. Even though her ex was sorry and claims he wants her back even now, it's just too late. All trust in men and her own judgment has gone, and he took that from her. We egged his windows and car one night whilst drunk because I'm petty like that, but it cheered her up.

So if anyone's capable of some empathy and feels guilt, then I'd maybe think of ending situations before starting any new ones. Turn off the porn and the media and listen to your own instincts once it all calms down with no other influences to help you.

It's all just a sign of the f*cking times! I'd rather have 187 cats and a highly powerful, long life battery-powered vibrator than deal with this sh*t. Bliss!

This is spot on. Porn is like a gateway drug that tempts you to do so much more. Porn has been the reason that in past relationships caused me to cheat. Also on a deeper level porn put me through a confusing time in my life where I experimented with Trans women. I fell into that whole of watching alot of porn, then started enjoying trans porn more and more and led to meeting up with a bunch and having various hook ups, most of which just re-affirmed that I am really into women.


Like JLN89 alludes to, guys are fucked up creatures who often look for instant gratification and for me it was two-fold. The porn made me think I would like sex with Trans, and arranging for sex with Trans girls was almost effortless. With some apps you could match with, message and drive to their apartment within an hour to fuck with no strings attached. With women you need to at least put in a little effort, do drinks, dinner etc. and it is still not a guarantee.

You start watching alot of porn and your head on your shoulders goes numb while your dick-head wants to just release the juices. If you are in a relationship this could cause you to search for weird shit you only see in porn and cheat, or cheat for a little variety. If you are not in a relationship and single it could cause you to do like I did and go for things you are not even into.

There is so much porn in today's world with easy access to it and with more and more fucked up things that are really just fantasy. Porn will fuck up a relationship. If you are with a partner and happy then you should avoid porn at all costs.

 

[ScotGirlJ]

This is spot on. Porn is like a gateway drug that tempts you to do so much more. Porn has been the reason that in past relationships caused me to cheat. Also on a deeper level porn put me through a confusing time in my life where I experimented with Trans women. I fell into that whole of watching alot of porn, then started enjoying trans porn more and more and led to meeting up with a bunch and having various hook ups, most of which just re-affirmed that I am really into women.


Like JLN89 alludes to, guys are fucked up creatures who often look for instant gratification and for me it was two-fold. The porn made me think I would like sex with Trans, and arranging for sex with Trans girls was almost effortless. With some apps you could match with, message and drive to their apartment within an hour to fuck with no strings attached. With women you need to at least put in a little effort, do drinks, dinner etc. and it is still not a guarantee.

You start watching alot of porn and your head on your shoulders goes numb while your dick-head wants to just release the juices. If you are in a relationship this could cause you to search for weird shit you only see in porn and cheat, or cheat for a little variety. If you are not in a relationship and single it could cause you to do like I did and go for things you are not even into.

There is so much porn in today's world with easy access to it and with more and more fucked up things that are really just fantasy. Porn will fuck up a relationship. If you are with a partner and happy then you should avoid porn at all costs.

What's sad is that most women won't see you the same way. There will be some, but overall, women just can't process men like this. Even when we know and beleive that other orientations exist some women can only process gay or straight as an image for men.

I would rather enjoy seeing two known gay men together in porn than seeing bisexual men and I don't fully know why. When the lines get blurred it just can't process for me as something sexual. It's not about the acts as I enjoy gay porn. It's the psychological response towards the security these men offer whereas with gay men in porn i can relax and see the fun side and just admire the looks and passion. It may be the environmental conditioning I have had. Before it gets mentioned the environmental side from the past isn't as much of a factor as many would think. Otherwise, with men knowing they get it easier with men, they would be casually and publicly using each other as fleshlights with no need to hide. Men throughout time have been making all of societies choices and setting the conditions we have now. So it would be a thing right now if it was all just only one certain type of environment that made this behaviour an issue.

Attraction can be turned off as quickly as flicking a switch. These attractions are not something we can control, and many women who find out their men are bisexual don't actually want to lose attraction. Why would we want to lose attraction to a population of men who may be the right fit for us? But it does happen, and that's not something women can change, nor is it malicious. Women through evolution are biologically programmed to seek out stability and security in partners. When there are too many risks attatched to a potential mate, it just doesn't feel right.

I would suggest all men take a break from any influences and truly get to know their own instincts before dragging other people into your misery.

It may be unfair or hurtful, but it's just how it is. Women don't want potential or current partners to possibly end up as competition one day. It just can't be processed in their heads. Most women who don't have daddy issues or trauma can settle for being alone. For the majority of women, they don't have that need that men have for natural or any taboo sexual activity to take place, so it does not drive any decisions they make for their lives. So they can be picky, and even those women who don't have so many options anymore can be content and say no.

Learn to communicate your feelings to women and say why you need something and how it affects you emotionally. Don't make it out that you are entitled to sex or should get sex a certain way. Say what's missing emotionally and why you want it to change and how it makes you feel when there's no affection or intimacy there. Tell them how serious it is for you and how if you are neglected, it causes you to unconsciously look elsewhere when you really don't want to. Let her know that sex means more and can give you more emotionally than what it does for her. If you need help making her understand this or you can't say it out loud, and way before you go onto the next step, you need to reach out for some therapy. Find a therapist you both like. The next step is if you need to explore elsewhere, and she wint let you and wait, and she hasn't neglected you in any other way, then tell her you need to finish this relationship as you need time apart to see if this is what you want. Let her know that she is single and can date others so she isn't sitting at home waiting. Only someone who cares for someone and has the capacity for empathy will want to take the route that causes the other person the least amount of pain. Someone who cheats because they find it hard to communicate what they need or want to finish things, just don't realise that their emotions that they feel when they can't communicate are nothing in comparison to what their partners feel when they find out they've been betrayed.

 

[NakedBuddy]

What's sad is that most women won't see you the same way. There will be some, but overall, women just can't process men like this. Even when we know and beleive that other orientations exist some women can only process gay or straight as an image for men.

I would rather enjoy seeing two known gay men together in porn than seeing bisexual men and I don't fully know why. When the lines get blurred it just can't process for me as something sexual. It's not about the acts as I enjoy gay porn. It's the psychological response towards the security these men offer whereas with gay men in porn i can relax and see the fun side and just admire the looks and passion. It may be the environmental conditioning I have had. Before it gets mentioned the environmental side from the past isn't as much of a factor as many would think. Otherwise, with men knowing they get it easier with men, they would be casually and publicly using each other as fleshlights with no need to hide. Men throughout time have been making all of societies choices and setting the conditions we have now. So it would be a thing right now if it was all just only one certain type of environment that made this behaviour an issue.

Attraction can be turned off as quickly as flicking a switch. These attractions are not something we can control, and many women who find out their men are bisexual don't actually want to lose attraction. Why would we want to lose attraction to a population of men who may be the right fit for us? But it does happen, and that's not something women can change, nor is it malicious. Women through evolution are biologically programmed to seek out stability and security in partners. When there are too many risks attatched to a potential mate, it just doesn't feel right.

I would suggest all men take a break from any influences and truly get to know their own instincts before dragging other people into your misery.

It may be unfair or hurtful, but it's just how it is. Women don't want potential or current partners to possibly end up as competition one day. It just can't be processed in their heads. Most women who don't have daddy issues or trauma can settle for being alone. For the majority of women, they don't have that need that men have for natural or any taboo sexual activity to take place, so it does not drive any decisions they make for their lives. So they can be picky, and even those women who don't have so many options anymore can be content and say no.

Learn to communicate your feelings to women and say why you need something and how it affects you emotionally. Don't make it out that you are entitled to sex or should get sex a certain way. Say what's missing emotionally and why you want it to change and how it makes you feel when there's no affection or intimacy there. Tell them how serious it is for you and how if you are neglected, it causes you to unconsciously look elsewhere when you really don't want to. Let her know that sex means more and can give you more emotionally than what it does for her. If you need help making her understand this or you can't say it out loud, and way before you go onto the next step, you need to reach out for some therapy. Find a therapist you both like. The next step is if you need to explore elsewhere, and she wint let you and wait, and she hasn't neglected you in any other way, then tell her you need to finish this relationship as you need time apart to see if this is what you want. Let her know that she is single and can date others so she isn't sitting at home waiting. Only someone who cares for someone and has the capacity for empathy will want to take the route that causes the other person the least amount of pain. Someone who cheats because they find it hard to communicate what they need or want to finish things, just don't realise that their emotions that they feel when they can't communicate are nothing in comparison to what their partners feel when they find out they've been betrayed.

"I would suggest all men take a break from any influences and truly get to know their own instincts before dragging other people into your misery."

How about we (societies) first stop socializing males from birth to fear homosexuality? Young males are taught that they shouldn't play with dolls, that they don't wear "girly" colors, that they behave in certain "manly" ways, that they not touch other men or show any affection to other men - and that's just a start. In school, some men are bullied if they exhibit any behaviors other than what groups of guys consider masculine. As adults, men can be fired or denied housing if they are perceived as being other than heterosexual. Even in societies where homosexuality is more or less acceptable (the U.S., for example), we still hear the occasional celebrity or politician utter a gay slur. Many religions still don't accept anything other than an idealized version of heterosexuality. I could go on and on with examples.

Now, we get to those gray areas - bisexuality; men who identify as straight but are curious; men who identify as straight and pursue romantic and sexual relationships with women, but like looking at cocks; men who identify as straight but like to wear their wives' underwear when she's shopping. These men are persecuted by some on both sides - people who identify as straight, and people who identify as gay. The former because they don't understand such behavior. The latter who believe that anyone who has ever noticed a penis must indeed by gay.

So, it's not as easy as taking "a break from any influences." You're asking many of these guys to turn the switch off on decades of their own socialization, peer pressure, and guilt. Many men succumb to fierce social and familial pressure to marry women - even though they might have homosexual or other urges. They marry women, and after years of a less-than-fulfilling marriage, start exploring surreptitiously some of their urges - all the while feeling guilt and shame.

Certainly, many women may not be comfortable in a relationship with a man who is bisexual or has other than purely heterosexual urges (although, I tend to think such men are unicorns - quite rare). And, yes, men should be encouraged to explore their urges - but this encouragement should start as part of their early sex education. Thinking that a 30 or 40 year old man can just step back and understand fully his sexual orientation after decades of socialization just isn't realistic - it's more likely to be a journey for him than a light bulb suddenly turning on.

 

[daftman]

Married for years but secretly and mostly exclusively get off to gay porn now...

It started as a novelty and was me increasingly pushing the proverbial porn boundaries, but now a days, despite being a long time, married straight man, I almost exclusively watch and get off to male gay porn.

me as well!

 

[daRose]

Married for years but secretly and mostly exclusively get off to gay porn now...

It started as a novelty and was me increasingly pushing the proverbial porn boundaries, but now a days, despite being a long time, married straight man, I almost exclusively watch and get off to male gay porn.

You have a favorite scene/site or porn star? Just curious lol question for any of you who consider yourself straight