Do you prefer masculine or feminine men?

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I think one of the reasons why myself and my fuckbuddy have been together and enjoy our casual hookups over the past few years, is because he is a very much Alpha Dominant Masculine Male Top and I take up a very submissive passive feminine bottom role. Because we allow the other to take up these roles that we both enjoy being in, I think thats why we not only love having the sex that we do, but also we dont seek a need to look or need anyone else.

If you enjoy your role and you have chemistry with your fuckbuddy and the sex is good, of course we have remained together.

Ironically while I dont like feminine men at all, I do love hot sexy trans girls that are very feminine.

I know my fuckbuddy prefers and desires for me to be feminine both acting and my mannerisms with him, which while we have sex I definitely always do. Even outside sex, I tend to be more feminine than I normally am. I happily take on the role of a doting wife which I enjoy. I think it works for us, because there is no confusion of the roles between us. While we are very much not equals in the bedroom, outside of it, we almost are, but definitely he is in charge. For me its enjoyable to have a man control and use me for his pleasure, the turn on is immense.
 
While I am very masculine in apperance and demeanor outside of sex in general public, with my fuckbuddy Im 100% definitely very feminine in the way I act, treat and have sex with him. He not only enjoys, encourages but also wants this. Its fortunate because it works for us. Interestingly, if I happen to stay with my fuckbuddy's place for a few days, I will definitely undertake a very feminine role here as well. Its the only time outside of sex that I am this way. I just think in my fuckbuddy's company its what we enjoy and like, there is no confusion of the roles and it also enhances the connection that we have whene we have sex.
 
While I am very masculine in apperance and demeanor outside of sex in general public, with my fuckbuddy Im 100% definitely very feminine in the way I act, treat and have sex with him. He not only enjoys, encourages but also wants this. Its fortunate because it works for us. Interestingly, if I happen to stay with my fuckbuddy's place for a few days, I will definitely undertake a very feminine role here as well. Its the only time outside of sex that I am this way. I just think in my fuckbuddy's company its what we enjoy and like, there is no confusion of the roles and it also enhances the connection that we have whene we have sex.
Good post. I definitely prefer feminine guys, both look wise and personality wise, and encourage them to take on the girl role in bed. My ex and I were a perfect match, he was almost like a sissy, he loved when I feminized him in bed and he wore lingerie for me all the time. Good times. Sadly it's hard to find guys like that.
 
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I've noticed many bi guys tend to prefer feminine guys meanwhile I've gotten the hots for the opposite, my type seems to be like a handsome dwarf lol (short, stocky, hairy)
So I was curious cause I kinda feel in the minority.
Bi here. If I fuck with another guy want him to be masculine. Feminine women masculine men.
 
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I wish this question was simple to answer. Might have avoided a lot of confusion in the first place. I’m not really into guys, but I am into cock. I love sucking a nice dick, I don’t really mind whether it’s a femboy cock, a masculine male or a trans lady.. as long as the dick is nice, I’ll surely love to get my mouth around it

…but when it comes to fucking that’s where the line gets a little blurry for me.. it mostly depends on the where / how the feminine role plays out, or who takes it.. if I’m the one doing the fucking, then I have a preference for pretty little sissy types and I prefer to be the man.. however, if I’m the one who dresses up, then I’d prefer to be fucked by masculine guys.

If I’m sharing a cock with a girl, then I’d prefer masculine guys with a cock big enough for both of us, but would still be happy to share a sissy too. I’m not really into cd on cd situations, I still like to keep the male / female dynamic. So, whether or not I prefer masculine or feminine guys, really depends on who else I’m with, and what part I play….

Damn, I even confuse myself sometimes ‍‍
 
I wish this question was simple to answer. Might have avoided a lot of confusion in the first place. I’m not really into guys, but I am into cock. I love sucking a nice dick, I don’t really mind whether it’s a femboy cock, a masculine male or a trans lady.. as long as the dick is nice, I’ll surely love to get my mouth around it

…but when it comes to fucking that’s where the line gets a little blurry for me.. it mostly depends on the where / how the feminine role plays out, or who takes it.. if I’m the one doing the fucking, then I have a preference for pretty little sissy types and I prefer to be the man.. however, if I’m the one who dresses up, then I’d prefer to be fucked by masculine guys.

If I’m sharing a cock with a girl, then I’d prefer masculine guys with a cock big enough for both of us, but would still be happy to share a sissy too. I’m not really into cd on cd situations, I still like to keep the male / female dynamic. So, whether or not I prefer masculine or feminine guys, really depends on who else I’m with, and what part I play….

Damn, I even confuse myself sometimes ‍‍
Are you sure you're legit bi and not one of those penis-loving paraphilia guys? lol You just admitted you're not attracted to men so it's a bit confusing.
 
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Are you sure you're legit bi and not one of those penis-loving paraphilia guys? lol You just admitted you're not attracted to men so it's a bit confusing.
Well.. I’ve got fed up of trying to figure that one out it’s kinda confusing for me too.. suppose it depends on your definition of bi.. being attracted to men, nope.. but having sexual feelings / desires towards members of both sexes.. I suppose wanting to suck cocks is a sexual desire..

I don’t really see myself as bi, but other people do.. I’m just me..
 
Well.. I’ve got fed up of trying to figure that one out it’s kinda confusing for me too.. suppose it depends on your definition of bi.. being attracted to men, nope.. but having sexual feelings / desires towards members of both sexes.. I suppose wanting to suck cocks is a sexual desire..

I don’t really see myself as bi, but other people do.. I’m just me..

So straight fluid i guess?
Especially if you don't care too much about their appearance but just their cock and behavior.
Normie straight might say you're gay.
But as someone who likes men but not so much cock, i think it is perfectly possible to be straight and like cock.
 
So straight fluid i guess?
Especially if you don't care too much about their appearance but just their cock and behavior.
Normie straight might say you're gay.
But as someone who likes men but not so much cock, i think it is perfectly possible to be straight and like cock.
I think hetroflexible is probably a good description.. it’s probably the one that I can relate to the most. Yeah, I think various types of people have their own agenda when trying to define it.. straight people would probably say I’m gay.. often, from a position of mockery and contempt.. I mean, it’s perfectly fine to joke about putting dicks in your mouth, but it’s just something that you just don’t do in reality. Then there’s also gay people who have tried to say I’m in denial and that I’m gay, that I’m in the rabbit hole and it’s just a matter of time.. I think possibly they also want to normalise it and make the point that everybody is a little gay..

Id say you’re right.. there’s all kinds of reasons why we fuck each other.. completely possible to be straight and like cock.

Me ? I know what I like.. I don’t really need to categorise it.. I just enjoy it :blush:
 
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