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This is a question about whether a gesture's meaning varies.
For my generation and location (61 y.o. in So California) sticking your middle finger in the air was always an extremely angry gesture. It was used as the ultimate dismissive in a conversation or argument and was almost always accompanied by a verbal "fuck you!" it also was used mostly by men, at least in my experience.
But now I keep seeing photos on the web of young women, usually in selfies, making this gesture at the camera. Does it mean something new or something more now? A sexy naked woman making an angry gesture is contradictory to me, unless perhaps she's making it to someone who said he was hung but isn't. I suppose the related question for "ask a man" is, "Do you find it attractive when a woman in a selfie is flipping you off?"
For my generation and location (61 y.o. in So California) sticking your middle finger in the air was always an extremely angry gesture. It was used as the ultimate dismissive in a conversation or argument and was almost always accompanied by a verbal "fuck you!" it also was used mostly by men, at least in my experience.
But now I keep seeing photos on the web of young women, usually in selfies, making this gesture at the camera. Does it mean something new or something more now? A sexy naked woman making an angry gesture is contradictory to me, unless perhaps she's making it to someone who said he was hung but isn't. I suppose the related question for "ask a man" is, "Do you find it attractive when a woman in a selfie is flipping you off?"