Edging/Cum Control

caprislutz

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Uhm hey. I’ve been wanking for at least around 7 years and I’ve always just had quickies. I’m looking fully find max pleasure. How would you recommend I find that unbelievable amount of self pleasure? I’ve tried edging and seriously can’t make it past like 6 minutes. Could you also tell me how to last longer, like is there an edging coach. Thanks !
 
Uhm hey. I’ve been wanking for at least around 7 years and I’ve always just had quickies. I’m looking fully find max pleasure. How would you recommend I find that unbelievable amount of self pleasure? I’ve tried edging and seriously can’t make it past like 6 minutes. Could you also tell me how to last longer, like is there an edging coach. Thanks !
Could I tell you? Ya.
Am I gonna? No.

There are many centuries of knowledge about enhancing male endurance, performance and pleasure. Most of “Eastern” origin.

Do you really think a guy would maintain a harem w/o a sexual reason?

Probably a good sized library worth available
 
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Uhm hey. I’ve been wanking for at least around 7 years and I’ve always just had quickies. I’m looking fully find max pleasure. How would you recommend I find that unbelievable amount of self pleasure? I’ve tried edging and seriously can’t make it past like 6 minutes. Could you also tell me how to last longer, like is there an edging coach. Thanks !
Kegel exercises.

I wish I would have discovered them when I was younger. Before doing Kegels, when having sexual intercourse, I was never able to hold back. When I got to the point, I would pull out and it would just shoot out. I could never delay ejaculation. The woman who I was with at the time even told me that I ejaculated too quickly. And went to the doctor and he explained to me that I should be doing the Kegel exercises to help with premature ejaculation

After I started doing Kegels. I could tell that was much more able to delay ejaculation. I would pull out during penetration right before ejaculation and watch my dick twitch as I was able to hold back. Then penetrate again and continue on. It really helped my sex life.
 
I can’t edge myself. It only works for me when someone else does it. I can never stop myself, but someone reading signs can and have kept me hard for hours. I’m sure I probably had a couple of years shaved off my life through the stress of being desperate to cum and being on the edge but being denied
 
Edging is about self control, and that is something that has to exercised. It gets stronger the longer you exercise, but only if you don't give up. When I edge, I go very slowly and as soon as I get the sensation that I'm about to orgasm, I stop. I wait until the sensation goes away, and then I start again.

You never let yourself go all the way. You don't "reward yourself" for being a good boy and not cumming, that's the point of edging. If you can only last 5 minutes without cumming, then that's your session. You put your dick away and suffer the blueballs. Then you do it again the next day, and the next day, and so on.

You allow yourself to orgasm only when you are free of the need to reach it. The delayed gratification is what will blow your mind.
 
Practise makes perfect. I normally edge to porn, and cum during sex. It’s hard to not cum watching/chatting, but I get so hard I am ready to explode, and I love that feeling. I can stay hard for hours. That means when I have sex, I have to take it easy, but when I cum, it’s huge and it feels amazing