Didnt know that being bi or gay or anything but straight is disrespectful to anyone... He specifically typed out h/she in his post. We use our eyes and ears and brains to observe the world around us and come to the conclusions that make the most sense to us. You want him to be straight because that gets you off. It’s your fantasy. You think it’s ‘disrespectful’ to consider that he might not be or that he might not even be one or the other...because you feel disrespected that anyone would shatter ur fantasy of his straightness. So please get off your high horse and seek help. Talk to someone about your internalized homophobia.Simply put, it's disrespectful to him. You keep pushing this narrative that he's bi even though he hasn't said so. Your personal experiences don't represent his. It just seems like you're projecting is all.