From what I have read, there is a lot of backlash toward these plastic fantastics as far as pornography is concerned, but I am more interested in knowing your honest opinions about implants as they would apply to a real woman that you might be involved with. For instance, would they disappoint you? Would you appreciate the fact that the implants likely help her personal body image? Would you favor a moderate breast augmentation over a more radical one? Or a certain style of implant? Feel? Appearance? Anything really.
A penny for your thoughts, if it pleases you.
Natural for certain; being real trumps every other consideration for me.
I hate that so many woman in porn/models have fake ones, they ruin their looks and sexiness for me. They are not
fantastic. Yuck.
I've been with one woman who had fake ones, not overly large like in porn; maybe a big C/small D cup. They looked ok, felt real, looked nice in clothes, but seeing them nude was a turn-off due to knowing they were fake. The problem with fake ones for me is psychological: I knew they were fake and it dehumanized her body a bit, and dehumanized the experience overall for me a little bit. I was conscious that I wasn't feeling a woman's real flesh, but rather something artificial encased in her skin. So much of sex and lust and attraction is in the brain, the primary sex organ.
Do women enjoy dildos as much as real penises?
I'd rather that a partner of mine not get implants. If she wanted to do it following a mastectomy, that's easy to understand why it would an issue for her psychologically and I wouldn't object at all.
I had a GF who was extremely self-conscious about her chest; her bra size was 32AA. I loved her breasts as much as any others I've experienced. They looked great, felt great... Wow. It was sad to witness her very low self-esteem over it. She was very pretty and had a great body--the sort of long, tall, slim, sleek model-like figure. To objectify her with numbers further, most would say she was an "8" otherwise--or overall an "8" as I'd say. She disregarded all of that beauty and only saw herself as very flat-chested hence unworthy. I couldn't convince her that it wasn't something that mattered me. If a woman's in that frame of mind, implants
might help her psychologically, but in the end I think the issue was a symptom of her poor self-image rather than a cause of it.
Never heard of breast lifts. If a partner wants it, I wouldn't object if it didn't involve implants, but I'd never suggest or ask a woman to alter her body for me in such a way. You accept people as they are in my book.
