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Yes. But my family is overwhelmingly populated by men. It seems we're only good at making boys lol (well I don't know about myself yet but I do not have blood related aunts or female cousins).
So we never had to deal, for instance, with mixed teenage boys and girls. All the women in my family came into it as adults, might I say.
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I’m only naked when everyone’s out of the house. Or when I’m sleeping.
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It seems that there may be a correlation between people who were raised in the city, versus people raised in the country, particularly farms and ranches. Perhaps the farming/ranch environment lends itself to more public nudity.
Naturally, there are urban nudists and people from the country who are never naked in front of their family members, just noticing some comments and thinking out loud here.
Naturally, there are urban nudists and people from the country who are never naked in front of their family members, just noticing some comments and thinking out loud here.
As I raised my family, there wasn't really a scenario where I would be nude around my children.
Not to say I was a prude, but it didn't feel necessary or appropriate. However since my oldest two sons have grown up (now aged 18 and 20) then we have no problem being nude around each other, such as in the gym showers, but we still wouldn't share a bathroom at home.
There have been occasions where the three of us have changed together at the gym or pool in recent years and have observed each other without any embarrassment. The only thing that has ever been mentioned is that me and my 18 year old are circumcised, whereas my oldest son isn't (being English, those of us sans-skin are in the minority).
We're all three broadly the same size flacid (long & thick) but obviously I have no idea how big they are when hard.
Not to say I was a prude, but it didn't feel necessary or appropriate. However since my oldest two sons have grown up (now aged 18 and 20) then we have no problem being nude around each other, such as in the gym showers, but we still wouldn't share a bathroom at home.
There have been occasions where the three of us have changed together at the gym or pool in recent years and have observed each other without any embarrassment. The only thing that has ever been mentioned is that me and my 18 year old are circumcised, whereas my oldest son isn't (being English, those of us sans-skin are in the minority).
We're all three broadly the same size flacid (long & thick) but obviously I have no idea how big they are when hard.
You all hung??
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grow up with pop and uncle who dont wear clothes i the house -- me and big bro gorw up same way
my pop and uncle lost they parents when they boys -- so tey grew up on farm down south -- like a foster home situation but they agreed they would work some hours there every week and try best in school -- and there were other boys there too with the same arrangement, some come and go but they said from half a dozen to a dozen usually there any given time. living in a barracks like -- building inside was one big room with attached shed -- a smaller single room with a toilet and urinals on one side and four shower heads along the opposite wall. each had like thir own bunk and locker i guess like mmiitary but they sayin was comfy had carpet and nice touches --- couches and lounge chairs tv and all. and snacks whenever they want fro the kitchen in attached building.
and none the boys were shy -- in summer they worked in drawers or naked a lot of the time cuz way off the the road and around hills -- and hot af -- and inside no a/c just ceiling fans and hot af there too -- and liked to save clothes longer and do less laundry -- so everybody stroll around however they feel and sleepin nude normal and morning time everybody do what they gotta do morning time. the owner was like a good father to them and they feelin it a good thing compared to bad home they was in on once -- so they did ok in school and liked the work on the farm -- and oh yeah the owner would pay them fair for hours worked -- and that be scheduled around school and sports - -mostly weekends --- and owner provide all they need and not hoard the benefits payments -- was a good cooking crew and everybody ate good. was a two week tryout period before committing -- wasn't like slaves or anything. pop and unky sayin they like the place and working there was like having a good job they would try to get anyway -- and otherwise was like a good home for em -- and they like livin where nobody care you be naked in the heat or stroll around how you feeling.
there were also full time workers living on the place too sleeping in another building -- pop and uncle say they werent much older than the bfoster oys living there. they tell us sometime they be conflict and fighting some but not too much cuz everybody got good understanding and cooperate for easier life -- and owner be like a real father best he could -- and he take alla boys to church sundays and have lots of contact with pastors teachers social workers everybody feelin everything solid at the place.
my father stayed on as a fulltimer after he turn 18 and owner let him stay in same barracks so can stay with my uncle cuz he a few year younger. both was in sports in school -- wrestling and track. the owner die and place get a professional manager when my uncle senior in high school -- when my uncle turn 18 he join the navy and got a regular ship job and also do some boxing and was pretty good and my pop he move north get into construction which he learn mostly down on the place from foster pop. so my pop up north he get married pretty soon and get my big bro and then me, and moms pass on when i was very little but i remember her some.
when she pass was very sad time i nly remember a little bit -- but my uncle come out the navy and come live with pop bro and me and team up with pop do construction contracting, renovations like that. they fix the house up real nice little by little and we boys help how we can and get that skill going -- we finish the upstairs a big bedroom for me n bro, nice like desks and bookshelves, nice couch tv area, nice bathroom fixtures one corner jacuzzi tub and good size marble pan under nice giant shower head -- aint build wall around it or door -- bathroom just hanging there in the open -- we told pop can leave that to finish like if he sell the house -- bro and me dont care about walls or door for ourselves since we comfy in nature -- so it still left to do even tho me and bro mostly move out the house and off to school a couple year now.
pop n unky sharing bedroom downstairs along back of the house got nice sliding doors out to deck with nice big bathroom open to deck too. big living dining room with vestibule hall for front door entry, then to one side big kitchen, and big utility room with washer dryer hot water tank n all -- they make like side entrance vestibule and build it out so it like a big wardrobe closet -- we in habit strip down get home soon as in the door -- and hang shix up or put in hamper or right in the wash. all our clothes we keeping in that like big wardrobe room -- so inside the house we living naked from first step inside.
garage attached to utility room we make a nice gym with weight racks benches and stationary bikes n eliptical along sides and wall mirrors and the rest like the center for floor mats for wrestling -- i did wrestlin all thru school and brother too and unky a good trainer for us. i also was on track and swim teams -- but wrestling my strength cuz was always shorter than most so needed edge from weight class to compete right -- even though i do sprint like a mfer and swim like a demon just aint got the stride and reach like the monster champs. i have get a lil growth spurt in college -- haha my bro he very very tall and got basketball scholarship -- but his dick aint no bigger than mine even tho im short -- haha -- pretty much we four got same size going on just about -- pop he lookin fattest to me, unky longest i think but difference i think negligible -- me n bro measure sometimes compare put em together -- unky come in one and he join that game. pop too serious for that shix haha -- unky more like bigger bro with us and pop the man of us all.
front door to street -- if anybody come to door there's t shirt and shorts hanging there to slip on if got to answer like for ups or cable guy whatever -- side door up the driveway toward back of house for close friend or anybody else know gonna be naked men answer that door you ring that bell. they some like order-in food guys coming that door cuz pop tell em after a few time he prefer that -- and if they cool with it it all good, and him and unky tip good. i been home time to time this past year and regular fedex guy knowing to come to that door and bldg supply guys -- pop n unky orderin lotta things alla time.
pop keep heat very strong all winter -- summer no a/c but nice updraft fan system keep the breeze flowin and air purify system keepin it fresh.
i will say this -- my pop and uncle are stone nudist and we get raised same way. it never like a thing to think about for me -- life always been this way -- even when moms with us i remember pop always nude in the house an so was me n big bro -- well i was after i dint need diapers.
and so four males living there no females all biology just out there, and coming up no mystery how im gonna be as a man. trust i do understand how some might think this is inappropriate for raising kids but im gonna tell you, coming up i thank god every day i raised this way. never no mystery how things gonna be with your body. i feel blessed.
homies all thru school coming over some strip down with us some dont but everybody know up front this how we living -- same with pop and unky friends -- like if they comin over watch the game some get in nature some aint.
all the years when we coming up pop and unky do bring home female from the club most weekends -- and keeping all that action in they big bedroom when we kids upstairs in our room cuz that happen late -- was times bro or me come down when pop n unky entertaining female for like go to the kitchen, and time we bump into somebody we aint met before just say hey and go about business is what pop tell just to do -- but i am shy with female and i go with purpose back upstairs fast cuz if i am nude around female always i get erection pop pop and i got embarrassed those days -- now of course this make life gooooooood.
finally when i was grown enough they hook me up with female too -- i had learning disabilities -- i have got thru lots of training for workarounds for that now -- and college hook me up with tutors so i got education along with athletic scholarship. but back then i get in some trouble being too trusting of sketchy females on my own -- once deep trouble -- so pop and unky start invite me in party with them -- make sure they knowing the females (sometimes i know they paying escort but some is you know friendly girls from the club) -- so they knowing not gonna take advantage of me, i'm gonna get the condom on every time, shix dont get too crazy, and nothing valuable go missing -- yeah when i was right age in the body was some catching up i had to do my mind so they help me out and make sure all good. college is good got good solid homies we looking out for each other alla time.
i guess i write a whole lot -- i think most on the topic -- i guess what im sayin is i grow up in nude house with my brother pop and uncle -- never closed doors that i can remember, never think about whether it ok doing anything a male gonna do in front of my family or them me. i really like readin how other male grow up like - i wont say more normal -- but like different from us -- like with females mom sisters like that - or if like it aint normal everybody naked alla time like us. anyway, thanks for readin my really long book here -- just i like writing it out -- it help me know what im thinking. dont be shy to say hey. xo jabbari
my pop and uncle lost they parents when they boys -- so tey grew up on farm down south -- like a foster home situation but they agreed they would work some hours there every week and try best in school -- and there were other boys there too with the same arrangement, some come and go but they said from half a dozen to a dozen usually there any given time. living in a barracks like -- building inside was one big room with attached shed -- a smaller single room with a toilet and urinals on one side and four shower heads along the opposite wall. each had like thir own bunk and locker i guess like mmiitary but they sayin was comfy had carpet and nice touches --- couches and lounge chairs tv and all. and snacks whenever they want fro the kitchen in attached building.
and none the boys were shy -- in summer they worked in drawers or naked a lot of the time cuz way off the the road and around hills -- and hot af -- and inside no a/c just ceiling fans and hot af there too -- and liked to save clothes longer and do less laundry -- so everybody stroll around however they feel and sleepin nude normal and morning time everybody do what they gotta do morning time. the owner was like a good father to them and they feelin it a good thing compared to bad home they was in on once -- so they did ok in school and liked the work on the farm -- and oh yeah the owner would pay them fair for hours worked -- and that be scheduled around school and sports - -mostly weekends --- and owner provide all they need and not hoard the benefits payments -- was a good cooking crew and everybody ate good. was a two week tryout period before committing -- wasn't like slaves or anything. pop and unky sayin they like the place and working there was like having a good job they would try to get anyway -- and otherwise was like a good home for em -- and they like livin where nobody care you be naked in the heat or stroll around how you feeling.
there were also full time workers living on the place too sleeping in another building -- pop and uncle say they werent much older than the bfoster oys living there. they tell us sometime they be conflict and fighting some but not too much cuz everybody got good understanding and cooperate for easier life -- and owner be like a real father best he could -- and he take alla boys to church sundays and have lots of contact with pastors teachers social workers everybody feelin everything solid at the place.
my father stayed on as a fulltimer after he turn 18 and owner let him stay in same barracks so can stay with my uncle cuz he a few year younger. both was in sports in school -- wrestling and track. the owner die and place get a professional manager when my uncle senior in high school -- when my uncle turn 18 he join the navy and got a regular ship job and also do some boxing and was pretty good and my pop he move north get into construction which he learn mostly down on the place from foster pop. so my pop up north he get married pretty soon and get my big bro and then me, and moms pass on when i was very little but i remember her some.
when she pass was very sad time i nly remember a little bit -- but my uncle come out the navy and come live with pop bro and me and team up with pop do construction contracting, renovations like that. they fix the house up real nice little by little and we boys help how we can and get that skill going -- we finish the upstairs a big bedroom for me n bro, nice like desks and bookshelves, nice couch tv area, nice bathroom fixtures one corner jacuzzi tub and good size marble pan under nice giant shower head -- aint build wall around it or door -- bathroom just hanging there in the open -- we told pop can leave that to finish like if he sell the house -- bro and me dont care about walls or door for ourselves since we comfy in nature -- so it still left to do even tho me and bro mostly move out the house and off to school a couple year now.
pop n unky sharing bedroom downstairs along back of the house got nice sliding doors out to deck with nice big bathroom open to deck too. big living dining room with vestibule hall for front door entry, then to one side big kitchen, and big utility room with washer dryer hot water tank n all -- they make like side entrance vestibule and build it out so it like a big wardrobe closet -- we in habit strip down get home soon as in the door -- and hang shix up or put in hamper or right in the wash. all our clothes we keeping in that like big wardrobe room -- so inside the house we living naked from first step inside.
garage attached to utility room we make a nice gym with weight racks benches and stationary bikes n eliptical along sides and wall mirrors and the rest like the center for floor mats for wrestling -- i did wrestlin all thru school and brother too and unky a good trainer for us. i also was on track and swim teams -- but wrestling my strength cuz was always shorter than most so needed edge from weight class to compete right -- even though i do sprint like a mfer and swim like a demon just aint got the stride and reach like the monster champs. i have get a lil growth spurt in college -- haha my bro he very very tall and got basketball scholarship -- but his dick aint no bigger than mine even tho im short -- haha -- pretty much we four got same size going on just about -- pop he lookin fattest to me, unky longest i think but difference i think negligible -- me n bro measure sometimes compare put em together -- unky come in one and he join that game. pop too serious for that shix haha -- unky more like bigger bro with us and pop the man of us all.
front door to street -- if anybody come to door there's t shirt and shorts hanging there to slip on if got to answer like for ups or cable guy whatever -- side door up the driveway toward back of house for close friend or anybody else know gonna be naked men answer that door you ring that bell. they some like order-in food guys coming that door cuz pop tell em after a few time he prefer that -- and if they cool with it it all good, and him and unky tip good. i been home time to time this past year and regular fedex guy knowing to come to that door and bldg supply guys -- pop n unky orderin lotta things alla time.
pop keep heat very strong all winter -- summer no a/c but nice updraft fan system keep the breeze flowin and air purify system keepin it fresh.
i will say this -- my pop and uncle are stone nudist and we get raised same way. it never like a thing to think about for me -- life always been this way -- even when moms with us i remember pop always nude in the house an so was me n big bro -- well i was after i dint need diapers.
and so four males living there no females all biology just out there, and coming up no mystery how im gonna be as a man. trust i do understand how some might think this is inappropriate for raising kids but im gonna tell you, coming up i thank god every day i raised this way. never no mystery how things gonna be with your body. i feel blessed.
homies all thru school coming over some strip down with us some dont but everybody know up front this how we living -- same with pop and unky friends -- like if they comin over watch the game some get in nature some aint.
all the years when we coming up pop and unky do bring home female from the club most weekends -- and keeping all that action in they big bedroom when we kids upstairs in our room cuz that happen late -- was times bro or me come down when pop n unky entertaining female for like go to the kitchen, and time we bump into somebody we aint met before just say hey and go about business is what pop tell just to do -- but i am shy with female and i go with purpose back upstairs fast cuz if i am nude around female always i get erection pop pop and i got embarrassed those days -- now of course this make life gooooooood.
finally when i was grown enough they hook me up with female too -- i had learning disabilities -- i have got thru lots of training for workarounds for that now -- and college hook me up with tutors so i got education along with athletic scholarship. but back then i get in some trouble being too trusting of sketchy females on my own -- once deep trouble -- so pop and unky start invite me in party with them -- make sure they knowing the females (sometimes i know they paying escort but some is you know friendly girls from the club) -- so they knowing not gonna take advantage of me, i'm gonna get the condom on every time, shix dont get too crazy, and nothing valuable go missing -- yeah when i was right age in the body was some catching up i had to do my mind so they help me out and make sure all good. college is good got good solid homies we looking out for each other alla time.
i guess i write a whole lot -- i think most on the topic -- i guess what im sayin is i grow up in nude house with my brother pop and uncle -- never closed doors that i can remember, never think about whether it ok doing anything a male gonna do in front of my family or them me. i really like readin how other male grow up like - i wont say more normal -- but like different from us -- like with females mom sisters like that - or if like it aint normal everybody naked alla time like us. anyway, thanks for readin my really long book here -- just i like writing it out -- it help me know what im thinking. dont be shy to say hey. xo jabbari
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this nice way to be -- how life should be lived with your bro. you blessed.
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yup -- i feel kinda bad for males aint grow up free like us. you blessed!
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good pop doing job right -- teach a lyo every day. we blessed!
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This is a great story to read, and you told it beautifully. I can literally picture in my mind the settings and the people you're describing. I didn't have an upbringing like that. My dad died very young, and was raised mostly by women, but I would have liked to have that comfortable bond with the men in my family like you seem to have. Good for you, Brother. It seems like you're a better man from your upbringing. Thanks for sharing this story.
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It was only recently when I realized how lucky I was to grow up in a home where being naked was completely normal.
I grew up in a non naked household. I don't even recall the last time my parents would have seen me naked.
A bud of mine grew up with four brothers and he told me someone was shirtless or naked pretty often. My friend said he and the brother closest to him in age would even shower together sometimes if there was a time crunch.
A bud of mine grew up with four brothers and he told me someone was shirtless or naked pretty often. My friend said he and the brother closest to him in age would even shower together sometimes if there was a time crunch.
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I grew up in a family where the nudity was normal. Or even, on some occasions, I had bath with my parents. It wasnt about sex. It was just natural. So, seeing my parents completely naked or being seen by them was just normal.
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thx pa, i do try my writing get better. oh yeah we all like know the life we get dont we. im sorry you losing you pop so young that must been hard. i know my big bro he remember more my moms before she pass than i do and when he talk about that good time he always cry a little but like not sad crying more sweet. even tho i aint regret nothing in my upbringing -- i always i wonder what it be like grow up more like you sayin you did -- with females around mom sisters whatever. i do respect females but very shy around em unless it just hookin up which at school happen most weekend with my crew. but i think i need like hang more with female -- female do like me for physical thing and think i'm cute and all but i choke when i try to talk with em -- i mean like females around school not the ones come for the parties. ah well -- life good in its mysteries aint it. haha. bless you, jabbari
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this sound so nice. i had one friend he live with just his moms and like ten years older sister -- and i be over his house like he be coming out the shower his mom dont think twice just come right in tell him this and that and him butt naked toweling off not thinking anything about it. he saying she a nurse but prolly be that way even she wasnt a nurse. haha.
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this very nice story -- nice when you find out you can be yourself with friends and their family.
I grew up in a house where nudity was discouraged ... heck even going barefoot was out. In college, I was invited to go to a beach with some friends. Only found out when I got there it was a nude beach. After 5 minutes of horror, I stripped and have been a nudist ever since. When at home I never hid my nudity. They knew I slept nude. They knew I gardened in the nude. They were completely fine with it. One often went nude around the house and the other whenever it was too hot. Everyone knew no one ever wore bathing suits in the pool.
It's so strange to me that people are so nonchalant about familial nudity. No judgement at all; it's just....different. Are most of the men who have had these experiences older or straight? I'm in my early 20s and from my perspective this type of stuff was more commonplace among older generations than among current ones. I read a couple of posts and it seems as though nudity among family members was platonic. I wonder if the feelings of "unbotheredness" of seeing male relatives nude would change if the viewer were part of the LGBT community? Hmm. Curious.
