Fears, orgasms then stop

[simbablk]

Well, i'v just try to talk about some solutions for my sex life.
I did'nt want to get someone here angry.
I think that my (French Canadian) English is to bad "maybe" for subjects like that.
I'm sorry. I'll found out for that kind of problems, somewere on the Web...

This was never about her - but about you. If you had started with it being about you, perhaps the responses would have been different. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[ShawnL9]

Leave her. Seriously, break up. If you aren't compatible physically then your emotional compatibility will suffer in the long run.

Don't you think she's being selfish? I'm not saying that she is, but don't YOU think that way? Yeah, see? It's never going to work for you.

Do both of you a favor and end it now before it becomes too much and you begin to resent each other.

Well it's not a option. We Love each other. I'v just try to found a "easy way" to make our love/sex relation great for HER and for ME.
She don't really seem to feeling great after that she geting her "fun" and then i need to stop... I feel guilty and frustrated (not mad) just kind of physicaly bad.

But i Love Her and in no way my sexual satisfaction will get over our Love.

 

[EllieP]

Well it's not a option. We Love each other. I'v just try to found a "easy way" to make our love/sex relation great for HER and for ME.
She don't really seem to feeling great after that she geting her "fun" and then i need to stop... I feel guilty and frustrated (not mad) just kind of physicaly bad.

But i Love Her and in no way my sexual satisfaction will get over our Love.

That's what I was trying to get to. The easy way out is to leave. But there happens to be a complication: you're in love.

Then keep falling in love with her and make things work. TALK to her. Tell her what you need.

Also, trust me on this: your need for sexual gratification will grow. Your love may or may not. I hope your love for each other always becomes more powerful than your physical needs. But you will need a release, and the release should come from your lover. If not, the alternatives may not always sync with your relationship.

Take care of things now while you're deeply in love.

 

[Theawakener77]

My girlfriend seam to really get fear wen we go to bed. We always starting slowly, at her rythm... Then she geting 4-5 orgasms in 10-15 minutes. Cool.
But after she can't handle it anymore, she's begging me to stop in tears. So i stop. Without having "my fun"... So it's not easy.
Same old story with about all my ex-Girlfriends.

Lub can't change nothinh, it's a torture for her body and for my desires.

Wow i want to know how you don’t cum yourself! Specially when giving her a orgasm that itself gets me off.