First Time Tips

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  1. likean00b

    likean00b New Member

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    Hello all.

    Im a SAVE - Still a Virgin, EH? - and I think thats about to change. Theres a girl ive been taking to for a while and I think we are close to actually having sex, so I thought I would join up and ask for some tips.

    A little bit about myself - 21yrold, 6ft 1in, 285lbs, cock is 6in x 5in, cut. She is more experience than I am, but I have had my cock sucked and ate her out.

    Any tips for a first timer / from someone also carrying around some extra fluff would be greatly appreciated.
     
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    Tab A goes into Slot B.
     
  3. redbear52

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    Have you worn condoms? Assuming you plan to use them, I would buy them and practice putting one or two on.

    Personally, I would just tell her you are a virgin. It may well turn her on. If she is reasonably experienced she might take the lead and you might learn a thing or two.
     
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    It might not last as long as you expect it to but don't be hard on yourself. The second time will definitely be longer :)
     
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    Might want her to show you the ropes. Let her guide you along.
     
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    sounds good idea.
     
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    It is possible that you might cum early, because it will be your first time...I do, but I'm lucky and I always stay completely hard (gotta make sure my lover gets hers). I guess it is the benefit of being young, but if you do and you go soft--go down on her. Remember sex is more than just penetration, that is the key to being great in the sack--because women need more to get off, but when you get them going...well there is no stopping them.
     
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    you got any tips for going down on them :p?
     
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    Like redbear said, bring a condom. Gentlemen carry their own.

    Also, do try to keep the lines of communication open with her during sex. The secret behind good dirty talk (as opposed to cribbing shitty dialogue from porn) is that you're actually communicating with each other. When she does something right, tell her she's amazing. When she looks at you, tell her she's beautiful. If she tells you something feels good, keep doing it and maybe ask something like "Yeah, you like that?" Keep checking in with each other like that and you'll quickly learn how to make each other weak in the knees.

    Good luck!
     
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    Tell her its your first time, then let her leed you. You will most likely cum fast, and thats to be expeted, But like my grand dad would say, dont go out on a date half cocked. When I was your age, I would always rub one off about an hour before I picked my date up. That way I could last longer. Women love a dood that can go and go.
    Good luck relax and have fun, you are for an amazing time,

    And by the way, "dont be fool, Wrap your tool"
     
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    THIS^ Beat your meat before you go and don't get anyone pregnant!
     
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    Brilliant advice! Both parts. Although I would amend it to 'bring SEVERAL condoms'. What if you have a breakage or want to go for a second or third round?
     
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    Be like a great Boy Scout. Be prepared. Extra condoms and practice placing on or two on before you leave the house. Of course take them off after trying them on and throw them away. Penis fluid can contain little babies.

    Place a new condom on each time you prepare to insert.

    Enjoy the experience and always remember, each time is always a learning experience.

    Enjoy life.
     
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    Try not to be too self conscious. Just have fun and enjoy yourself. Do NOT try to act super-macho or like some kind of stud. Basically forget EVERYTHING you have seen in pornos (ok, almost everything). She likes you enough to get this far, so you don't have to impress her anymore- except to show her how much you are enjoying yourself and her together. Do NOT be afraid to laugh.

    Be sure to come back and let us know how it went!
     
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    Forget every clip of porn you have ever seen, and get ready for a dose of reality. First, it feels good, damn good. Second, never ever call her bitch, whore, cocksucker or any other demeaning name. Believe it or not, bitches don't like that. Women don't either.

    Be as comfortable as you can, which is easier said than done. Learn to read her. Kiss if she wants to kiss, nibble, snorg, whatever. Find what makes her float. Hell, you already know what makes you roar.

    Men are like flying a WWI biplane - there's a joystick and that's about all you need. Women are like flying a 747 - there are so many controls it'll take a lifetime to learn. And to top it all off that same control might not do the same thing on the next flight!

    Enjoy, and hopefully you'll get to do it again.
     
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    I'm pretty sure I'll remember that bi-plane/747 analogy for a long time. Mostly because I'm secretly an airplane-nerd.
     
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    OP's penis is too small for this website.
     
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    i dont want to start up an arguement , but that was a bbit uncalled for and un neccersary dude
     
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    (You might consider printing out some of the comments from this thread, and show it to her or leave it where she can "accidentally" find it.)

    I really hope you two are talking about something like "life partners" or "marriage" before you add sex to your relationship. In particular, I hope this isn't a case of "Well, we have been dating for xx months, so it's time to have sex.", or (worse yet!) "I'm now xx years old, and I think all my friends are sexually active, so it's time for me to get laid.".

    To be honest, many - perhaps most - folks your age use condoms incorrectly and drift along in a sense of false security until they have a shocking surprise. Before having sex, you two DEFINITELY need to talk about this - in the daylight, not in her dorm room or the backseat of your car at 2:00 AM. Contraception and STD's are VERY REAL problems that you two need to solve TOGETHER - but "condoms" isn't the only answer - and, in this case, may not be a very good answer.

    Make sure she knows it's your first time! I'm glad you two have spent some time - at least several days, preferably a few weeks or even months - learning to pleasure each other to orgasm WITHOUT penetrative sex, before trying intercourse. For your first time it's best if two you have plenty of time available - a whole day, or overnight together; or even an entire weekend. And plenty of privacy. And comfortable surroundings, with toilet facilities - not the backseat of your Honda Civic, parked in a lover's-lane.

    For guys' first intercourse it's something like 95% who climax much too soon, and about 4% who can't get it up or lose their erection before they enter their partner. The last 1% - the lucky ones - have a partner who is caring and considerate, and knowledgeable about how to make it more (physically) pleasurable for you. She'll use her mouth or hands to help you to an orgasm just before attempting intercourse. With the edge taken off your arousal, you will have better control and be more aware of things when you are re-charged and ready to go (in about 5 - 10 minutes). While you wait for that, a gentleman will return the favor and help her to climax. That will make her open and lubricated - which also helps you last longer. When the moment arrives she may position you on your back and get on top, since most guys last longer when they are on their backs. (And she'll guide you to a smooth insertion. This avoids her pain, and your embarrassment, from you not having the target, or insertion angle, correct.) And if your release happens about 30 seconds after her vagina envelopes your erection, she will kiss you and hold you tightly and sincerely thank you for letting her be part of this significant event in your life. She will "read" your emotions, and give you some space or alone-time if you need it. Then she'll join you in some kind of activity - maybe taking a walk, or going for desert, or playing naked in bed. Around 30 minutes to a couple hours later you two may have sex again, and it will go MUCH better!
     
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    Stop trying to push your values onto someone else! Just because you believe it should be that way and it worked out well for you, it doesn't mean others feel the same way. :rolleyes:

    The OP, and any other virgins who are reading this, should have sex for the first time when it feels right for THEM (assuming the consent of their partner of course). If that means it happens when they're 25 on their honeymoon with someone they've been in love with for years, fine. If that means it happens when they're only just legal with a stranger they've known for five minutes, that's also fine. What matters is that it feels right to them and that it fits in with their OWN value system.
     
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