i fantasize about insertion of fruits(bananas)/vegetables(cocumber). I tried with the current gal i am seeing and although the banana was not thick as i am she complained about discomfirt and feeling too tight. It made me upset and complained about her being un willing about trying different things. I aplogized later as i trust her. But i can not understand. Btw, i use condom on the banana before inserting in. Any input to make her feel comfirtable ? since this issue related to women i think its a good section to post this ...