Tristessa said it well already, but I think it's worth repeating. The anal area (and prostate, for men) is an erogenous zone, like it or not. Maybe you don't like anal play, and that's fine, but enjoying the stimulation of an erogenous zone is a normal physical response having nothing to do with your sexuality. A man enjoying anal play does not make him gay any more than a woman enjoying oral makes her gay. It's sexual stimulation, plain and simple - it doesn't imply attraction to the opposite sex. :disappointed:
My apologies to you also.
You may be right, I'm not sure. I do know one thing - no woman is going to stick anything up my ass. It is a kink I can not endorse.