guys checking you out

[DeeDee36dd]

At my age (over 40) I admit I like it, as long as it doesn't get out of hand. I enjoy attention and on the weekends, I usually dress somewhat to grab some attention. It is an ego boost and a reason to hit the Stairmaster every night.:smile:

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

Im not one that gets attention, but as long as it isnt crude or inapproperate A compliment is a complement, however wit that being said it is all in the delivey.. There is nothing worse than when your out for a quiet evening, dressed up and feeling good and some stupid kid decides to call out some extremely crude sexist remake at the worst time, it can actually make you (me) feel alot worse and self concious

 

[AlteredEgo]

In public, I often find attention embarrassing. It makes me uncomfortable, and makes me feel like I have lost control over something. I'd much prefer that the guy be shy and look away when I catch him. Then the ball is back in my court. I do not like being approached by strangers; it makes me feel usafe. I'd rather do the approaching. I have done the approaching. I don't think my sentiments are common, however.

 

[lightninggirl]

i'm a "head-turner," and often get whistles and catcalls, etc. and NO, i'm not conceited - it's a fact. my daughters get a total kick out of it, and have a "theme song" for this behaviour ... they sing, "mom's milkshake brings all the boys to the yard..." whenever i get catcalled. the dance that goes with it is hilarious.

anyway, as other ladies stated, it depends on the guy - but not so fast! even if he's a hot, well-built 22-y.o well-dressed abercrombie model, if his actions creepy and leery then it's just disgusting and disrespectful. when an older (60s-70s) unwashed homeless dude makes a comment but is polite about it, it's sweet!

most preferred behaviour ... a guy notices me, doesn't make a verbal comment, doesn't leer and ogle, but has a prolonged, polite stare. then when i notice him, he SMILES as he makes eye contact ... and then looks away. maybe glances back, but just glances. no winking (that's so TACKY!!!) or any other gesture.

 

[HazelGod]

most preferred behaviour ... a guy notices me, doesn't make a verbal comment, doesn't leer and ogle, but has a prolonged, polite stare. then when i notice him, he SMILES as he makes eye contact ... and then looks away. maybe glances back, but just glances. no winking (that's so TACKY!!!) or any other gesture.

Have you been spying on me...?

 

[RnR]

Depends on the guy.

Ditto.

Renee

 

[RnR]

Interesting enough, R gets REALLY turned on when guys check me out...even asks me when we are apart if anyone hit on me. (Which happens occasionally.)

I like to tease him by telling him it happens all the time--but don't tell, it's my secret!

Renee

Ditto.

Renee