Sorry for the late update but I forgot about the thread. So a few weeks ago I bought a anal vibrator called the vibe. I felt the vibration and but not pleasure. After a while it actually started to hurt. Sometimes I get some pelvic pain after cumming, I think it's because the prostate swells up. Maybe it didn't even locate the prostate. I haven't even bottomed before and thought I want to, this has me concerned that I might get nothing from it. Especially since I've read up on what it feels like for other people. I did make an appt with a urologist just for good measure to make sure everything is fine. I must be doing something wrong.