her HUGE ex

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    Just wondering for the other average guys out there....Do you care if ur girlds ex/last fuck buddy is really huge? Or does this not bother you?
     
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    ive never had a problem with it, and she doesnt seem to mind the dramatic change in size, i believe he was 8.5" long, more than twice mine
     
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    I don't care in a "bad" way, lets just say. At first, when I found out my wife's ex-boyfriend was bigger, I was a little intimidated though, and kind of more reserved/shy around him (he was a friend of hers before they dated). I suppose that was in part because I was sort of in awe over the size thing and would sort of have it in the back of my mind that he had hit places in my own girlfriend/wife I couldn't even reach, but also because she was regaling me with the stories of their sexual escapades in bed so I felt a little embarrassed in a way almost like he could see right through me and know that.

    But hearing about him with her actually made the whole thing into a turn on of sorts, and made me more comfortable with the idea of an MFM which we've never done but fantasized about frequently as a result, which is a big part of why I'm now on this site.
     
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    true...so it doesnt worry you that she will want bigger? and go back to him? or another big guy?
     
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    She got with him after breaking up with me and then ended up coming back to me in part because the relationship wasn't progressing beyond sex, even though the sex was good, so I don't really worry about her going back to him, especially now that we're married, and she isn't the type to cheat.

    We have engaged in talking about the ex though and fantasizing about her with him or another guy joining us, not always focusing on the size thing, though sometimes that is thrown into the mix too, so I guess I know she does kind of want a bigger guy, but at least I'm open to possibility of a threesome with another guy or her ex, so if she ever really wanted it, we could do it. It's more her conservative background holding her back, even though she is extremely kinky, doing just about anything two people can do together, but adding a third would be a big step to take for real no matter how much talking and fantasizing we've done.

    Plus the thing about fantasizing is this: I could fantasize about or want another girl, or the whole Victoria's Secret Angels team, for that matter, but doesn't mean I'm going to pursue it just because I'd want it. Everyone has fantasies, most of which may never get to be lived out, but there is nothing in particular about her fantasizing about a larger guy that implies she is more likely to act on that then other people are on their fantasies.
     
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    She had him. She left him. She chose you. End of story.
    You must have something she wanted, more than she wanted him and his big dick.
     
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    Yeah, it would bother me. If the guy was really huge, like above 8x6 or something, I'd probably lose interest in the girl.
     
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    This theory assumes she dumped him or broke up with him, which is obviously not always the case.
     
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    I fancy myself fairly large but I think it would be a huge turn on for me to have my wife and I in a MFM with an even larger guy. I've fantasized about it like you, but I'm not sure if the wife would be down with it. Fortunately, she's happy with what she's got (me) and I'm the largest she's had.
     
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    Exactly! That's why I'm not so completely hung up on it or wrapped up in it like I've seen some guys get. She's admitted the sex was great and she liked the size thing, and he was more experienced than I was at the time, but I definitely made a better boyfriend and had more to offer her over all.

    Plus the reason for our breakup was because someone told her lies about me and she found out or realized they weren't true, otherwise we would've never broken up in the first place.

    She did break up with him, though apparently we sort of had a little bit of an overlap period when we started seeing eachother again before she officially broke it off with him.
     
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    Well she is into the idea of it. She likes talking about him, watching MFM porn, we've got a larger vibrator for her, and even do double penetration on her, which was entirely her idea. It's just hard for her to take such a leap as to actually add a third, and I think she is scared of the consequences, though enticed and turned on by it, and I'd certainly never force the idea!
     
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    I completely agree with KTF40 - I didn't think I would care until I found myself in the situation that I'm in now. Maybe if I liked the girl more I could get over it over time, but this one? not so much
     
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    As much as I'd like to ignore that if I found out about it, it would probably cause me to not want to be with the girl.
     
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    It use to bother me to no end that is why I origanally came to this site, but I could care less now. Through research and experimentation I have successfully hit every spot in her that is there to hit and I have surpassed every lover she ever had. I make her squirt and her orgasms are so powerful she cries sometimes.
     
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    This is an interesting thread - my wife's Ex was much MUCH bigger than me. I first found out about his size the first time she performed oral sex on me. I was amazed at how easily she could deepthroat me, taking my entire cock AND balls in her mouth without any effort at all. So I asked her - "Where did you learn to deepthroat like this?" And she answered casually: "I spent 3 years practicing on a big hose" (that is the term she used: "big hose"). Other guys might have been offended, but I wasn't. On the contrary I was very turned on - because I knew she had left him for me. So I was very excited to learn that she left a guy with a huge cock to be with me and small dick.

    Ever since then, comparison between his "big hose" and my tiny cock has been a major part of our sex life. I just love to hear her talk about the incredible contrast between the two. It's a big turn on for me to be told how huge and powerful his cock was compared to mine. I love it!

    VJ
     
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    i think my ex cared a lot that I had sex with guys that were bigger than him; but he knew how to use his well it got out of his head...... sorta...
     
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    My previous FWB was not only bigger than my current...but he was also the best sex I've ever had. My current man knows both facts. He is not small...just not as big as I'm used to. I think it bums him out and he's also intimidated by my sexual needs and preferences.
     
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    Did he ask you or did you divulge that info, because if its the former then that is quite inconsiderate imo, here you are with a new partner and you not only tell him he is smaller than your ex but that sex with the ex was the best you ever had?

    Methinks this relationship will be very short-lived and not just because of this. How would you feel if a new partner divulged something like that to you? That their previous partner had the tightest pussy ever and sex?
     
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