Regardless of your actual orientation and/or your "outness/in-ness" we live in a pretty straight world. So what was the last homoerotic thing that a buddy did for or with you that was out of the ordinary, unexpected, or otherwise in retrospect "kinda hot" ? Some examples: -loaning you clothing like underwear, swimsuit, jockstrap etc that some guys would NEVER be comfortable doing -gave you a sports-minded slap on the ass "good game" & you didn't expect it -had to give you medical help, like helping you into the shower when you were incapacitated/wearing a cast, etc -got naked with you unexpectedly, like at a health club, or when changing in the same room together, etc. What made it seem kinda erotic to you? ME: I was on a business trip a couple weeks ago, and a younger colleague had her cute husband along. We were out bowling, and the lounge was warm. I took off my dress shirt to strip down to just my white tee shirt, and he said, "hey- I can see your goodman wear underwear" reading the brand on the red waistband of my underwear. His wife never saw, but I thought it was kinda hot that he noticed and said something. Another one: Same business trip. We were out a different night, and it was a different mixed group of sales people getting hammered in the back room of a private bar rented for the corporate party. Everyone was getting loud and wild- and one of the guys was describing how awesome the cover band was who played at the event the night before. He gets up and was playing air guitar and thrusting and performing gyrations- and going on and on about how the guy was both technically amazing, and "a rock GOD." To make his point loud and clear, he tops it off with, "DUDE, I'M THE STRAIGHTEST GUY HERE, BUT I'D BE TOTALLY DOWN FRONT GIVING HIM ORAL PLEASURE..." (showing how awesome this guitar player was) while imitating some intricate head with his fist and mouth. Everyone just laughed as he hammed it up. Repression, anyone? But, strangely hot.