homoerotic behavior

A few nights ago I took a friend out to dinner for his birthday to one of his favorite resturants. It very dark lit and and quiet even though the place was crowded. We both ordered our food and when it arrived I asked if he wanted to try it. I grabbed my fork and cut a piece and reached over to hand it to him. To my suprise he leaned over and bit a piece off instead. I was a little shocked.
 
Boy, you never cease to amaze me with your open-minded and salacious attitude. What a wonderful example of a new age male!
I have a habit of surrounding myself with likeminded yet in many ways fundamentally different people. I call them friends.

At no point would something like this
Other than my best buddy sucking me off last night, I can't think of anything. ;-)

Come up.

We roll as a unit, not roll on each others unit :thumbsdown2:
 
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Haha, my mind hates that term, "new age." A lot of the books and things called "New age" are really some of the oldest teachings, one could just pick up the Bhagavad Gita or the new testement.

Oh ya, I've jerked off with some of my friends, I've worn there boxers, slapped there ass, told them I'd fuck them hahaha.......
 
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I have a habit of surrounding myself with likeminded yet in many ways fundamentally different people. I call them friends.

At no point would something like this


Come up.

We roll as a unit, not roll on each others unit :thumbsdown2:


A mind is a terrible thing to waste.
 
went to some business trip with some foreign senior officer from my office and stayed at villa with private outdoor jacuzzi on the back yard. in the evening after we back from business meetings, we usually get undress and jumped to the jacuzzi together for relaxation. we ended up drinking beer while talking many things in and outside the jacuzzi for hours and still naked. the next day i woke up earlier and i had to woke him up for breakfast and we had meeting that morning. when i planned to knock his bedroom's door, it was unlocked. i entered the room and saw him slept naked under the blanket. i woke him up and he walked to the bathroom naked, did some stuffs there and walked out from bathroom still naked. there were lots of nudity during the trip. seemed like we were comfortable being naked in front of each other, so we didn't bother to cover up. we also watched tv naked once in the evening after jacuzzi and before bed. we even shared bathroom. we both naked in the same bathroom. he showered and i brushed my teeth. well, he did ask my help to soap his back while he was showering and i was still brushing my teeth. i help him out and i also told him to trim his bush a bit, because at the beginning it was way too many. and he did. because the next day i saw his bush trimmed. a lot of nudity and probably near-homoerotic activities during the trip. however, nothing sexual. it was a very casual nudity. well probably for some people it appeared homoerotic.

This to my way of thinking, is 100% perfectly normal behaviour. This is the way we grew up in the 70s and no-one gave this behaviour a second thought.
 
I have a habit of surrounding myself with likeminded yet in many ways fundamentally different people. I call them friends.

At no point would something like this


Come up.

We roll as a unit, not roll on each others unit :thumbsdown2:


I can see the homophobic neanderthals are alive and well on on this site. And people actually think that some progress is occurring in male attitudes. I think not. :confused:
 
I can see the homophobic neanderthals are alive and well on on this site. And people actually think that some progress is occurring in male attitudes. I think not. :confused:

I know Gecko doesn't need me or anyone to come to his defense but figured it wouldn't hurt to give my opinion. I think your post is unfair. Based his past posts I have never found Gecko to be homophobic or intolerant in any way. Even he above post with shin you take issue states nothing that might be construed as homophobic. In his inimitable style he merely says he does not swing that way. He makes no judgment on gays or homosexual sex. Though I am not gay, I would be surprised if many of the gay member would disagree with my assessment.
 
The other week at work two fellow workers sandwhiched me and proceeded to dry hump me, followed by the guy in front to give me a love bite on the neck.

A good mate of mine tends to kiss my cheek or lick it when we are out drinking haha.
 
I can see the homophobic neanderthals are alive and well on on this site. And people actually think that some progress is occurring in male attitudes. I think not. :confused:
Im not remotely homophobic. Thats like me calling you a judgmental whore despite not knowing anything about you. Simply uncalled for.
 
I can see the homophobic neanderthals are alive and well on on this site. And people actually think that some progress is occurring in male attitudes. I think not. :confused:

I do not see any homophobia in his posts, whatsoever.

To the OP, the most I've done is loaned some of my clothing to friends. I'm not a touchy-feely type.
 
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For every 1 proposition I've received from a "gay" guy I've received a dozen from "straight" guys. When I've taken it to the next level almost all of them tucked their tails between their legs and run away like scared babies.
The work atmosphere was very homophobic and hostile even though it was at an international company known for its gay friendly policies and benefits. There were several out associates and they weren't victims of open descrimination.
I've tried to figure it out in my own mind but every time I think I figured the folks out something happens that totally shatters my summation.
 
There's some kind of mysterious bonding that goes on when you help a younger guy tie a tie. My son's college friend needed tolearn to tie a bow tie, and I stood behind him and helped. It didn't really feel homoerotic; more like bonding in a small way. the term "homosocial" comes to mind. Look it up on wikipedia.

Very true. I work in a high school and over the years there have been times when there's the situation with a kid who doesn't know how to tie a tie and needs one right now. On myself I can tie a tie blindfolded but I can't do it "backwards" whilst facing and tying one on someone else. Being very aware of personal space and the "mysterious bonding" issue so aptly described above I always elect to tie the tie on myself, pointing out the steps as I go and then loosen it enough to get it over my head and then put it on the kid in question. I don't need over-hyper homophobic students or staff members walking by and seeing me crotch-to-butt behind a male student, arms around him tying a tie! :tongue:

And, back on topic, sadly none of my str8 male friends have ever done any of the things described in this thread beyond the all-too-brief guy hug. :frown1:
 
seeing me crotch-to-butt behind a male student, arms around him tying a tie! :tongue:

You know, I never really thought about putting on a tie or helping a guy do up a tie as erotic, but when you stated the whole crotch to butt from behind scenario if you are helping him put it on from behind and have to lean over his shoulder to see if you and him are doing it right, there is quite the gay undertone of your crotch rubbing up against the other dude's buttocks.

Reminds me of sometimes if you are helping pulling out a mate's collar from his jumper or even lending a hand tying his tie from the front that sometimes you are standing so close to one another that your crotches sometimes to rub up against one another if you both are really close standing together.

Added to that, there is something to be said of being adorable when seeing two guys helping each other getting ready to go out or get dressed for everyday things. It requires a certain amount of intimacy and letting your guard down, especially if its a one on one situation, and when it is one on one with no fear of group peer pressure to ' keep up appearances ' as it were it can sometimes lead to some very close bonding experiences.
 
Once when I was a kid, maybe 14, I was at a sports club with my best friend. When we were changing after having been swimming my friend found that the string on his speedo was knotted way too tight. He could not get it untied. Eventually he asked me to help which I did. At the time I never thought anything of it. We were both straight and there was nothing at all sexual but in hindsight it did require a a certain amount of intimacy for one guy to help another untie his bathing suit.
 
And the more I think about this thread I tend to view this simply as brotherly affection and love NOT homoerotic. Why must we put a homosexual spin to things that are normal male intimacy, closeness and friendship? This to me is sad. And in some ways depressing. I for one, if honest, would love and yes enjoy a huge manly hug from my best friend. What's funny - most team sports, military, and paramilitary groups have more groppinh and fondling going on than most would see as normal - I know first hand. I don't call it gay or bi - I call it being MALE.
 
there is something to be said of being adorable when seeing two guys helping each other getting ready to go out or get dressed for everyday things. It requires a certain amount of intimacy and letting your guard down, especially if its a one on one situation, and when it is one on one with no fear of group peer pressure to ' keep up appearances ' as it were it can sometimes lead to some very close bonding experiences.

Absolutely. My problem is that anytime I have been involved with it it has been as an adult/teacher-to-student and these days one has to be extremely careful, no matter how innocent the situation. :sigh1:
 
Absolutely. My problem is that anytime I have been involved with it it has been as an adult/teacher-to-student and these days one has to be extremely careful, no matter how innocent the situation. :sigh1:

Its a shame that such an innocent act could be used against you in a malicious way, but yeah I guess teachers have to be really careful in case some bad accusations go around. Which is funny since in shows like Glee they show the teacher hugging a student and having one on one conversations with them that are quite intimate yet they seem to show no bad repercussions of it, yet then again its a tv show and they dont mirror the reality of how paranoid and vindictive some people can be.