homoerotic behavior

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

How in hell is this erotic? In several instances, you helped out men. That’s it, nothing more. Nada. Zip. Bupkus.

I found it highly erotic because the drunk man was straight and there were multiple times that I helped guys in the fitting rooms and they would start to get boners. Who are you to determine what is homoerotic? You don't like then stfu and move on.

 

[deleted19883]

Yea a friend of mine pissed out the door of the tent without even going outside when he thought I was asleep. Too bad I'm no into him that way, but it is fun. I also rigged up an outdoor shower; it's fun to be bareass outside with just a tarp blocking people's view and have that be okay.

LOLOL I grew up on my uncles farm.
He rigged up 4 showers on the outside of the barn. The showers faced the back corn field. ( about 15 feet away)
After we we would work the field we would all shower there goof off an toss a wet nerf football around.

You pups know what a nerf football is........ LOLOL its not a video game you actually have to go outside to play it! lolol

 

[Jake1973]

LOLOL I grew up on my uncles farm.
He rigged up 4 showers on the outside of the barn. The showers faced the back corn field. ( about 15 feet away)
After we we would work the field we would all shower there goof off an toss a wet nerf football around.

You pups know what a nerf football is........ LOLOL its not a video game you actually have to go outside to play it! lolol

I love outdoor showers. If you are doing yard work or playing sports or whatever and come home dirty and sweaty there is nothing like it.

 

[nicnic]

I love outdoor showers. If you are doing yard work or playing sports or whatever and come home dirty and sweaty there is nothing like it.

I remember at one camp they had a cinder block shower house with no roof. A bunch of guys would cream in and shower together under the open sky.

 

[Jake1973]

You pups know what a nerf football is........ LOLOL its not a video game you actually have to go outside to play it!

Where do you put the batteries?

 

[deleted19883]

I love outdoor showers. If you are doing yard work or playing sports or whatever and come home dirty and sweaty there is nothing like it.

ABSOLUTELY
I was camping one time the showers were out doors
took my beer in with me -- SHOWER BEER YEAH!

it was really difficult NOT TO get hard

 

[nburbsbiguy]

I love outdoor showers. If you are doing yard work or playing sports or whatever and come home dirty and sweaty there is nothing like it.

The house where we spend the summer has an outdoor shower. I use it every day. Not when it's below 50 or raining too hard, but if it is a light rain I will bring a towel in a plastic bag and still go in. It's enclosed, but on a private side of the house next to the laundry so I strip down inside and walk to the shower buck nekkid. Here's a pic of me in the shower.

 

[teddybaerli1]

A very close friend of mine moved away a while back. He was visiting town again and stopped by with a friend of his. After chilling for a while I told him he could spend the night at my place. When his friend left I was going to the kitchen and he randomly approached me midway, gave me a kiss on the cheek and a hug and said it's so nice seeing you again, I missed you.
Not homoerotic in my book, but others may think so.
We had a beautiful friendship that included watching porn and jacking off together.
ps I suspect he's on this site but I can't confirm.

That's a very lovely report, sweet!

 

[bosceltic]

Brian - Super reporting job!

It’s just hard to imagine how long this guy has been wondering about things and wrestling with the image he has of himself. It is almost like he is the only guy he has ever known, and is just discovering there are others like him.

It is like seeing a caterpillar transforming into a butterfly. On a bigger scale it causes me to wonder how many other guys there are out there who are going through life with so many unanswered questions about their own nature.

You make the call about moving this adventure to its own discussion topic. It shouldn’t take more than a couple of good sentences in a new thread to move the adventure forward.

Seems to me the next meeting should include trading full-body massages.

Or if the next meeting is to include J, then Aaron may find it interesting to see you guys demonstrate some “activities” for him. …. But there I go scripting again.

Looking at other mammals as a reference bisexuality is much more common than people think. Even just genuine curiosity is probably even more common. What a repressed world we live in.

 

[622675]

Looking at other mammals as a reference bisexuality is much more common than people think. Even just genuine curiosity is probably even more common. What a repressed world we live in.

There are two kinds of people in the world. There are those who ask questions and discover new things. And there are those who would rather be told what to think and spend their energy justifying that process.

Regrettably, it is not often that the latter group ever changes in to seekers.

And it is regrettable that we all have our blind spots.

**One of my favorite concept pictures from the late grate TV program “Grim”

 

[nicnic]

At the gym the other day, there were two straight muscle bros working out together. At some point, one invited the other to feel his arm after an intense set. This led to some feeling and comparing between them, pretty quick and not sexualized. Just assessing each other's gains.

 

[Chrysippus]

At the gym the other day, there were two straight muscle bros working out together. At some point, one invited the other to feel his arm after an intense set. This led to some feeling and comparing between them, pretty quick and not sexualized. Just assessing each other's gains.

Then how is this ‘homoerotic’?

 

[nicnic]

Then how is this ‘homoerotic’?

Homoeroticism is different from overt homosexual behavior. Obviously, homosexually includes homoeroticism. But homoerotic behavior also happens between straight men who don't desire sex with each other. Ass slaps in sports, etc.

 

[Chrysippus]

Homoeroticism is different from overt homosexual behavior. Obviously, homosexually includes homoeroticism. But homoerotic behavior also happens between straight men who don't desire sex with each other. Ass slaps in sports, etc.

Oh yeah, right... I hugged and kissed my dad and slapped my brothers’ asses, but it sure wasn’t homoerotic. Have another piece of imaginary pie.

 

[deleted19883]

At the gym the other day, there were two straight muscle bros working out together. At some point, one invited the other to feel his arm after an intense set. This led to some feeling and comparing between them, pretty quick and not sexualized. Just assessing each other's gains.

The actions of what the guys were doing may not be “erotic” to you or “homoerotic”.

Eroticism rests inside the mind of the observer.
I find naked guys talking in a locker room erotic, homoerotic because it’s two males.

Many other guys view a locker room as a place to piss and change clothes after a work out.

 

[Brightonwankbuddy]

Sometimes I'll say something about taking my shirt off because I'm hot, and he'll say he doesn't care if I walk around naked.

Just jerk off with him already!!

 

[NHwrestling87]

a group of three guys came into the sauna the other day, straight as far as I could tell. The guy with the best body sat with his towel gaping open, I had a great view of his cock sitting across from him, his friends couldn't see it though. I went out to get some water and when I came back in he had taken the towel completely off and was just leaning against the wall with his legs spread out, full view of everything, his friends were a little uncomfortable but it was hot, I could see them checking him out....maybe they were even a little envious at his confidence? either way I was rock hard watching it all go down

 

[Chrysippus]

There are two kinds of people in the world. There are those who ask questions and discover new things. And there are those who would rather be told what to think and spend their energy justifying that process.

So there are only two kinds of prople in the world, hmmmm. That’s illogical and reductionist, all to suit your point of view: those who are curious and adventurous and, well, sheep who are propagandists.

A great thinker you’re not; impartial and objective, you’re not. Opinionated, you are.
Some day you should try to be more than clever.

 

[622675]

So there are only two kinds of prople in the world, hmmmm. That’s illogical and reductionist, all to suit your point of view: those who are curious and adventurous and, well, sheep who are propagandists.

A great thinker you’re not; impartial and objective, you’re not. Opinionated, you are.
Some day you should try to be more than clever.

Chrysippus,

With your four-sentence comment, you have provided a great example of the characteristics you portray me as having.

That said, I would really like to turn the other cheek and at least wave the white flag (if that is still a politically correct color).

I am willing to take your challenge “to try to be more than clever”. That challenge implies learning and I honestly believe you have a great deal to offer as a resource in many areas. Your comments are often well organized and clearly presented.

However, there is one big problem. Rule one in just about any learning theory is that it is most difficult to teach those who don’t trust you.

Your comments indicate that you have made trust and teaching work with your immediate family. So I am guessing that it may be the nature of the Internet medium that is working against your trust building persona here.

I would be pleased to find a way to benefit from your thoughts without needing to deal with the bit of poison that always appears to be dusted around at your motivational level.

 

[nicnic]

@levi101 and @Chrysippus, a truce sounds like a good idea. Especially because this thread has veered so far off topic.