How is it to be not 100% Straight as a Man?

[21512181]

I am here some weeks, haha and I think I made a name out of me J lol (proudly 205 followers lol) and most of you, are not 100% Straight. Lot of are like 80/20 or less well 50% Straight 50 Gay. I now again, curious, and I not can ask GAY men because, I am not allowed in the section there.

I hope I am allowed to ask STRAIGHT men about this now. Otherwise I would get my 2 caution

I hear a lot of stories like, how a Gay men can turn a straight men into gay or at least….some other LGPSG+. I was kissed sometimes from women, and touched too. And for me it was not what I want! I want a man, I want to feel his arms around me, his strength, I need to feel his muscles and his member hard against me and most of all when I get kissed, I need to feel his stubble his manly taste his erotic arousal, his men odour……..only written that I get hot and horny haha!



So dears, how can it be, that straight men, can be turned to gay bi anything???? What makes you 50% Gay? What turns you around?


And the most importang question for me is, Can a Gay man turn to be hetero?

 

[playklax01]

It's not a matter of someone being 'turned into' something else. A gay guy can't turn a straight guy gay, however he could awaken feelings that were being repressed or undiscovered. Most people are just born the way they are. Some see both sexes as attractive and are open to being with either. Some straight guys are 99% straight, but there may be an occasional time that a male arouses him unexpectedly and he acts on it. With us generally being a more tolerant and open society, things aren't as rigid as they once were so there's a lot more openness to say you're 80/20 or 50/50 or whatever. Especially younger people, they seem to be very open to experimenting with everyone. And there's nothing wrong with that!

I don't really think a gay guy can 'turn' hetero (unless they 'found god' or something), as at that point they are usually pretty sure they're gay. Heteros can 'turn' (but not really) gay, not due to some magic spell or something, but because something wakes up in them, or their upbringing told them otherwise, or they were just lying to themselves.

As a close friend always said, "Everyone is a little gay, aren't they?". I agree with that question, as I feel at some point everyone had at least 1 moment when they saw someone of the same sex and considered it, even for the briefest of moments. I never commit 100% to anything, so I put 99/1 on my profile. I never had sex with a woman (made out with some drunk, for fun, but who hasn't?), but if the opportunity with the particular right one came along, I wouldn't necessarily be opposed. I don't think girls are icky or anything, some gays do.

Hope that answers some of your questions. And these are only my opinions on the matter. Others may feel differently.

 

[Grind_]

I am here some weeks, haha and I think I made a name out of me J lol (proudly 205 followers lol) and most of you, are not 100% Straight. Lot of are like 80/20 or less well 50% Straight 50 Gay. I now again, curious, and I not can ask GAY men because, I am not allowed in the section there.

I hope I am allowed to ask STRAIGHT men about this now. Otherwise I would get my 2 caution

I hear a lot of stories like, how a Gay men can turn a straight men into gay or at least….some other LGPSG+. I was kissed sometimes from women, and touched too. And for me it was not what I want! I want a man, I want to feel his arms around me, his strength, I need to feel his muscles and his member hard against me and most of all when I get kissed, I need to feel his stubble his manly taste his erotic arousal, his men odour……..only written that I get hot and horny haha!



So dears, how can it be, that straight men, can be turned to gay bi anything???? What makes you 50% Gay? What turns you around?


And the most importang question for me is, Can a Gay man turn to be hetero?

Sexuality can't be turned, it can be explored.

A lot of "straight" guys have been taught from a young age that liking other men is frowned upon and that they are less of a man unless they ONLY like women.

Gay guys don't "turn" anyone gay no matter what anyone thinks. A lot more guys nowadays are just more comfortable exploring their sexuality and are not prohibiting themselves from engaging with other people to find out where they are on the spectrum.

It's not a matter of someone being 'turned into' something else. A gay guy can't turn a straight guy gay, however he could awaken feelings that were being repressed or undiscovered. Most people are just born the way they are. Some see both sexes as attractive and are open to being with either. Some straight guys are 99% straight, but there may be an occasional time that a male arouses him unexpectedly and he acts on it. With us generally being a more tolerant and open society, things aren't as rigid as they once were so there's a lot more openness to say you're 80/20 or 50/50 or whatever. Especially younger people, they seem to be very open to experimenting with everyone. And there's nothing wrong with that!

I don't really think a gay guy can 'turn' hetero (unless they 'found god' or something), as at that point they are usually pretty sure they're gay. Heteros can 'turn' (but not really) gay, not due to some magic spell or something, but because something wakes up in them, or their upbringing told them otherwise, or they were just lying to themselves.

As a close friend always said, "Everyone is a little gay, aren't they?". I agree with that question, as I feel at some point everyone had at least 1 moment when they saw someone of the same sex and considered it, even for the briefest of moments. I never commit 100% to anything, so I put 99/1 on my profile. I never had sex with a woman (made out with some drunk, for fun, but who hasn't?), but if the opportunity with the particular right one came along, I wouldn't necessarily be opposed. I don't think girls are icky or anything, some gays do.

Hope that answers some of your questions. And these are only my opinions on the matter. Others may feel differently.

While I see your point on gay men usually having tried everything in order to come to the conclusion that they're gay. I feel like a lot of these gays that have a strong attraction to men sometimes are doubling down on their "gayness" due to being repressed and ostracized growing up, without giving it a chance and exploring the full lengths of their sexuality.

I am honestly starting to believe that there's actually the same, if not a way bigger number of people that are sexually fluid then there are 100% straight or 100% gay people...

 

[TryHarrd]

Big believer in you don't know your kink until you've tried it (or come close to trying it). I call myself vanilla str8 but have wonderful gay friends and my mentor was gay. In 30 odd years I have never ever felt a twinge. Then finding this site has cemented the deal. Cocks don't do it for me - by themselves that is. All it takes is a female hand to come in off-screen and we're on! (hint hint) And if I watch a woman get fucked in porn, the guy must be hung and attractive too. So thats why I'm 1% on my profile. I often search porn by the guy so all my algorithms are off

 

[Lance V]

Culture plays a huge role in one's sexuality. Most American culture dictates you are 100% heterosexual or a deviant.

Until I was introduced to same sex intimacy I just assumed I was a complete heterosexual. I dated only girls in school, and I had sex with only girls. I knew some guys that I assumed were gay. I was actually friends with a few. We never discussed sex or preference.

The guy that opened my eyes to my broaden sexuality claims he was 100% straight as well. Even after our escapades he said he still felt completely straight. Yet we continued to fool around for months afterwards.

We kept saying it was just to get our rocks off. But I realized that it was more. It was shredding a label that I had been holding onto quite tightly. Why? Because society dictated that I do. Religion said it was a sin not to.

It was only when I realized that labels and names were bullshit. I also realized that my religion really didn't want me to have any fun at all. We were made to suffer. What? Fuck that!

If I'm pressed I'll tell someone that I prefer women over men. I don't offer that on first meet. I'm not stupid.

But that's why my percentage is listed as 80/20 straight. But if I'm with a woman I'm 100% straight. And when I'm with a guy I'm 100% gay. It's just that I'm with women more times than I have opportunities with men.

I was turned gay. I was made to realize that I sometimes have a preference like that.

 

[21512181]

It's not a matter of someone being 'turned into' something else. A gay guy can't turn a straight guy gay, however he could awaken feelings that were being repressed or undiscovered. Most people are just born the way they are. Some see both sexes as attractive and are open to being with either. Some straight guys are 99% straight, but there may be an occasional time that a male arouses him unexpectedly and he acts on it. With us generally being a more tolerant and open society, things aren't as rigid as they once were so there's a lot more openness to say you're 80/20 or 50/50 or whatever. Especially younger people, they seem to be very open to experimenting with everyone. And there's nothing wrong with that!

I don't really think a gay guy can 'turn' hetero (unless they 'found god' or something), as at that point they are usually pretty sure they're gay. Heteros can 'turn' (but not really) gay, not due to some magic spell or something, but because something wakes up in them, or their upbringing told them otherwise, or they were just lying to themselves.

As a close friend always said, "Everyone is a little gay, aren't they?". I agree with that question, as I feel at some point everyone had at least 1 moment when they saw someone of the same sex and considered it, even for the briefest of moments. I never commit 100% to anything, so I put 99/1 on my profile. I never had sex with a woman (made out with some drunk, for fun, but who hasn't?), but if the opportunity with the particular right one came along, I wouldn't necessarily be opposed. I don't think girls are icky or anything, some gays do.

Hope that answers some of your questions. And these are only my opinions on the matter. Others may feel differently.

Hello dear,
Thank you for your honest answer and You said good things, which I understand and can follow it, I love what you say, and understand. You are right, Gay people are more tolerant and open and have no problems to try and experiment but I say that’s what my generat not had. We had labels, beginning from women must work at home mom and housework etc.
nicely lot of things changed, but as I said, tried women not mine, some things never change so easily.
yes now is it like, you have to try everything and be everything, but I wonder is that what it should be?
I am really love, what I see hear, lot of man are in a relationship and not want to change that, they enjoy their time here but wouldn’t do all things, like to have an affair.

but thank you for your honesty

 

[21512181]

Sexuality can't be turned, it can be explored.

A lot of "straight" guys have been taught from a young age that liking other men is frowned upon and that they are less of a man unless they ONLY like women.

Gay guys don't "turn" anyone gay no matter what anyone thinks. A lot more guys nowadays are just more comfortable exploring their sexuality and are not prohibiting themselves from engaging with other people to find out where they are on the spectrum.

oh I like your answer, I understand that nowadays it is easier to „turn around „ and have a sexual affair with men, and still not be gay. But is it not so, that now more and more men think, they have to explore beca every one does?

i tried when I was drunk, to fooling around with a woman, well I not need to try it sober, Women not turn me on! So I’m was too taught liking other girls is wrong, but I not think that is the point, why men not tried it, I not tried it, because I not feel the same. So I not truly agree with you!

I think you tell me, you are more gay then hetero, fine I’m so happy for you, but I not think that You only found out that later in your life, and I also think, you would not say no to a hot sexual encounter with men then women, I also think sorry hope that’s ok to say. You wouldn’t ask if your sexual partner feels gay or not when you could have sex with him.

I mean dear, all this „exploring“ is maybe only a good excuse to have both nowadays.
your woman waiting for you at home and your boyfriend waiting for you for sex.
sorrry not want to be rude or so

 

[21512181]

Big believer in you don't know your kink until you've tried it (or come close to trying it). I call myself vanilla str8 but have wonderful gay friends and my mentor was gay. In 30 odd years I have never ever felt a twinge. Then finding this site has cemented the deal. Cocks don't do it for me - by themselves that is. All it takes is a female hand to come in off-screen and we're on! (hint hint) And if I watch a woman get fucked in porn, the guy must be hung and attractive too. So thats why I'm 1% on my profile. I often search porn by the guy so all my algorithms are off

I fully 100% Love your answer, I know it is the same for me! Women don’t do it for me, only a great man is with her. So I think, experimenting is a good thing, and to find out was you like, but I am not sure if everyone needs it.

 

[21512181]

Culture plays a huge role in one's sexuality. Most American culture dictates you are 100% heterosexual or a deviant.

Until I was introduced to same sex intimacy I just assumed I was a complete heterosexual. I dated only girls in school, and I had sex with only girls. I knew some guys that I assumed were gay. I was actually friends with a few. We never discussed sex or preference.

The guy that opened my eyes to my broaden sexuality claims he was 100% straight as well. Even after our escapades he said he still felt completely straight. Yet we continued to fool around for months afterwards.

We kept saying it was just to get our rocks off. But I realized that it was more. It was shredding a label that I had been holding onto quite tightly. Why? Because society dictated that I do. Religion said it was a sin not to.

It was only when I realized that labels and names were bullshit. I also realized that my religion really didn't want me to have any fun at all. We were made to suffer. What? Fuck that!

I love your answer, it helps me too understand some important points, and I can see what Labels and Culture can do, but in my opinion Religion isn’t told as I was is. Hope my words can clearly say what I want to say, I’m Catholic and Christian.
I not agree Labels are bullshit, but that’s me, I respect your opinion.
your religion, don’t know what you was, but in the Bible there is nothing said, not to have fun with same Gender. Jesus loves (he says and kiss) his follower. And that’s a fact! He also loves women, the whore (yes first one!) he loves like a wife and still his men. But the problem with religion, it is told and acted from people! And people have their meanings and „Labels“
so I understand that, you now not suffer anymore, and that’s makes me happy

If I'm pressed I'll tell someone that I prefer women over men. I don't offer that on first meet. I'm not stupid.

But that's why my percentage is listed as 80/20 straight. But if I'm with a woman I'm 100% straight. And when I'm with a guy I'm 100% gay. It's just that I'm with women more times than I have opportunities with men.

I was turned gay. I was made to realize that I sometimes have a preference like that.

Thank you, that you say you was turned, and I think thats a good thing to say, I never will be turned lesbian, so as some people say, thats not happen, because I not have that in me. And yes I think to turn someone, it means that there he was born to love both,

 

[playklax01]

I was turned gay. I was made to realize that I sometimes have a preference like that.

I think you contradicted yourself here. You were 'turned gay', but then 'made to realize'. I would think the latter is the likely explanation, but only you know what you're feeling inside.

Like you said, religion and culture play a huge role in how we see ourselves, and that can bury feelings that we initially find unsettling. But they're there, they were always there, stuffed way below the surface until someday some of it breaks through and we explore things we've been repressing for years/decades.

I find myself lucky that I was not brought up in a religious household. The only thing holding me back from exploring anything growing up was societal. Small little town in the middle of nowhere...word gets around easily so I kept my mouth shut. When I finally moved to a city and got to see what I was missing, then I was finally able to be myself.

To the OP, if you feel 100% straight, that's totally fine. You even experimented a little to see what would happen, which is great! What I meant by my first post was that I believe (and I could be wrong!) that most people (maybe not most, a majority anyway) who are 100% straight at some point, for just a second even, will see someone of the same sex and feel, just for a split moment, a bit of fleeting attraction. It doesn't mean anything at all. Some people may be scared they felt something and double-down on their straightness. Other people may feel unsettled by it. But I think it's totally healthy and normal. And that's what I meant by my line of 'everyone's a little gay'. I don't mean everyone would do something with the same sex, or they would act on it. Just that it perhaps crossed their mind for a millisecond.

I can't talk on anyone's behalf but myself, but that's my opinion on the matter based on talking to people who have had these experiences, and just my own views on sexuality.

 

[Grind_]

oh I like your answer, I understand that nowadays it is easier to „turn around „ and have a sexual affair with men, and still not be gay. But is it not so, that now more and more men think, they have to explore beca every one does?

i tried when I was drunk, to fooling around with a woman, well I not need to try it sober, Women not turn me on! So I’m was too taught liking other girls is wrong, but I not think that is the point, why men not tried it, I not tried it, because I not feel the same. So I not truly agree with you!

I think you tell me, you are more gay then hetero, fine I’m so happy for you, but I not think that You only found out that later in your life, and I also think, you would not say no to a hot sexual encounter with men then women, I also think sorry hope that’s ok to say. You wouldn’t ask if your sexual partner feels gay or not when you could have sex with him.

I mean dear, all this „exploring“ is maybe only a good excuse to have both nowadays.
your woman waiting for you at home and your boyfriend waiting for you for sex.
sorrry not want to be rude or so

I never mentioned relationships or marriage, so I don't know how this came down to having affairs...

Imagine you thought all your life that you're not attracted to women like now, but when you were drunk and fooled around with other girls, you found out that it was enjoyable, would you not be curious to find out the limits of your attraction?

This is the situation a lot of these mostly straight men find themselves in, they were raised strictly heterosexual but end up finding somehow that their sexuality is a lot more flexible.

Culture plays a huge role in one's sexuality. Most American culture dictates you are 100% heterosexual or a deviant.

Until I was introduced to same sex intimacy I just assumed I was a complete heterosexual. I dated only girls in school, and I had sex with only girls. I knew some guys that I assumed were gay. I was actually friends with a few. We never discussed sex or preference.

The guy that opened my eyes to my broaden sexuality claims he was 100% straight as well. Even after our escapades he said he still felt completely straight. Yet we continued to fool around for months afterwards.

We kept saying it was just to get our rocks off. But I realized that it was more. It was shredding a label that I had been holding onto quite tightly. Why? Because society dictated that I do. Religion said it was a sin not to.

It was only when I realized that labels and names were bullshit. I also realized that my religion really didn't want me to have any fun at all. We were made to suffer. What? Fuck that!

If I'm pressed I'll tell someone that I prefer women over men. I don't offer that on first meet. I'm not stupid.

But that's why my percentage is listed as 80/20 straight. But if I'm with a woman I'm 100% straight. And when I'm with a guy I'm 100% gay. It's just that I'm with women more times than I have opportunities with men.

I was turned gay. I was made to realize that I sometimes have a preference like that.

This is an interesting way to put it, but saying that you were turned gay implies that you genuinely were only attracted to women before hand, when I think you were just attracted to both and hadn't realized it because you weren't allowed to explore yourself sexually without feeling stigmatized by your surroundings.

 

[21512181]

I think you contradicted yourself here. You were 'turned gay', but then 'made to realize'. I would think the latter is the likely explanation, but only you know what you're feeling inside.

Like you said, religion and culture play a huge role in how we see ourselves, and that can bury feelings that we initially find unsettling. But they're there, they were always there, stuffed way below the surface until someday some of it breaks through and we explore things we've been repressing for years/decades.

I find myself lucky that I was not brought up in a religious household. The only thing holding me back from exploring anything growing up was societal. Small little town in the middle of nowhere...word gets around easily so I kept my mouth shut. When I finally moved to a city and got to see what I was missing, then I was finally able to be myself.

To the OP, if you feel 100% straight, that's totally fine. You even experimented a little to see what would happen, which is great! What I meant by my first post was that I believe (and I could be wrong!) that most people (maybe not most, a majority anyway) who are 100% straight at some point, for just a second even, will see someone of the same sex and feel, just for a split moment, a bit of fleeting attraction. It doesn't mean anything at all. Some people may be scared they felt something and double-down on their straightness. Other people may feel unsettled by it. But I think it's totally healthy and normal. And that's what I meant by my line of 'everyone's a little gay'. I don't mean everyone would do something with the same sex, or they would act on it. Just that it perhaps crossed their mind for a millisecond.

I can't talk on anyone's behalf but myself, but that's my opinion on the matter based on talking to people who have had these experiences, and just my own views on sexuality.

First again, for your opinion I think you made me realise, about some certain points, I missed.
and thank you for your answer again, yes you even made me feel better, because nowadays sometimes I think 100% straight is a crime!

you say something lovely, how we are brought up is a huge point, but what I think about it, and sorry that’s my opinion. To be curious and try, always good , I was brought up in a good household, religious but very open, my parents were fair and tried to show us, to be fair and respect anyone because sorry again, that’s what God said. Love all, but yea we leave religion out.

I met here lot of men most not nowadays anymore 100% Straight and they want me, great for me and I not mind, but most are in a relationship with women haha

and I not mind to chat or anything, but I always ask, why now into men, and interesting part is, they say because some friends tried out or they went to a gay club. So yes I not judge, and they say they cheat now. And that’s what I think , is what people do nowadays. Try out and tell me it is ok, because every one does it and that’s what I think shouldn’t be, I mean is it a crime nowadays to be maybe curious but stay what you are? Not to give in, because even without trying you are ok with your live?
to know before you go and (sorry rude but clear) fuck around, that this could be hurt someone? The partner but even more yourself?
Today all is acceptable, to do whatever you want, because it is politically correct!
and with that I have troubles!

sorry maybe you not get what I want to say, but I can’t better explain, I think it is not in you, I think today all do it, that’s why I do it too.

 

[21512181]

I never mentioned relationships or marriage, so I don't know how this came down to having affairs...

Imagine you thought all your life that you're not attracted to women like now, but when you were drunk and fooled around with other girls, you found out that it was enjoyable, would you not be curious to find out the limits of your attraction?

This is the situation a lot of these mostly straight men find themselves in, they were raised strictly heterosexual but end up finding somehow that their sexuality is a lot more flexible.


This is an interesting way to put it, but saying that you were turned gay implies that you genuinely were only attracted to women before hand, when I think you were just attracted to both and hadn't realized it because you weren't allowed to explore yourself sexually without feeling stigmatized by your surroundings.

Simple questions for you:

are you single?
why you are here, you want to explore find for your gayness 69% hot men?
and when your 31% call, you like to look at here or more, and then you feel not well?

sorry I get not your opinion, most men I met here, are not single!

 

[Grind_]

Simple questions for you:

are you single?
why you are here, you want to explore find for your gayness 69% hot men?
and when your 31% call, you like to look at here or more, and then you feel not well?

sorry I get not your opinion, most men I met here, are not single!

Yes I am currently single.

I am here to discuss and explore my sexuality and kinks, and in general just look at hot stuff.

I am completely in terms with my sexuality, I don't really feel guilty or "not well" about it nowadays. Though with that said, I'm not out publicly for safety and career related reasons.

I don't quite understand what you mean by "when your 31% call", for me personally, human affection and sex isn't that limited by gender... I don't think I've ever gotten a craving for something that "only a man" or "only a woman" can do, I realize that somehow I am a minority in this though...

It's only hard when my partner isn't comfortable or willing to accommodate these feelings. But relationships are a two way street and sometimes you have to compromise. (I just hate compromising, which is why I'm single )

 

[Lance V]

This is an interesting way to put it, but saying that you were turned gay implies that you genuinely were only attracted to women before hand, when I think you were just attracted to both and hadn't realized it because you weren't allowed to explore yourself sexually without feeling stigmatized by your surroundings.

Nailed it. Most boys in the U.S. are taught that gay is bad. It is not socially acceptable. Therefore, it is evil.

They say the same thing about masturbation and premarital sex. So what's the real deal?

None of that is true. It's just society that deems it so.

Being gay or bi or different, therefore, is akin to social faux pas. No biggie unless you're the society police.

 

[playklax01]

Nailed it. Most boys in the U.S. are taught that gay is bad. It is not socially acceptable. Therefore, it is evil.

They say the same thing about masturbation and premarital sex. So what's the real deal?

None of that is true. It's just society that deems it so.

Being gay or bi or different, therefore, is akin to social faux pas. No biggie unless you're the society police.

I agree that most boys here are taught that it's 'bad'. But it also depends on demographics. I see you're from Texas, I'm likely sure it's still like that there for the most part, but maybe I'm wrong. In Boston, it's a whole different thing. Gay/Lesbian/Bi/Trans is generally not a big thing anymore. No one bats an eye. 2 guys/girls holding hands walking down the street, no one cares. In the workplace, I don't announce myself to everyone, but I talk honestly and it becomes obvious I'm gay, no one cares. The younger generation is coming out earlier and earlier, and there is so much support in the school systems now.

But, go out to Western Mass and it changes. Massachusetts is considered the bluest of the blue states, but really only the Eastern/Boston metro area is. Western Mass is just like you stated, with society and it being evil and everything. It's really something to see the contrast just within your own state.

 

[Lance V]

I agree that most boys here are taught that it's 'bad'. But it also depends on demographics. I see you're from Texas, I'm likely sure it's still like that there for the most part, but maybe I'm wrong. In Boston, it's a whole different thing. Gay/Lesbian/Bi/Trans is generally not a big thing anymore. No one bats an eye. 2 guys/girls holding hands walking down the street, no one cares. In the workplace, I don't announce myself to everyone, but I talk honestly and it becomes obvious I'm gay, no one cares. The younger generation is coming out earlier and earlier, and there is so much support in the school systems now.

But, go out to Western Mass and it changes. Massachusetts is considered the bluest of the blue states, but really only the Eastern/Boston metro area is. Western Mass is just like you stated, with society and it being evil and everything. It's really something to see the contrast just within your own state.

Some parts of Texas are just as you described. Good ole boys who ain't no queer. But here in Dallas, and down in Houston and Austin things are different. The metro areas appear to be more progressive.

 

[brandon38]

Culture plays a huge role in one's sexuality. Most American culture dictates you are 100% heterosexual or a deviant.

Until I was introduced to same sex intimacy I just assumed I was a complete heterosexual. I dated only girls in school, and I had sex with only girls. I knew some guys that I assumed were gay. I was actually friends with a few. We never discussed sex or preference.

The guy that opened my eyes to my broaden sexuality claims he was 100% straight as well. Even after our escapades he said he still felt completely straight. Yet we continued to fool around for months afterwards.

We kept saying it was just to get our rocks off. But I realized that it was more. It was shredding a label that I had been holding onto quite tightly. Why? Because society dictated that I do. Religion said it was a sin not to.

It was only when I realized that labels and names were bullshit. I also realized that my religion really didn't want me to have any fun at all. We were made to suffer. What? Fuck that!

If I'm pressed I'll tell someone that I prefer women over men. I don't offer that on first meet. I'm not stupid.

But that's why my percentage is listed as 80/20 straight. But if I'm with a woman I'm 100% straight. And when I'm with a guy I'm 100% gay. It's just that I'm with women more times than I have opportunities with men.

I was turned gay. I was made to realize that I sometimes have a preference like that.

My goodness need here this you on point thank you for share this .

 

[mrjobuddy]

It is so sad that we as men have been so fucked up by Society for so many years!! From the time we are small boys it is ingrained in us that you can't even look at another male for any reason or you are labeled. God forbid you simply were curious to see what someone else's penis looked or different in any way. So here we are so fucked up trying to figure out or fractional straightness or gayness. Think about how fucked up this is!!!!! We cant simply be the wonderful loving people we are, we have to mathematically prove what and who we are. This makes me so sad. I think we would all be so much better off if instead of waking up in the morning and saying my sexual fraction is 20 gay/80 str8 and instead saying I am a fucking wonderful person and Society can Fucking Eat Shit!!!!! As we all know society has always let us down, it's ourselves that makes our happiness. The the math to the engineers. And love yourself and everyone around you in all the ways you can and want. Be fucking happy!!!!

 

[Layz]

I used to think that everyone is sexually fluid, as in they can say they are completely straight or gay but still have the occasional attraction to someone from the opposite, or same-sex respectively.

With more experience, I now believe that not everyone is sexually fluid, but a lot more people that we think are. I personally present myself as gay, because for the last four years I have been in a stable relationship with another man, but occasionnaly, I do find some women attractive, it is less frequent than I do man, but it happens. I also slept with women before and enjoyed it.

My friends do know that I'm sexually fluid, that it's more about alchemy than gender for me. But people who are only acquantainces think I'm gay, and I'm fine with that.

Of course, society and religion plays a huge role in that. A lot of straight people who find the occasional same-sex person attractive would never say they aren't straight. As society gets more 'open' and accepting, they start getting emboldended and are more willing to try it with a same-sex person, 'aka', turning gay. But they aren't turning into anything, just exploring their sexuality, which is natural. Enjoying sex with the same gender doesn't mean you don't enjoy it with the opposite sex anymore.

In my experience, people who 'turned gay' were never straight to begin with. They just found the courage to be real with themselves, often helped along by someone they fell in love with.

What made me believe that NOT everyone is sexually fluid, finally, is some gay friends of mine, who have a lot of trouble accepting their homosexuality. In their own word, they have tried everything, but they never, ever, got attracted to a woman.