how long does it take you to orgasm?

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  1. D_Maurice Mountlilly

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    any type of way,or is it a position?sex toy,or hand stimulation?clit or vaginal orgasam.what is your most effective way,and how long does it take you?
    are women able to orgasam as fast as men do durring sex?
     
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    It's not always the same but w/my bf it usually takes a few mins, but how long matters a lot on how much he teases me first and foreplay and all that. But from sex usually hmm maybe 5 mins. but like I said it's not always the same :smile:
     
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    Takes me at least 20 minutes usually.
    If i haven't masturbated in a few days longer.
     
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    If I'm purposely trying to cum fast, probably 20 mins. But I usually like to go at least an hour, prolonging it as much as I can. I like the better cumshots I get when I take my time.
     
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    at most 30 seconds
     
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    sometimes 30 seconds. some days it ain't happenin because i just don't feel it and/or i'm getting sore. and everywhere in between.
     
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    it can be anywhere between 30 seconds and an hour
     
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    Depends if im fucking someone or wanking

    Wanking

    If im wanking, I find I have to really get myself steamed up and really work my cock in order to make it cum! I really have to thrash and tease my cockhead and get it really red glossy and sore before I can cum! and i need to pull at my balls and cockshaft with the other hand to make my cock feel really tight and pulled back! I tend to spread n flex my legs as I wank to try and get myself to squirt! I like to lube up my cock and sniff poppers / amyl nitrate as i wank myself! It takes a lot of effort to get myself off - about 10 to 15minutes! But when i do cum its really nice!

    Fucking

    I have to really get my cockhead rubbed and worked up in a nice cunt or arse to make it squirt a nice load! around 20minutes and I can climax! The more the other person talks dirty and urges me, and shows they are enjoying it the better!
     
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    10-15 minutes but sometimes less than 3 minutes .:biggrin1::biggrin1:
     
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    I remember (I think) having 2 clit orgasms during sex twice in my 20s. Have never had orgasms of any kind during sex since then no matter what was done or how long it went on.

    Now I don't have orgasms even solo. I could sometimes have clit orgasms up until last summer. Like maybe once out of every 6 times or so. It always took about 40-45 minutes to get there but sometimes I'd get lucky. But since then that ability has faded too. Not even using a vibrator helps.

    I'm not sure what to do about it.
     
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    lately it has taken up to 2 hours for me to cum completely with several little orgasms before that. I am usually jerking off to porno movies.
     
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    With intercourse, I can sometimes start orgasming almost right away.

    Clit stimulation sans batteries, maybe 20-30 minutes. With batteries, 5-10. Oral sex, 10 minutes maybe?
     
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    You given me such a horny image dudess :biggrin1:
     
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    I can go anywhere between 5 mins to a few hours, I prefer the later cause I love fucking. Like the energizer bunny, lol
     
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    I find for me it's between 30-45 minutes, whether masturbation or sex.
     
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    I can land this bird pretty quickly if needed, or sometimes last well over an hour(s)...strangely the harder and faster fucking sometimes makes me last longer...pretty cool.

    Guess it largely depends on my partner in crime, Sugartits.

    She whipped out a really cool vibe last night and I had to fight from cumming fast! Goddamn that was hot. When I did cum inside her, I had that stamina to keep rolling till she exploded (a good 20 minutes of post-cum fucking), it's a great sensation feeling the hot slippery cum in her pussy as I keep going...damn I am getting horny again.

    Cheers
     
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    Im sorry, but the minute I read this I visioned you plowing into a guy with full abandon while wearing a pair of bunny ears over you head LOL Cute and hot all rolled into one :biggrin1:
     
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    I have bunny whiskers to tickle your fancy also:tongue:
     
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    OH MY GOD :tongue: :biggrin1:
     
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