How Many Minutes Before You Cum?

[meningreentights]

I do make sure that it's a very light push. Do you go for relaxation?

Flexing the pelvic muscles, or "kegeling", definitely expedites my orgasm, so I'm generally just trying to avoid that if I want to extend the session.

Yes, I find orgasms relaxing. If I go too long between them, I get mean and stressed out.

 

[meningreentights]

In all honesty, it takes me a long time to cum. It's how I've always been.

 

[Notaes]

Me too. I’ve just learn how to control my cumming. I want to feel my wife pussy cum on my cock first then I will cum . Then it’s time to fuck her from behind!

 

[Beanie]

How many minutes before you usually cum? Are there exercises to prolong and extend the ejaculation?

There’s no way to put a time on it. There are so many variables that it’s extremely difficult to pin point. I can cum in minutes, sometime less, and sometime it can literally take me 2-3 hours to cum. It depends

 

[BoxersguyNJ]

I cum anywhere between 20 min to an hour

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

If it's our first go 'round, usually 15-20 minutes. If I've cum within the past day or so, then the sky's the limit.

 

[1362937]

If I am watching porn when people are in the home, I can do in 5 min. When getting pussy, I focus completely on the woman and ensuring that I please her first. Nothing feels better than a contracting pussy around my cock. After I pleased the woman I relax and try to get her going again. If that doesn't work, I roll her over and enjoy fucking her from behind with long slow thrusts until I cum. Usually only 5-10 min after that point as I am worked up pretty good.

 

[alexhayley]

I've never came from being fucked. I love the feeling - as a bottom, obviously - but I've never had a top last long enough to get me there. Even ones that can go multiple rounds. Had a guy cum in me 3 times before I jerked myself off. Idk if thats weird. But I'll also edge for multiple days/weeks to help

 

[1305465]

I masturbathe usually for an hour but the lomgest ive one ws 3 hrs edging. When im in an huryy at least 5 mins

 

[grifkami]

For for me personally the amount of time it takes me to ejaculate from stimulation, either masturbation or sex, totally varies. If I'm in a hurry and want to pound my cock in throttle one out fast I can cum in under 2 minutes. Both mentally and physically I make myself come quickly by tensing muscles and climaxing ASAP. Now that is very rare for me to do. Even when I masturbate I love edging sometimes for hours. When I have sex I would say on average, including foreplay and oral sex up to the time I shoot my load, most of the time it's at least an hour, usually more depending on my partner. The longer you endure sexual stimulation before climaxing, the more intense and powerful your orgasm will be. My ex-girlfriend and I got into tantric sex where you fuck on and off for long periods before climaxing. Sometimes on the weekend we would spend the whole day in bed, fucking right up to the point we were both about to cum, then stop. After a short 10 or 15 minute break, we'd start fucking again, usually in a different position. We'd alternate turns of me on top, then her on top and so on. it takes a lot of willpower to stop having sex and deny yourself an orgasm when your right on the edge and only 2 or 3 pumps or thrusts away from exploding, but it's well worth it. She actually had difficulty stopping herself before she had her orgasm, but luckily she was multi-orgasmic so she could cum again and again and loved it, while I was holding off my orgasm for one mind bending unbelievable finale. Normally we'd fuck for 8 or 9 hours, but 14 hours was our record. finally after she had a had more than a dozen orgasms and I decided to let myself explode I'd start thrusting my cock furiously deep into her and pump her pussy full of semen. If you edge or have tantric sex, especially for several hours, the orgasm is so fucking unbelievably intense it almost hurts. And it last so long sometimes 30 or 40 seconds that you're almost relieved when it's over. When we have tantric sex and I finally had my orgasm at the end of our session it was so extreme and earth-shattering I couldn't help but grunt, moan, and even scream at the top of my lungs. I honestly lost complete control and couldn't help it because it's such a powerfully intense feeling. Sometimes she would cover my mouth with her hand because she didn't want her apartment neighbors to complain.

 

[Woodie67]

I usually edge for a while. But usually under a minute I’m pretty sensitive.

I can relate to you and your situation, I'm less than a minute too - very frustrating