a friend of a friend found out that her fiance of just a few months(he proposed to her in front of both families on thanksgiving to be exact)has messed around with her brother,and on a few occasions in the past he's gotten oral sex from one of his male "buddies" when she heard from her brother about her fiance and he messing around(they used to jerk each other off in his car after school) she got pissed at her brother,but being that her brother is open about everything,even his bi-sexuality,she had to find out.so after they had sex on the little couple's getaway they went on durring pillow talk she asked him if it was true. he didn't even blink or try to hide the fact that they did mess around. no lie he told her "i wore a latex glove and a condom,so it's like we never really touched" and then he dropped another bomb on her about his "friend" who gave him some blow jobs in the past. he explained that as"it's nothing,because i wore a condom for that too,and i never got any cum in his mouth.and besides you know all my friends like looking at my dick" she was stunned,but didn't end the relationship.the wedding is this september.she told my friend she can't back out now.it would make her look bad because she's 36 and she's the only one out of all her friends who's not married.plus he's successful,her parents love him,ect. my question is how much is too much to put up with for you to stay in a relationship? i still can't wrap my mind around this when i heard about it.she's a very pretty girl with alot going for her.