It doesn't matter if you want to talk about clitorally/vaginally or if you are masturbating or with someone else. How many minutes on average does it take? My whole orgasmic life it took probably 5-10 minutes to get to the first one whether it was oral, manual or with a vibrator. I am not able to orgasm from sex so I can't speak on that. The subsequent orgasms take about 30 seconds to a minute. When my blood pressure was too high I was not able to orgasm at all because my clitoral erectile tissue was impotent much like a man who can't get hard and thus not be able to orgasm. BUT NOW! OMG, I don't know what has changed but the last few weeks I've been able to reach orgasm in about 30 seconds doing all the same things we've done for many years. 2 fingers inside curved to stimulate the g-spot and my magic wand on the outside. My husband used to get a sore arm trying to get the first one out. Now the subsequent ones are 5-10 seconds later. I've never been so orgasmic in my life. It's spectacular. But sex doesn't feel any different and I don't sense an orgasm happening there very easily. I hope with everything in me that this doesn't change after my hysterectomy. I posted this so it could be a good comparison to a before and after as well. My testosterone levels are a little high and my blood pressure has been lower than usual. I wonder if that has anything to do with it. Men, Women, feel free to comment and share.