How to go about first gay kiss?

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  1. asianvirginboy

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    So here's the deal-I'm 21, still a virgin and has yet to have kissed a guy. I'm not 100% gay nor 100% straight. I always wondered what it's like to kiss a guy or be kissed by one. Any stories or experiences to share? Did you initiate your first boy-boy kiss or did he? How did it all come about? I always have these urges to just kiss guys that I really have strong feelings for but it's either I don't have the courage to kiss them or I just don't know how to kiss guys :frown1: I don't want to come across as the lame kisser but is there a particular way to kiss between guys? How would you go about kissing a guy if you wanted to? I want to see what everyone's experiences are and hopefully go from there because I've had many guys in my life that I really like but never have the guts to admit and kiss them. Any advice/suggestions/comments are welcomed :) Thanks! :biggrin1:
     
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    not too many 21 year old virgins out there, percentage wise anyways

    First question. Do you drink. A gay bar may be the easiest way. Being straight I have little advise about kissing guys but I would just do it and enjoy or at least to get the first one over with. Are you looking for some magic moment or something?
     
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    Have you kissed a girl before?? If so, then you have nothing to worry about. It isn't really any different (at least not in my experience). Listen, I was 23 before I lost my virginity and that was just a few months ago. Though the situation was completely new to me, it was all initiated by a kiss. A passionate kiss that happened so naturally I lost myself in it. Anyway, my point is it'll happen, just be sure your ready for it. I say this because, though you're asking about kissing, you stated that your still a virgin. Are you expecting more than a kiss once you get there?
     
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    Just do it!
     

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    Just make sure that you are pretty sure the guy you kiss is gay, and make sure you don't attempt it when there is an audience. I had a guy try to kiss me once when I was a freshman in college (he also told me he wanted to suck my dick) but unfortunately there were three other guys in the room and I had to push him away.

    The sad thing is he was a good friend and I would have been totally into kissing him, and having sex with him...I just wish he had done it when it was just the two of us alone together.
     
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    When it happens, don't worry about it. The drive will just kick in and you and he will kiss however you two kiss. Kissing is different for everybody I think although I will admit there is nothing better than a guy who really knows how to kiss.
     
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    Google David Bowie China Girl... Erasure I Could Fall in Love with You... These videos might spark some ideas ;)
     
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