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The title is loaded, because, you see, I can't tell if this guy is flirting with me, or if he's just being really nice.
I'm engaged, and he's seeing someone, they've been together for a long time. We both work together, and he and I have been messaging on facebook the past few days because I don't have any gay friends and I'd really like to build some relationships with any that I meet so that someday my fiance and I can have gay friends to double date with or just to spend time with an other couple that is like us, you know?
However, the problem is that I can't tell if he's being cyber flirty with me, or if he's just being super nice. He's a really sweet guy, so it could go either way, but he's just been saying a few things here and there that could be taken as flirty.
Again, he's taken, and I'm not leaving my fiance for anyone in the whole world, so neither of us are looking to jeapordize our relationships, but I think sometimes people think that flirting is ok as long as you're not doing too deep with it, and my question is, if I start to feel that he's being really flirty how can I politely tell him to stop?
I'm engaged, and he's seeing someone, they've been together for a long time. We both work together, and he and I have been messaging on facebook the past few days because I don't have any gay friends and I'd really like to build some relationships with any that I meet so that someday my fiance and I can have gay friends to double date with or just to spend time with an other couple that is like us, you know?
However, the problem is that I can't tell if he's being cyber flirty with me, or if he's just being super nice. He's a really sweet guy, so it could go either way, but he's just been saying a few things here and there that could be taken as flirty.
Again, he's taken, and I'm not leaving my fiance for anyone in the whole world, so neither of us are looking to jeapordize our relationships, but I think sometimes people think that flirting is ok as long as you're not doing too deep with it, and my question is, if I start to feel that he's being really flirty how can I politely tell him to stop?