I hate fellatio!

[LaFemme]

If you ever need to a wang to work out on.......

:biggrin1:

You know, I've been thinking there have been some techniques I'd like to work on. And I could definitely increase my stamina.... Your generous offer of your wang couldn't come at a better time! :wink:

 

[MickeyLee]

If it's not your thing, then it's not your thing. Make sure your partner knows this ahead of time though. They are going to want to try (I know I'd want to), but it really has to be only at your request and if you really feel like you want to try it again.

Speaking as a woman who loves to give head, if I was with a man who didn't like it, I think that's how I'd prefer it be handled. Somehow I'd think, I could make him like it - even if I couldn't. So if there were ever times that he thought, yeah now I'd like to try it - that would be the time I'd be on him. I wouldn't want him to let me do it, just to make me feel better - that's just a recipe for sexual resentment.

what Ms. Femme said.

and a lil woohoo!! for me boy being enthusiastically receptive. :biggrin1:

 

[brinzaulsschwul]

I expect you need a man to do it properly

 

[D_Kitten_Kaboodle]

I LOVE THIS THREAD~~

I've not come from a blowjob yet.. Time will tell.

*whenever you have the time, mister... * :wink:

you have probably not met the right man yet. Stick around here and I'm sure you will.

or woman~ (just sayin' there are some women who are pros at making your toes curl....at least I've made a few curl)

Vive la difference!

I couldn't love anything more than a sensuous wet mouth on my hard cock.

*I like your style, Mister~ *

I've never came from a blow job either. :'(

*YET* :wink:

I love a good blowjob. But like anything else it requires some enthusiasm on everyone's part; it isn't it's own magic. Intercourse IS it's own magic even if you weren't planning on it. So it comes down to, the bj is only for the playful.

*Playfulness is really part of giving / receiving oral ... I am very playful.. Wanna play?* :biggrin1:

If it's not your thing, then it's not your thing. Make sure your partner knows this ahead of time though. They are going to want to try (I know I'd want to), but it really has to be only at your request and if you really feel like you want to try it again.

Speaking as a woman who loves to give head, if I was with a man who didn't like it, I think that's how I'd prefer it be handled. Somehow I'd think, I could make him like it - even if I couldn't. So if there were ever times that he thought, yeah now I'd like to try it - that would be the time I'd be on him. I wouldn't want him to let me do it, just to make me feel better - that's just a recipe for sexual resentment.

^ +1 (again, we are on the same wavelength, Ms. LeFemme... )

But then I think of this: It could be a cultural thing, or the way you were raised to think of a mouth on your cock... (yuck for some, yum for others) ...
If it is a psychological barrier that prevents you from enjoying a blowjob, hardly anything will change that perception. Please let your partner know how you feel, so she (he) is not continually trying to change your mind.

Sex is about pleasing both partners... Finding that happy medium where you both enjoy the sexual activities is amazing.. awesome and powerful~

Not being able to cum from a blowjob, or having less than pleasurable experiences is certainly nothing to be ashamed of.

Good luck ..

FP

 

[LaFemme]

I expect you need a man to do it properly

I do get tired of hearing this statement. I've had relationships with a few bi men. Sucked their cocks. According to them, I sucked better than most of the guys they had been with.

Maybe most gay men give better head than most women, but it's certainly not a given. And if a man says he hates fellatio, perhaps he really hates it. If he says he hates the sounds associated with it, the faces one makes when sucking cock - does the gender of the person doing the sucking make it different?

When you make a statement as you did, it would be the same as if I said you're gay, but you just haven't met the right woman yet. It's just a dumb statement.

 

[D_Kitten_Kaboodle]

If you ever need to a wang to work out on.......

:biggrin1:

You think I could maybe take a number, too? :069: :tongue:

 

[Deepthroat]

You must be the only guy on earth in the entire history of humanity who doesn't like getting a blowjob. LOL

 

[pornholico]

Actually I get hard easilly when sucked... from anal I lose my erection in a few minutes

 

[D_Kitten_Kaboodle]

you are blessed with a thick cock, that is why.
you just need to find a talented cock sucker.
teeth need to be out of the way and the jaws opened more when it gets to the thick part
then the mouth needs to be closed at the cockhead.
and you have a special curve that needs to be taken into consideration.
you might never get a good blowjob unless it is a gay guy doing the work.
or take your time and teach your girl how to do it.
give feed back and her her what feels good or bad

you have probably not met the right man yet. Stick around here and I'm sure you will.

Really? No, I am serious... do you guys REALLY believe this is true?

I, too, like LeFemme have given to a few guys who've received from men as well... I've ranked as high or higher than the men that have serviced them.
As I said earlier and I quote one of them "You curled my toes and that's never happened before"...

Quite the compliment from a guy who's had men take him on, too... I can't believe such a prejudicial statement would be made and believed. at:

If you are gay (100% gay) I can see you saying this is a true statement (b/c girls pretty much turn you off). BUT, the OP is 100% straight... so why would you even suggest he receive from a guy? I'm still struggling with this one....
:sigh:

 

[D_Dick_Wacker]

my fat dong could really use a good sucking. I've never cum from a bj

 

[B_cockluv10]

I have a bf that absolutely loves being sucked off; it's all he wants. I also have a couple that say they don't care much for blowjobs because most guys are lousy cocksuckers (if gay porn is any indication I can see why they say that) but they let me suck their cocks because I love it so much and I'm extraordinarily good at it.
I was really surprised when I started meeting men that don't like blowjobs. All my life I've never had any problem finding men that want their cocks sucked but lately something seems to have changed.

 

[twoton]

I love them. I was surprised when an old g.f. told me not all guys liked them and not all guys came from them. And this from a woman who claimed to have done so many in college that she blamed her TMJ on it. Her reputation preceded her, if you know what I mean. So trust her expert judgement.

 

[SilverTrain]

You know, I've been thinking there have been some techniques I'd like to work on. And I could definitely increase my stamina.... Your generous offer of your wang couldn't come at a better time! :wink:

Yay!

You think I could maybe take a number, too? :069: :tongue:

Definitely.

 

[sbat]

What's TMJ?

 

[LaFemme]

TMJ

 

[LaFemme]

Yay!





Definitely.

Careful! Don't want to overwork your wang! :rofl:

 

[sbat]

I love them. I was surprised when an old g.f. told me not all guys liked them and not all guys came from them. And this from a woman who claimed to have done so many in college that she blamed her TMJ on it. Her reputation preceded her, if you know what I mean. So trust her expert judgement.

How many does it take to get you TMJ?

 

[PerfectlySexy]

I don't feel the same way you do. I suspect there are many people who feel on balance like oral sex is disappointing. I feel on balance that it is enjoyable, even with the women who can't make me cum. Always best with a woman who enjoys oral sex and has good technique. Luckily those 2 things tend to go together. But I can imagine being turned off when it's not so good. As long as I think "A for effort" it's still a turn on for me and we can move on to other things. But best to embrace this preference and be open about it as there are many women who do not care to give oral sex so this could make you a winner in their book.

 

[SilverTrain]

Careful! Don't want to overwork your wang! :rofl:

I'll risk it. :smile:

 

[B_cockluv10]

How many does it take to get you TMJ?

I'm conducting a study now. I'll let you know if I find out