It all takes time... when i first started doing the bottom thing...and i still do on occation. hahah
I purchased a few toys. *you know..from small...to medium...to large...to OMG GET THAT THING AWAY FROM ME!!!* and I worked my way up. Maybe even incorporate the one just a lil smaller than him into the foreplay to warm you up for the main event. It'll be snug ride for him and still enjoyable without being painful for you.
*I know an ass isn't a vagina...but hey...I'm speaking from my experiences
** OH!!! and buy a couple that have the suction cup bases on them
...they make shower time MUCH MUCH More enjoyable.
*not that i'd know first hand...*cough*
LOL. You're hilarious.
Ok... I did have that same thought... and, I actually have been using the suction cup dildo (the one I almost threw away because it was 'too big'...lol) and it seems to be getting easier and more comfortable... and you're right... having a few orgasms before he penetrates me is definitely the way to go. I just have to remember that just because I'm really wet, it doesn't mean I'm 'prepared' to take him.
I think I actually am going to try the "Clone a Willy" kit. He is shy, but has agreed to 'amuse' me in this endeavor. I am hoping that this will be something I can practice on... maybe even for oral. Not sure if anyone's tried it, but from the reviews I have read, it clones everything.. down to the veins, since it's a latex mold.
It's kind of odd to me... the more I find out about him, sexually, the more I feel more confident about myself. I don't consider myself to be a boring sex partner, but I've really not been with that many guys, so I always thought I'd be the one 'learning'...
I guess maybe I am more kinky than I thought...
I was, and sometimes still am, intimidated by the size of his penis, but I've learned that it doesn't mean he's had more experience than I have... he may have had a few more partners than I, but he's never had a finger or a tongue in his ass... (I'm going to get yelled at for that, aren't I?).... and I think he almost fainted when I put his balls in my mouth the first time... things like that aren't really 'kinky' to me. LOL.
ANYWAY..... I BIG BIG BIG thank you to everyone who has been reading and contributing to this post. I feel TONS better about the situation, knowing that guys have a bit of understanding and sensitivity about the situation makes me feel like I'm not alone, and that it probably happens with most of the girls that encounter a large man for the first time.
You're all awesome.
Thanks!
