There's no other way to explain why I'm still a virgin at 23. Women have always seemed to find me attractive and I've had a lot of opportunities to have sex. I seem to have some sort of irrational fear of making strong sexual advances (it has nothing to do with size, i love my 7x6 member). I KNOW it has a lot to do with the severe social anxiety I've dealt with most of my life. There has to be additional factors though and I really don't have any idea how to overcome them. :frown1: I wish I could go talk to someone but I just graduated college and just don't have the money. I really feel like I just need to have sex, to get it over with. The longer I let this fear win the harder it's going to be. The problem is I just don't see any easy way to go out and have sex. I wish I could just ask someone to have sex with me and it be that easy, but it's not! I don't really have any close female friends. I really don't know what to do.