Intercourse orgasms

[Hippie Hollow Girl]

I disagree with you Carolinacuck. I don't think "undersized" men are bringing down the % of women who have intercourse orgasms.

My experience before I married......every guy I ever slept with was probably under 4 inches. I probably slept with 30 different guys. I orgasmed with every single one of them.

I think orgasming during sexual intercourse has a lot to do with whatever is going on in a woman's head. I believe a woman would know if she has to have a certain size. (Size queen.....or she has a fixation that a man has to be a certain size to make her happy)

I just think it is hard for most women to get to the place that she needs to be in her mind for intercourse orgasms. For me, oral is too intense. I think that is why I prefer my intercourse orgasms. I prefer missionary position.

Just my 2 cents. Hope this makes sense.

Some women do prefer size. But usually it is a visual thing. Large cocks are visually stimulating.

 

[B_ScottWilliamsonOC]

Hey ladies,

SO I was wandering, my last monogomous partner and I had great sex. I'm very giving and selfless in bed. I love foreplay, and I love going down on a girl. Usually, I like getting my cock sucked for about 5 minutes, and then I proceed to go down on my partner for a while, licking her pussy lips, stroking her clit while warming her up with my fingers...after a while, maybe 10-20minutes, she would beg me to giver her my cock. I entered her slowly , in and out, to avoid getting her sore, and once I was all the way in, I would proceed to fuck and we would vary in positions and loose ourselves into utter bliss. YET< SHE WON'T ORGASM THROUGH INTERCOURSE! And I'm pretty large, not HUGE, but large (over 8 inches long x 5.9 around). Help! She only orgasms through oral sex, and I'm good at it, and I can work her like a clock with oral, but she still hasn't cum through intercourse. Any advice/feedback appreciated, Thanks!:smile:

Of all the girls I have been with, only one was able to have an orgasm with vaginal stimulus. The others were all clitoris stimulus. For what I have read and been told, most woman are clitoris stimulated.

Every woman is different

 

[Incocknito]

But if the majority of women are not having an orgasm through intercourse and it is logical to assume that the majority of their male partners are in the 'majority' category (average sized) then surely this is an indicator that size does matter.

There should be a separate study done on women with more endowed partners to see if there is a difference. But there won't be.

I'm not saying a large penis is an automatic intercourse orgasm. I'm saying it helps. There are other factors of course like positioning and physical attraction.

 

[thunderer52]

We are all different in so many ways and sexual response is one perfect example. My first wife could only orgasm through oral stimulation with a finger up her anus at the same time, she was good for 4 this way, i'd just finish off with normal intercourse for my satisfaction. My lover was orgasmic in every way possible, she just kept on coming no matter what i did or how, she was good for 10-20 everytime, maxed at 40 once..!!! i was knackered after that. My present lover is also multi-orgasmic from stimulation of any kind, mainly oral or just plain fucking, but she is so responsive that she can come within 10 seconds of entering her, she can also come from intense kissing and powerful passionate hugging, an amazing woman sexualy. It's only a matter of working together to see what works for both, its all about giving and receiving, exploring and learning to find that special "recipe" for you both as a couple.

 

[7x6]

The most orgasmic woman I ever met came every five minutes or so, often with a squirt, in fact she was almost incapable of squeezing without cumming almost immediately (kind of a problem as she had a very loose pussy but after 5+ orgasms she'd get very engorged deep down which had a wonderful tightening effect on my cock head...), anyway, she was one of the few women who haven't commented on my size, most women at least comment on my girth.

One day I was asking her about her views on size and orgasms and she said something along the lines of "the only other guy who has been able to make me cum like you had a small cock just like yours, I prefer smaller cocks", she had only fucked five guys but it seems the other three must have been huge, skewing her perspective on average. Maybe the big guys couldn't get it up properly (both her long term relationships had been with alcoholics) or they were too long for pelvis to pelvis grinding.

Either way, she is someone who does equate size with orgasms. Or maybe her views would be different if she met a four incher.

 

[deleted73529]

You're 7x6 and she called you small?? Wow. In response to Kadtxgirl, I can only go by my own experiences. Even my wife has admitted to me that "size does matter." Her current lover has a very thickly endowed 7ish cock that really gets her off.

 

[yorkshirebunny]

Of all the girls I have been with, only one was able to have an orgasm with vaginal stimulus. The others were all clitoris stimulus. For what I have read and been told, most woman are clitoris stimulated.

Every woman is different

I must be very lucky then, I the orgasms I get from penetration are different but still very good, they tend to be smaller, I feel a kind of wave of pleasure sweeping through my body from my pussy outwards, up to the top of my head and the tip of my toes then I'm ready for another :biggrin1:
The orgasms from oral or clitoral stim are deeper and last longer
I need an orgasm now! lol

 

[yorkshirebunny]

You're 7x6 and she called you small?? Wow. In response to Kadtxgirl, I can only go by my own experiences. Even my wife has admitted to me that "size does matter." Her current lover has a very thickly endowed 7ish cock that really gets her off.

size really doesn't matter for me re an orgasm from penetration, I can bring it on too by tightening on the cock then letting go a few times

 

[7x6]

You're 7x6 and she called you small?? Wow. In response to Kadtxgirl, I can only go by my own experiences. Even my wife has admitted to me that "size does matter." Her current lover has a very thickly endowed 7ish cock that really gets her off.

I know, it was a bit of a surprise and not my normal ego boost. Maybe she equates size with length and her other lovers were all a bit longer and thinner, skewing perspective or something.

 

[mic]

only 30% of women can orgasm through intercourse. the other 70% need some kind of clitoral stimulation.

Is that true? If it is I have to be lucky because I'm among the 30%.

For me it is even easyer to get an orgasm during intercourse than without a dick inside me.