Is Average Small?

How do you feel about the average size of 5.1 inches?

  • Too big

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Perfect, just right

    Votes: 77 29.2%
  • Somewhat smaller than I prefer

    Votes: 120 45.5%
  • Irrelevant

    Votes: 64 24.2%
  • Other

    Votes: 3 1.1%

  • Total voters
    264
THE POINT in this thread is if average size is small, which it is. Try to do what, set myself up for failure, rejection, always having to keep compensating, always being compared to other bigger guys they’ve had, always having to worry that she may leave because I an not her ideal and wants mote then I have to offer and then talk and disclose to others about me? A relationship based on what, if there is no physical desire? Psychiatric “help” is not going to change facts and reality.
The fact is that throughout history and to this day, billions of men have had great relationships....with what you in your opinion are small penises. The reality is that nothing except your mind prevents you from being one of them.

Without any actual experience, you are utterly convinced that any relationship you attempt will be as you describe. Yes, there will be failure and rejection. THAT'S WHAT DATING IS ABOUT. It's the fitting room of relationships. You can find someone who loves you for you, not because you're perfect, but because you are special to them.

Stop being such a putz. Give therapy an honest effort. It's not as if it'll cut into your dating time. What's the worst thing that could happen? You might learn something.
 
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I respectfully ask that people speak about their own feelings and opinions rather than picking fights and arguing other people's feelings and opinions.

Did you report Harry's first post back at the beginning of this thread for trolling? Five pages later, it's a bit too late to close the barn door...
 
Did you report Harry's first post back at the beginning of this thread for trolling? Five pages later, it's a bit too late to close the barn door...
I'm not "reporting" anything or anyone. I'm making a request to speak from one's own experience, one's own feelings, and one's own opinions rather than talking about other people's experience, feelings, and opinions. That's all. As the OP, that's kind of what I was asking for when I asked, "
"How do YOU feel about the average size of 5.1 inches?"
 
I'm not "reporting" anything or anyone. I'm making a request to speak from one's own experience, one's own feelings, and one's own opinions rather than talking about other people's experience, feelings, and opinions. That's all. As the OP, that's kind of what I was asking for when I asked, "
"How do YOU feel about the average size of 5.1 inches?"
Yes, I read your original post, and I read your request. You really don't need to repeat it.

Your thread was hijacked by someone who habitually does this. You can ask anything you want. But if the topic is "average dicks", it'll trigger him, and no respectful requests will stop him. Maybe a moderator can, but I can assure you that you won't.
 
I respectfully ask that people speak about their own feelings and opinions rather than picking fights and arguing other people's feelings and opinions.
Did you report Harry's first post back at the beginning of this thread for trolling? Five pages later, it's a bit too late to close the barn door...
Yes, I read your original post, and I read your request. You really don't need to repeat it.

Your thread was hijacked by someone who habitually does this. You can ask anything you want. But if the topic is "average dicks", it'll trigger him, and no respectful requests will stop him. Maybe a moderator can, but I can assure you that you won't.

I apologize in behalf of the troll (itsallforkim) who has a habit of always straying away from the topic on hand and then blames others for his lack of knowledge, common sense, logic, and any coherent comprehension of the topic.

If you read my first post on Sep. 18, 2029, you will see it was expressly in lime with your thread. You mat follow the ones following and see the sequence. It was not until Sep. 19, 2019 when itsallforkim attempted to highjack, troll, and go off tangent that things went astray. I apologize. Knowing his trolling history, I should have been wiser than to fall into his trolling tendencies.

Here is my original post, and his reply to it.

Me: Sep. 18, 2019


It depends on the sample you take. Average just represents the mean of the sample. It has nothing to do with real size. I I have said before, people are confusing statistical sizes (below average, average, above average) with real sizes (small, medium, large).


Average has nothing to do with real sizes


All average means is where majority of a range fall divided by the total number of the sample.


If for some reason 90% of men with 7”+ cocks would be eliminated (war, disease, or whatever) and sample measurements would be taken thereafter, the “average” size would significantly decrease. Does not mean a 3” dick is suddenly medium or large.


Likewise, if for some reason 90% of men with 6”- dicks would be eliminated (war, disease, or whatever) and sample measurements would be taken thereafter, the “average” size would significantly increase. Does not mean a 7” cock is suddenly medium or small.


So yes, the average is small, as MEDIUM is at about 6”.


ItsAllforKim: Sep. 19, 2019
 
I apologize in behalf of the troll (itsallforkim) who has a habit of always straying away from the topic on hand and then blames others for his lack of knowledge, common sense, logic, and any coherent comprehension of the topic.

If you read my first post on Sep. 18, 2029, you will see it was expressly in lime with your thread. You mat follow the ones following and see the sequence. It was not until Sep. 19, 2019 when itsallforkim attempted to highjack, troll, and go off tangent that things went astray. I apologize. Knowing his trolling history, I should have been wiser than to fall into his trolling tendencies.

Here is my original post, and his reply to it.

Me: Sep. 18, 2019


It depends on the sample you take. Average just represents the mean of the sample. It has nothing to do with real size. I I have said before, people are confusing statistical sizes (below average, average, above average) with real sizes (small, medium, large).


Average has nothing to do with real sizes


All average means is where majority of a range fall divided by the total number of the sample.


If for some reason 90% of men with 7”+ cocks would be eliminated (war, disease, or whatever) and sample measurements would be taken thereafter, the “average” size would significantly decrease. Does not mean a 3” dick is suddenly medium or large.


Likewise, if for some reason 90% of men with 6”- dicks would be eliminated (war, disease, or whatever) and sample measurements would be taken thereafter, the “average” size would significantly increase. Does not mean a 7” cock is suddenly medium or small.


So yes, the average is small, as MEDIUM is at about 6”.


ItsAllforKim: Sep. 19, 2019

You STILL can't figure out simple HTML to multi quote a post? Pathetic.

Your original post has no bearing on the OP's request: "Supposedly the average penis size is 5.1 inches. As a gay man or woman, how do you feel about that size for a partner?"

Are you a gay man or woman? Have you had many partners with a penis? Did your posts have anything whatsoever to do with the OP's request for real-life experiences?

Of course not. You went right to your predictable rant about average being small "in real size." That's not relating a real-life experience, and you got the derailment rolling. How rich of you to accuse me of trolling. Please, feel free to report me for trolling. If guilty I'll happily serve whatever punishment I have coming for it. Otherwise, stand down and shut the fuck up.
 
You STILL can't figure out simple HTML to multi quote a post? Pathetic.

Your original post has no bearing on the OP's request: "Supposedly the average penis size is 5.1 inches. As a gay man or woman, how do you feel about that size for a partner?"

Are you a gay man or woman? Have you had many partners with a penis? Did your posts have anything whatsoever to do with the OP's request for real-life experiences?

Of course not. You went right to your predictable rant about average being small "in real size." That's not relating a real-life experience, and you got the derailment rolling. How rich of you to accuse me of trolling. Please, feel free to report me for trolling. If guilty I'll happily serve whatever punishment I have coming for it. Otherwise, stand down and shut the fuck up.

My original post is exactly on point. I discuss the numbers and statistics, as requested. Snd no I am not a woman, but identify as 5% gay. If you really felt my post was out of place you should simply have ignored it and skipped past through it. Are you either a woman or gay? Seems like the only troll out of place that needs to shut the fuck up is you.
 
My original post is exactly on point. I discuss the numbers and statistics, as requested. Snd no I am not a woman, but identify as 5% gay. If you really felt my post was out of place you should simply have ignored it and skipped past through it. Are you either a woman or gay? Seems like the only troll out of place that needs to shut the fuck up is you.
Where have you described how you feel about it for a partner? Numbers aren't feelings.

5%? Your profile states 10%. The OP is asking for feelings related to actual experiences. So share them.

I'll wait.
 
Where have you described how you feel about it for a partner? Numbers aren't feelings.

5%? Your profile states 10%. The OP is asking for feelings related to actual experiences. So share them.

I'll wait.

There is no 5% option, so I chose the closest one. In either case you identify as neither, so back to my previous post. I’ll wait.
 
There is no 5% option, so I chose the closest one. In either case you identify as neither, so back to my previous post. I’ll wait.
Oh, you want ME to share experiences? No problem.

My wife and I are nudists, and we have friends with whom we "soft swing", basically just sex in the same room with another couple also having sex. So we see dicks all the time, and have plenty of occasion to see them erect. Among them, the average penises I see look just fine to me. Not "too small" or "too" anything. They're either sexy or they aren't. An attractive penis is just that...attractive...regardless of size. All seem just as fuckable and suckable. My wife points out that the average and a smaller are easier to handle.

If we decide at some point to extend our sex life to include others directly, then I can report back with more.
 
Harry,

I haven't found an answer to my question from you.....for that 5 percent of you that is gay, how would you feel about a 5.1 inch penis in a possible partner? Possible answers might be...

I feel like it would be nice.
I feel like it would be somewhat disappointing.
I feel like it would be a nice handful.
I feel like it would be irrelevant, I like eyes and personality better.
etc....
 
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Harry,

I haven't found an answer to my question from you.....for that 5 percent of you that is gay, how would you feel about a 5.1 inch penis in a possible partner? Possible answers might be...

I feel like it would be nice.
I feel like it would be somewhat disappointing.
I feel like it would be a nice handful.
I feel like it would be irrelevant, I like eyes and personality better.
etc....
I'm bi, but for me as someone who is turned on by large size in men (cock and height/build) I would be a bit disappointed if a guy was smaller than me, which 5 inches would be.

Since this is a site dedicated to large dicks you'll find responses are going to be disproportionately like mine. For most people it wouldn't be an issue at all.
 
Oh, you want ME to share experiences? No problem.

My wife and I are nudists, and we have friends with whom we "soft swing", basically just sex in the same room with another couple also having sex. So we see dicks all the time, and have plenty of occasion to see them erect. Among them, the average penises I see look just fine to me. Not "too small" or "too" anything. They're either sexy or they aren't. An attractive penis is just that...attractive...regardless of size. All seem just as fuckable and suckable. My wife points out that the average and a smaller are easier to handle.

If we decide at some point to extend our sex life to include others directly, then I can report back with more.

So this not answer the question from you as a woman or a gay man. Regardless, they look fine to you on OTHERS, but as you have stated in other threads, hell you would NOT want to be in their shoes. Easier to handle does not equate ideal or desirable.
 
Harry,

I haven't found an answer to my question from you.....for that 5 percent of you that is gay, how would you feel about a 5.1 inch penis in a possible partner? Possible answers might be...

I feel like it would be nice.
I feel like it would be somewhat disappointing.
I feel like it would be a nice handful.
I feel like it would be irrelevant, I like eyes and personality better.
etc....

To be honest, as only 5% I would not really search or see myself with a man as a partner. However, for an encounter, although I am not in a place to judge, as I am in the same boat, although I would not judge or turn down, I still would desire more.
 
So this not answer the question from you as a woman or a gay man. Regardless, they look fine to you on OTHERS, but as you have stated in other threads, hell you would NOT want to be in their shoes. Easier to handle does not equate ideal or desirable.
You assume I'm 100% straight? Because I don't have a % response, or just because?

How a penis looks, to me, IS the question asked. I answered. You're attempting to again derail this to one of your pet topics...whether a guy would be okay if his own penis was smaller. Irrelevant to this topic. And why are you trying to speak for my wife? "Easy to handle" is desirable to her. She has had problems with my size. That's not desirable. Despite your black & white stance on everything, big is not perfect, small is not horrible. This thread illustrates the infinite spectrum of attraction. Pay attention.
 
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