Is it weird if I prefer pulling out to cum?

Tops, how do you like to cum? Bottoms, how would you like your tops to cum?

  • Breeding/internal cum

    Votes: 67 60.9%
  • Internal cum inside condom

    Votes: 8 7.3%
  • Pulling out to cum (on face, torso, ass)

    Votes: 18 16.4%
  • Blowjobs/Swallowing

    Votes: 15 13.6%
  • I don’t like anal or oral sex

    Votes: 2 1.8%

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Seems like it’s getting more unpopular as each day passes. I had a few occasions where bottoms got offended after I pulled out. It’s also mostly creampie/internal cum in porn these days as well. I found a hot OF guy that loves to pull out and shoot his load (or so I thought). In this one video, right before he pulled out to shoot his load, he whispered to the bottom “if not for the camera, I’d impregnate you so hard right now.” Bummer.

Pulling out has always been my favourite way to cum. There’s something extremely satisfying about painting a guy’s face/back/bum with my load. Vice versa, I love having tops cumming on me when I bottom as well. Maybe I picked it up from old porn with good cumshots as a subconscious thing. Or maybe I simply got conditioned to it because I preferred pulling out than blowing inside a condom when I first started hooking up 10 years ago. Either way, it used to be a lot easier to convince someone. Even if they’re hesitant at first, it’s always a pleasant surprise when they felt my big load splashing all over. Now it’s a challenge. And it’s a question must be asked. Like I said, some guys get offended by me pulling out without asking. But oftentimes guys start begging for a good breeding before I even get to pop my question. On the other hand, it’s almost impossible to get tops to pull out and cum. They just love breeding. In the last few months, I had one guy pulled out and finished with his hands. He told me he never could finish from anal. And there’s another guy pulling out to stop himself from cumming too soon. That’s it.

Is it really such an odd thing now? My last boyfriend even called my fetish one time.
 

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What's right for you is what's right for you. I think the most important thing is communicating with your partners up front about not having an interest in breeding.

I suppose anything can be defined a kink or fetish. Creampies/breeding are known as kinks, as are facials. But just because someone applies that term shouldn't feel like a stigma. You like what you like. Do what feels right.
 

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Breeding is still a novelty for most guys. As someone who came of age during the AIDS crisis, I always assumed I would never get bred, or at least not in a casual context. I think a lot of us who are of a certain age feel like we’re still making up for lost time-loads.

I‘d be curious to know if younger guys, who had PrEP as an option all of their sexual lives, fetishize getting bred the way many in the older generation do.
 

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I think cumming internally is the natural way. It's just that HIV had made it a risky practice in the past.

Now that there is Prep, we are back to being on a level playing field with straight couples.

Having said that, what an individual person does is their own business and you shouldn't feel bad about doing what you like.

Perhaps a good compromise is to pull out and shoot the first bit outside and then finish internally. Or pull out and squirt mostly on his hole, then push it in with your penis. Win, win.
 
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My first boyfriend, who was a lot younger than me (I was his first), refused to cum in me, but insisted I cum in him. It drove me nuts. It still does, and he wouldn’t even explain his rationale. It made us sexually incompatible.

In terms of more casual hookups, I’ve found tops mostly want to cum inside and bottoms almost always insists on it.

The new norm seems to be bareback and cumming inside—the way God intended! lol…
 

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Needs to be multiple answers .. I like to be bred meaning I want to feel him cumming inside me

But I also like it when he pulls out cums all over my ass up my back.. and definitely all over my chest and face.. and/or m my mouth open and he aims his cock to shoot his load in my mouth
 

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Well sucking dick and doing slutty things with sperm is all that I do with men. For me as a male cocksucker, I love receiving a big and thick cum facial! love the way a big cum facial makes me feel very submissively slutty, and makes me feel very sexually satisfied and happy as a cocksucker.
 

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The question needs to be multi-choice!!
I like all ways if getting my boyfriend’s cum in or on me. He knows I’m a cum pig and is very willing to oblige.

Getting bred deep is, by far, the most romantic option, in my view. It is more than just hot sex, it’s a bonding, trust and love thing. No one else will get to do that.

Anyone else fucking me is wearing a condom. Or using alternative “happy endings”.

Any other cream deposit method is fine by me - mouth, face (not in the eyes!), chest, ass, I’m good with any of these options. Open to everybody.

It’s sex, it’s fun and raunchy and I like being the pig others can use. But the ultimate romantic option (in my opinion, you don’t have to agree!) of cumming deep inside me is for just one guy.
 

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Seems like it’s getting more unpopular as each day passes. I had a few occasions where bottoms got offended after I pulled out. It’s also mostly creampie/internal cum in porn these days as well. I found a hot OF guy that loves to pull out and shoot his load (or so I thought). In this one video, right before he pulled out to shoot his load, he whispered to the bottom “if not for the camera, I’d impregnate you so hard right now.” Bummer.

Pulling out has always been my favourite way to cum. There’s something extremely satisfying about painting a guy’s face/back/bum with my load. Vice versa, I love having tops cumming on me when I bottom as well. Maybe I picked it up from old porn with good cumshots as a subconscious thing. Or maybe I simply got conditioned to it because I preferred pulling out than blowing inside a condom when I first started hooking up 10 years ago. Either way, it used to be a lot easier to convince someone. Even if they’re hesitant at first, it’s always a pleasant surprise when they felt my big load splashing all over. Now it’s a challenge. And it’s a question must be asked. Like I said, some guys get offended by me pulling out without asking. But oftentimes guys start begging for a good breeding before I even get to pop my question. On the other hand, it’s almost impossible to get tops to pull out and cum. They just love breeding. In the last few months, I had one guy pulled out and finished with his hands. He told me he never could finish from anal. And there’s another guy pulling out to stop himself from cumming too soon. That’s it.

Is it really such an odd thing now? My last boyfriend even called my fetish one time.
I do like a guy to fuck me then cum in my mouth so I can suck his dick clean of cum but only if the next load he has for me goes in my ass.
 
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My first boyfriend, who was a lot younger than me (I was his first), refused to cum in me, but insisted I cum in him. It drove me nuts. It still does, and he wouldn’t even explain his rationale. It made us sexually incompatible.

In terms of more casual hookups, I’ve found tops mostly want to cum inside and bottoms almost always insists on it.

The new norm seems to be bareback and cumming inside—the way God intended! lol…
If you didn't want to cum in a guy's bum why fuck when you could frot? Frankly here is another better than an orgasm deep inside a cum load left.
However on the very rare occasion when my top wants to deposit on the exterior I'm happy for him to cover my ring with his jizz - it reminds me of my first sexual act!