Originally posted by madame_zora@Apr 6 2005, 03:57 PM
Well, that's always been my complaint with the str8 world- it's too boring! I do believe that's what str8 guys (and probably most woman too) think of when they think of gay male sex. Since they don't see it as "normal" they have no capacity to understand the multitudes of kinds of sex, layers of emotions, or anything else that encompasses the lifestyle of others. It's judgemental and rude, but then why be surprised when bush is in office?
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Originally posted by TexAssgirl@Apr 6 2005, 11:01 PM
*giggles* you said bush!
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Originally posted by Dr Rock@Apr 5 2005, 02:07 PM
however, the modern straight male cannot ever admit, even to himself, that he might derive some titillation or arousal from anything remotely associated with another man's body.
pathetic isn't it?
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Originally posted by LeahCat@Apr 8 2005, 03:48 PM
As someone who is openly and actively bi-sexual and has been involved in relationships with other women I can say Ive never found the majority of men to be overly fascinated by lesbians per se. What Ive found is that when men think of lesbians they tend to have a very fantasy driven image of them or, as a friend so neatly put it, "its not the idea of just two women together that turns me on, its the idea of two 'hot' women together'. I dont think your average, garden variety lesbian really makes a sexual appearance on the straight male radar. Rather its the porn variety - slim, big tits, tanned, toned etc- that seem to be their turn-on.
None of the men I know would be at all interested in seeing any of the gay women I know,'getting it on'. However, if you told them that Angelina Jolie and Salma Hayek or two other equally attractive women were gay, thats another matter altogether.
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Originally posted by madame_zora+Apr 7 2005, 11:32 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(madame_zora @ Apr 7 2005, 11:32 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-TexAssgirl@Apr 6 2005, 11:01 PM
*giggles*Â you said bush!
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Originally posted by TexAssgirl@Apr 6 2005, 01:08 AM
I think it would also have something to do with women being more sensual than men in general. JMO
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Originally posted by LeahCat@Apr 8 2005, 06:48 AM
As someone who is openly and actively bi-sexual and has been involved in relationships with other women I can say Ive never found the majority of men to be overly fascinated by lesbians per se. What Ive found is that when men think of lesbians they tend to have a very fantasy driven image of them or, as a friend so neatly put it, "its not the idea of just two women together that turns me on, its the idea of two 'hot' women together'. I dont think your average, garden variety lesbian really makes a sexual appearance on the straight male radar. Rather its the porn variety - slim, big tits, tanned, toned etc- that seem to be their turn-on.
None of the men I know would be at all interested in seeing any of the gay women I know,'getting it on'. However, if you told them that Angelina Jolie and Salma Hayek or two other equally attractive women were gay, thats another matter altogether.
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Originally posted by hungrick@Apr 9 2005, 02:21 AM
. . . . Also I think many straight guys have a hard time with gay male sex because they(we) can't imagine themselves having sex with any guy they know. What if the guy looked like Brad Pitt? B)
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