Okay..here is the story. I am a gay man not really out at work. The other week I saw this presumably straight man at work in the hallway. I've seen him before but am I'm not really on a regular talking basis with him but have said hello on occasion to him when i've seen him in his cube. He's a middle aged man I'd say but very fit and attractive. Well back to the hallway incident...I usually just see him sitting in his chair in his cube but the other week I saw him in the a hall talking to another employee and I got a side profile view of him with a nice package in profile,,,just beautiful. Anyway he didn't see me staring at him then but just recently I saw him again standing talking to someone. I was coming up from the back of him,, but I was going to pass him on his right,,so i figured what the fuck,,I was gonna get a good look at this. So I looked harder this time..beautiful big package again in profile view. As I was coming from behind and his right and staring at this package I saw him turn around and he MUST have seen me looking at his crotch. I kinda just walked quickly away. Now it seems kind of awkward, and I try to avoid walking near his cube and when he sees me he tries to avert his gaze away from me. Anyone have any experiences with something like this? How do I deal with this or do I even need to deal with it? I guess it will just pass.
