Made my husband feel inadequate

[Sexymarriedandbored22]

This was not my intention but I think I completely made my husband inadequate. Obviously I can tell penis size is always on a man’s mind when it comes to sex. I’ve made comments before about other guys big dicks when watching porn with my husband and he’s usually taken it pretty good. Like he’s never really got mad. A few times I would say something like oh wow he’s got a huge dick or something like that. Like not saying I want it (of course I do) but just pointing out how big the guy is, which by the way if your lady does that it means she really wants it. But yeah I’ve done that before while we watched porn and fucked and it’s usually no big deal. However one time at a tailgating party for my old school I once pointed out to my husband a guy who had a really big dick…. Yes I know not very smart on my part. I had a few beers which I don’t drink that much and my husband asked if this guy played football for the school back when I was there because he was a big guy and I said im not sure but he has a huge dick haha. No clue why I would say that but my husband was not amused obviously. He said how do you know that?! I nervously laughed and said I don’t know I don’t know why I said that and to my husbands credit he was very mature and just let it go even though he asked me again later why I would say something like that to him. I apologized and he eventually let it go. Now I’m not sure what bothered him more the fact that this guy has a big dick or that this guy fucked me. Like was he more upset that he was in the presence of a guy who fucked his wife or was he more upset that he has a big dick and I obviously remembered that? My husband is a little self conscious about his size so I’m sure it’s a little bit of both. But that of course made for an awkward day and I felt bad my husband had to be near a guy who he knows has a big dick and who he could assume (correctly) fucked his now wife. My husband let it go and never brought it up. I didn’t cheat on him we were not together at the time we had split up for a brief period of time. I’m sure he assumed I hooked up with guys larger than him considering he’s not large. And he knows I was the desire of quite a few guys. Eh just wanted to share that awkward moment lol there will be more events at my school since football season is here. On more than one occasion me and my husband have been in the presence of guys who have done unspeakable things to me I’ll be sure not to tell my husband this time

 

[MDM8]

Yep… that is an awkward situation to be sure!!! I assume your husband knows about your love of big dicks??

 

[Sexymarriedandbored22]

Yep… that is an awkward situation to be sure!!! I assume your husband knows about your love of big dicks??

Ehh somewhat. Lol he doesn’t know I’m on lpsg getting messages from giant cock men telling me what they wanna do to my
Pussy!

 

[savageblue]

It might have triggered him that you have commented on the guys' size and laughed (as in, it was a good memory you had).
But I'd say that, if you two have a healthy sex life, he'll eventually get over it.

 

[Sexymarriedandbored22]

He has lol I think

 

[savageblue]

He probably was more surprised than anything else. It's one thing to know your wife enjoys seeing big dicks (as men like to watch women whose bodies might be different from their wives'), but it's another to know your wife has experienced a bigger dick before.

 

[cobra8]

So he doesn’t have the biggest dick you’ve ever seen, but neither do the rest of the 99%! Does this make him inadequate?! No. He can still be a great husband and lover. I would be sure to notice and acknowledge the ways that he is amazing. Not everything is about one body part. I feel like he may eventually have the capacity to accept your adoration of humongous manhood when he knows that his place as your husband is not being questioned or threatened.

My wife is more accepting of my desires when she more secure in both herself and our relationship. Is lusting over big boobs comparable to lusting over big dicks? My relationship has made it and enjoyed it through both and I am so grateful.

Is this situation ever reversed where you feel a certain way about his past girlfriends?

 

[MDM8]

Ehh somewhat. Lol he doesn’t know I’m on lpsg getting messages from giant cock men telling me what they wanna do to my
Pussy!

Well… guilty… I would love to do your pussy!!