His father just died, and the boy is partying...

What a strange way to grieve!

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So this guy had a strained relationship with his father due to his drugs and alcohol habit, yet he is following his footsteps of debauchery, sex, drugs and alcohol. You Western people are all doomed
If it wasnt clear before, let this be proof that people on this forum will complain about anything.
 
If it wasnt clear before, let this be proof that people on this forum will complain about anything.
You're so right. I don't *Care* to read about folks here who judge how Malik should mourn his tremendous loss.

I just "Ignore" them.

*Sam* I am not but as actor Samuel L. Jackson said it so eloquently in a movie, "I have had it with these motherf*cking snakes on this motherf*cking plane!"
 
Thank you for the translation. It’s sad that he had a strained relationship with his father because of his father’s drug addiction and his father lost his battle to drug addiction. Sending healing and strength to Justin.

He expresses himself very well, succinctly but full of meaning - You can see he is an intelligent man with self awareness!
 
He expresses himself very well, succinctly but full of meaning - You can see he is an intelligent man with self awareness!
True. Regardless of how difficult it is to describe the complexity of their relationship, he is well aware of what should have been the norm and what went wrong. A part of him wants to grieve for the person who should have been a pillar of support, yet another part recognises that his father made certain life choices which, in their aftermath, brought collateral damage to both their lives. And so, he had to cut ties in order to avoid following the destructive path his father had chosen. He is intelligent and deeply self-aware. I think many people did not expect him to be this vulnerable, myself included, but he is truly strong for putting his truth out there without fear of judgment. What some people here fail to understand is that his father was never truly present in his life. It is wrong to shame him for “partying” or “not grieving,” when in reality this may be his way of coping — a way of distracting himself from a pain that runs far deeper than most can see.
 
True. Regardless of how difficult it is to describe the complexity of their relationship, he is well aware of what should have been the norm and what went wrong. A part of him wants to grieve for the person who should have been a pillar of support, yet another part recognises that his father made certain life choices which, in their aftermath, brought collateral damage to both their lives. And so, he had to cut ties in order to avoid following the destructive path his father had chosen. He is intelligent and deeply self-aware. I think many people did not expect him to be this vulnerable, myself included, but he is truly strong for putting his truth out there without fear of judgment. What some people here fail to understand is that his father was never truly present in his life. It is wrong to shame him for “partying” or “not grieving,” when in reality this may be his way of coping — a way of distracting himself from a pain that runs far deeper than most can see.
it is becoming hard to jerk off on this thread
 
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True. Regardless of how difficult it is to describe the complexity of their relationship, he is well aware of what should have been the norm and what went wrong. A part of him wants to grieve for the person who should have been a pillar of support, yet another part recognises that his father made certain life choices which, in their aftermath, brought collateral damage to both their lives. And so, he had to cut ties in order to avoid following the destructive path his father had chosen. He is intelligent and deeply self-aware. I think many people did not expect him to be this vulnerable, myself included, but he is truly strong for putting his truth out there without fear of judgment. What some people here fail to understand is that his father was never truly present in his life. It is wrong to shame him for “partying” or “not grieving,” when in reality this may be his way of coping — a way of distracting himself from a pain that runs far deeper than most can see.
Well kind of...