Wondering if other guys explored their first guy experience with a close buddy who was married?
A few years ago I finalized my divorce (54 now), and up until that point had considered myself str8. Sure, I was confident enough in my masculinity to notice a good looking guy on the street, or admire a nice body and cock in the locker room, but I had never had the feelings of "I want to suck that man's dick". The most I had ever done was compare with a couple buddies, and while drunk let a guy blow me in university on a dare.
I went through a pretty nasty divorce with a bitter woman who could never take responsiblity for her role in breaking down the marriage. I had a couple close buddies who were amazing supports during my separation and moving into my own place. One of those guys was my best friend, a married dad, my age, and I've known him for 20 years. We did a lot of things together including travel going to the gym, going to sporting events, hanging out in each other's back yards, etc. His wife wasn't the nicest person, and I knew their relationship was pretty much roommates after their two sons moved out. He often made jokes about not getting sex at home at all, but that was almost a standard line from most married guys
One night at my new condo, we were hitting the vodka pretty hard, and my buddy kept bringing up the topic of sex and masturbation, and making comments about how much I must be jacking off now that I have my own place, and hanging out naked and enjoying being single. He kept asking about what porn I was watching and how often I was jacking off. Then he just blurted out "so how big is your dick?" He went on about how we've travelled together and gone to the gym but we've only seen each other soft. He said from what he's seen he assumed I'm longer and thicker than him. I said I hadn't measured in years, and wasn't sure, so he challenged me to compare with him.
I had been into the vodka enough to have my guard down, so I agreed, and we stripped, and jacked ourselves hard, and he put our dicks together and compared. Feeling my buddy's hand on my cock like that was electric - like super charged energy going through my cock while he compared them. Then he was visibly turned on even more when he discovered I was longer and thicker than him. By now both our precum was leaking all over his hand, and he kept looking up at my smiling and feeling us both up. He then pulled back a bit but didn't let go of my cock, and just kept stroking me. I couldn't resist any longer, and reached for his cock and stroked him as well. I could hardly believe I was doing this but moreso I couldn't believe how hard and turned on I was to be jacking my best friend's cock. I suggested we go to my bedroom, and we ended up on my bed stroking each other, and then I felt that almost forgotten feeling of a mouth on my cock, and I looked down and saw him sucking me. I was losing my mind, and eventually he pulled off, and I went right to his cock and put a penis in my mouth for the first time. It was amazing - I just did to his cock what I like having done to my own. He was moaning like a whore and holding my head as I blew him.
That night we blew each other, showered together, and he crashed at my place in my bed and we slept together naked. In the morning we woke up and blew each other again. I didn't feel any remorse at all and didn't regret anything that we did. He went back home later that morning, and we started texting and sending pics of our dicks back and forth.
We jacked and sucked often after that, and a couple months later I took his ass cherry and mounted that hot beefy dad ass of his. It was the tightest thing I have ever fucked.
We talked about what happened a couple days after the first time we did this, and confided to each other it was our first time ever being with a guy and how great it felt. We did this for 3 years including going away on "just us guys" weekends together and stayed naked the entire time at a cottage and fucked like rabbits.
Unfortunately his job took him to the UK last November, and that was the last time I got to suck his cock and fuck his amazing ass. We still text dick pics back and forth, but I miss that experience with him. I probably would never have tried it with a guy if I didn't trust him like that.
So, I wondered if any other guys had their first experience with guy sex in adulthood, and it was with a married buddy similar to my experience. Would really like to hear about how others made the leap to explore guy fun together.
The pic is my married buddy blowing me in a hotel room on a weekend away. Seeing his ass always makes me hard knowing I took his ass cherry and mine has been the only cock ever in there.
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