Men's Issues Thread

*pets arkfarmbear*
is okay.
this time of year heaps of folks are really down.
and sometimes it's easier to lash out, than ask for some love

*hugs the cranky bear*
maybe you need a nap.
or a good poop.
oh! a good poop followed by a good nap
:smile:
Make sure you put some marshmallows in his ovaltine. he likes that.
 
LaFever, I have tried to read your posts with an open mind but I couldn't help but see the thinly veiled reason for your thread to begin with...

You went from "Ladies I'm On Your Side, I'm just trying to help you"

to

"Women are all controlling and I think they need their forum deleted"

It's really hard to know where you are coming from because there seems to be some personal issues being portrayed in your reasoning behind the idea and it becomes more clear from page to page.

As site that caters to males has a little corner where women can conglomerate and help one another and help men who have valid concerns and questions ranging from health issues, sex issues and relationship issues. Why is this a big deal? When you want a Men's Issue forum, I can't help but think- Isn't most of LPSG about Men's Issues? Now we want to make it 100% about Men's Issues and drop the female posting and registering rate?

The females have been a huge reason for many guys coming here, staying here and participating here. If you drive off the women you are also going to drive off some men. This is going to affect everyone that is already here- including the gay population as many of them enjoy the straight/bi men who reside here.

So your concern about making LPSG the best it could possibly be for an increase in membership is really not going to happen if you take the Women's Issues away and negatively affect the female percentages around here.

Think about it Cletus.
 
LaFever, I have tried to read your posts with an open mind but I couldn't help but see the thinly veiled reason for your thread to begin with...

You went from "Ladies I'm On Your Side, I'm just trying to help you"

to

"Women are all controlling and I think they need their forum deleted"

It's really hard to know where you are coming from because there seems to be some personal issues being portrayed in your reasoning behind the idea and it becomes more clear from page to page.

As site that caters to males has a little corner where women can conglomerate and help one another and help men who have valid concerns and questions ranging from health issues, sex issues and relationship issues. Why is this a big deal? When you want a Men's Issue forum, I can't help but think- Isn't most of LPSG about Men's Issues? Now we want to make it 100% about Men's Issues and drop the female posting and registering rate?

The females have been a huge reason for many guys coming here, staying here and participating here. If you drive off the women you are also going to drive off some men. This is going to affect everyone that is already here- including the gay population as many of them enjoy the straight/bi men who reside here.

So your concern about making LPSG the best it could possibly be for an increase in membership is really not going to happen if you take the Women's Issues away and negatively affect the female percentages around here.

Think about it Cletus.
Maybe I've just tried to look at all the angles, you've seemed more interested in making an effort towards making me look indecisive. Maybe you enjoy pandering towards questions like, is it big enough? It seems that your small part as you put it is really more significant than you lead on for us all to believe, you know that men will listen to any percentage of women when it comes to dick comments.
Admitt it, some of the women (not all ) who reside here are to pander to the whims of insecure men who want to know how their dick looks and in a sick way that gives some of the women here empowerment.
I guess there's some sick gratification in holding power over insecure men and their insecurities over their penis.
 
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Maybe I've just tried to look at all the angles, you've seemed more interested in making an effort towards making me look indecisive. Maybe you enjoy pandering towards questions like, is it big enough? It seems that your small part as you put it is really more significant than you lead on for us all to believe, you know that men will listen to any percentage of women when it comes to dick comments.
Admitt it, some of the women (not all ) who reside here are to pander to the whims of insecure men who want to know how their dick looks and in a sick way that gives some of the women here empowerment.
I guess there's some sick gratification in holding power over insecure men and their insecurities over their penis.

Uhh. I thought there was a "Men's Issues Forum." It's called "The Healthy Penis." If it means that much to you to have it spelled out like you're a 4 year old, petition a name change with the Mods/Admins. Otherwise, Fuck Off.
 
Uhh. I thought there was a "Men's Issues Forum." It's called "The Healthy Penis." If it means that much to you to have it spelled out like you're a 4 year old, petition a name change with the Mods/Admins. Otherwise, Fuck Off.
Grow a penis and then come back with a comment:)
 
Maybe I've just tried to look at all the angles, you've seemed more interested in making an effort towards making me look indecisive.

You are indecisive, or you have more than one reason behind your idea and it's to benefit you and men like you only. Where as leaving a Women's forum benefits women AND men of all orientations here at LPSG.


Maybe you enjoy pandering towards questions like, is it big enough?

You were very clear in stating that you have issues with a strong female persona making you feel over powered. There are plenty here who don't have that feeling at all and would be negatively impacted by removing the Women's Issues forum.

It seems that your small part as you put it is really more significant than you lead on for us all to believe, you know that men will listen to any percentage of women when it comes to dick comments.

If this were a big breast site, most women would care what men thought of breast size. So what?


Admitt it, some of the women (not all ) who reside here are to pander to the whims of insecure men who want to know how their dick looks and in a sick way that gives some of the women here empowerment.
I guess there's some sick gratification in holding power over insecure men and their insecurities over their penis.

Very few real women who have been here for a long time pander to the whims of insecure men. It is a man that is secure in himself that gains respect from women. I know because I've talked to almost as many of them as men in a personal way away from the public view.

The power that a woman has over an insecure man is the power that HE hands over to HER. She doesn't take his insecurity away if he is a secure man. One woman's opinion over the interwebz is not going to break a man down.

Nor is one man's opinion here going to sway the a woman from thinking positively about herself. It's the collective opinion that can do damage, but most aren't going to give a flying fuck about a stranger they know nothing about.

I think some of you would just be 100% happy if the women weren't here at all and it could be men catering to the male insecurities...not women to make you feel shittier about yourself than you already do.

Based on how you responded to the women in this thread, I'm pretty sure you have an underlying agenda to bring out a self-fulfilling prophecy about how cruel we all are to your kind.

The truth is that you speak on behalf of a select few and the website doesn't cater entirely to any small group of people other than the Women because they are helping keep a certain demographic here and also helping build that demographic.

Take away the women and you may as well take away all the gay men too. Since they are also a demographic that is being catered to by the collective mass. The honest truth is that this site would suck without all kinds of personas and demographics.
 
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Very few real women who have been here for a long time pander to the whims of insecure men. It is a man that is secure in himself that gains respect from women. I know because I've talked to almost as many of them as men in a personal way away from the public view.

The power that a woman has over an insecure man is the power that HE hands over to HER. She doesn't take his insecurity away if he is a secure man. One woman's opinion over the interwebz is not going to break a man down.

Nor is one man's opinion here going to sway the a woman from thinking positively about herself. It's the collective opinion that can do damage, but most aren't going to give a flying fuck about a stranger they know nothing about.

I think some of you would just be 100% happy if the women weren't here at all and it could be men catering to the male insecurities...not women to make you feel shittier about yourself than you already do.

Based on how you responded to the women in this thread, I'm pretty sure you have an underlying agenda to bring out a self-fulfilling prophecy about how cruel we all are to your kind.

The truth is that you speak on behalf of a select few and the website doesn't cater entirely to any small group of people other than the Women because they are helping keep a certain demographic here and also helping build that demographic.

Take away the women and you may as well take away all the gay men too. Since they are also a demographic that is being catered to by the collective mass. The honest truth is that this site would suck without all kinds of personas and demographics.
No agenda but to make sure the site is fair and balanced, seems the select and few(women) like yourself are the most outspoken here.
Compairing women to gay men is insulting to anyones intelligence even mine, especially since I'm not hell bent on getting rid of the women but instead feel that they need more of a voice so as not to be so pushy when they do say something.
I think if you give the women more room to stretch on LPSG then they'll relax more and not have such a huff when some new member gets on the women's issues forum and lays his dick out.
 
No agenda but to make sure the site is fair and balanced, seems the select and few(women) like yourself are the most outspoken here.
Compairing women to gay men is insulting to anyones intelligence even mine, especially since I'm not hell bent on getting rid of the women but instead feel that they need more of a voice so as not to be so pushy when they do say something.
I think if you give the women more room to stretch on LPSG then they'll relax more and not have such a huff when some new member gets on the women's issues forum and lays his dick out.

When you say balanced I can't help but feel that you are wanting women to feel shitty like some men do about themselves. Just a hunch. And women like me who refuse to feel that way make men like you feel even worse, thus you presume we are taking your power away.

Truth is- you are bothered by a strong female persona. Not a strong male persona like yourself. You have just as strong of a voice as I do. It just wouldn't appear that way because you don't have as much sway with the women as women do with the men.

Who is to say that women should not be outspoken. I believe you see it as a masculine trait that should be saved for men only. Your insecurities are being outed here. I refuse to bow down to any man or woman's opinion and change who I am. Most certainly not for someone who doesn't play a large role in my life to have earned such respect. Anyone who respects me personally doesn't want me to be a passive person. They know it's not in me.

Why can't you just be you and let me just be me?
 
When you say balanced I can't help but feel that you are wanting women to feel shitty like some men do about themselves. Just a hunch. And women like me who refuse to feel that way make men like you feel even worse, thus you presume we are taking your power away.

Truth is- you are bothered by a strong female persona. Not a strong male persona like yourself. You have just as strong of a voice as I do. It just wouldn't appear that way because you don't have as much sway with the women as women do with the men.

Who is to say that women should not be outspoken. I believe you see it as a masculine trait that should be saved for men only. Your insecurities are being outed here. I refuse to bow down to any man or woman's opinion and change who I am. Most certainly not for someone who doesn't play a large role in my life to have earned such respect. Anyone who respects me personally doesn't want me to be a passive person. They know it's not in me.

Why can't you just be you and let me just be me?
My only insecurities are that not all women like to suck a fat one, what's yours?
No one wants you to change who you are, including me and no one is calling you passive, relax.
If you played with yourself as much as you type we wouldn't be having this conversation.
 
My only insecurities are that not all women like to suck a fat one, what's yours?
No one wants you to change who you are, including me and no one is calling you passive, relax.
If you played with yourself as much as you type we wouldn't be having this conversation.

Nice.
That's all that can be said.
 
My only insecurities are that not all women like to suck a fat one, what's yours?
No one wants you to change who you are, including me and no one is calling you passive, relax.
If you played with yourself as much as you type we wouldn't be having this conversation.


So, you basically view women as sex objects? Is that what you're saying. It really sounds like that's what you are saying. Seriously? D00d. Go back to the stone age.
 

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So, you basically view women as sex objects? Is that what you're saying. It really sounds like that's what you are saying. Seriously? D00d. Go back to the stone age.
YOU are so trolling for a response so I'll give you one, go bother someone else. :biggrin1:

P.S. I should have know, your only friend listed is MR, you're motivated by ulterior motives.
 
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Trust me, Aninymouse is not doing anything he doesn't want to do. Even my wishes in a thread would not be enough reason for him to get involved. When he speaks, he speaks for himself and on NO one's behalf, not even mine.

I asked him to be my friend after he handed me my ass in a thread and I needed to calm down. We have talked not once since. So stop flattering yourself to think that people are conspiring with those on their friends list to talk about you. He's a gay man, what desires to be the white knight does he have? He's not physically attracted to me. I don't have him by the balls because he's enamored or something.
 
What a load of bullshit. This entire male-dominated site is devoted to men's issues, and there's a small corner of it devoted to women. There is no need for a men's issues forum. Everything EXCEPT the women's issues forum is devoted to men's issues.

Lafever, grow a brain.
 
Wait a minute......thinking.....maybe the OP wants his own forum....hmmm

Yeah. I think a lot of dudes do. One where they can ask questions like "Do you like getting cummed on?" "What male pornstar would you like to fuck?" "Do you do ass to mouth?" and even more insipid questions that really have nothing to do with Women's Issues.
 
Everything that you always wondered but were afraid to ask.

Looking around every subject that people both men and women have wanted to ask has either been asked or at least can be asked. As long as it doesnt violate site rules (animals, incest, underage etc.) it can be asked here. Men have a lot of space here and are even invited to and accepted in the women's issues forum.

If as a man you have an issue it can probably fit in to one of the current forums which exist. No need adding more for the men. The women however might like an extra space.