MFM Views

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by Imported, Jul 30, 2005.

  1. Imported

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    chetthomas05: What I’d like to discuss is not limited to the world of men that are well endowed, but I certainly think your perspectives and ideas on this topic will differ from the average man. Also, the women who are fans of larger men will possibly have different ideas regarding this topic than other women.

    Lately, the idea of MFM threesomes has captivated my attention. While searching around the Internet to find more information about experiences, advice, and other relevant information, I discovered that the majority of material directed towards threesomes caters to MFF or FMF threesomes.

    My experiences as a young male have led me to understand that in the personal world, strait guys generally tended to desire threesomes where the other two partners are of the opposite sex. In the impersonal world of the Internet I have found this to be true, too. I am not surprised by this because if you are a guy who places your self-satisfaction at the top of your priority list, then I suppose you would desire two women catering to your desires. I believe this is the general mindset of men when thinking about threesomes.

    I also believe that the reason why a number of men reject the idea of a MFM threesome is because of insecurity issues regarding their penis size. Being in front of another man, with a women present, means much more to a man’s ego than showing in a locker room. Since this site is specifically for men that should not suffer from insecurity issues because of their size, I would think that the strait men here would be more welcoming of MFM threesomes than average size strait men.

    My limited experience with women has made me aware of the fact that some girls do entertain the thought of various threesomes (MFM, FMF, MFF). I do not feel that I can make any general statements from my personal experiences with women because the information I have obtained has been only from a few. My search for information about MFM threesomes on the Internet has led me to the conclusion that the expression of desire for MFM threesomes among women is, in comparison to men and FMF threesomes, significantly lower.

    On average, I do not believe women have a lesser sex drive or sexual imagination than men. From this belief, I am left pondering why, on the impersonal message boards across the Internet, more women are not expressing their desires and fantasies about MFM threesomes. I wonder why women do not express such inclinations because, from my rational, women are better suited to partake in MFM threesomes than other threesome arrangements.

    In comparing the two directly opposite threesome arrangements, MFM & FMF, it is without a doubt (in my mind) that a MFM threesome is a more conducive arrangement for providing satisfaction to all three partners than a FMF threesome. A woman can much more easily satisfy two men than a man can satisfy two women. While a man might be able to satisfy two women, the number of ways in which he can accomplish such a feat is less than the number of ways a women can satisfy two men. This is because a women’s body has a greater number of features that have the potential of providing a man pleasure. Conversely, those features that provide a man with pleasure, whether orifices or not, have the potential to provide the women with pleasure.

    A man’s body, not only has less distinct areas to engage, but his body is not as receptive as a woman’s to various forms of attention. For example, the physical attention paid to a man’s chest by a women, generally, will not have the same impact as the physical attention a man gives to a woman’s chest.

    It is because of the advantages MFM threesomes offer to women (center of attention…ect) that I cannot quite understand why there is not a greater amount of discussion amongst women about MFM threesomes. Also, it is because of the advantages MFM threesomes offer to both male and female participants that I do not understand why the subject is not discussed more in comparison to other forms of threesomes.

    Any ideas and input into this topic would be greatly appreciated.
     
  2. Pene_Negro_Grande

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    Well I have 2 straight friends who love that MFM shit...They hook up with one chick all the time and both screw her...Granted one of the guys is very attractive and the other is average and very insecure so the very attractive guy helps him out (what are friends for)...They are very anal (pardon that pun) about not touching each other though (which I don't understand)...I have done it once or twice myself and it can be hot with the right people...A couple of days ago I had a dream that my bestfriend (who is straight too) and I hooked up with this chick together...So for the last couple of days I have been kind of thinking about it and really thinking about trying it with him...He would definitely be cool with me concerning that...We are pretty sexually open and comfortable naked around each other and he is a freak and would think it is hot...Only problem is his girlfriend hates me and we already sneak to hang out...He would do it anyway - I swear the guy is a nympho and he is really hot...He is constantly getting hit on by chicks and dude and he loves the attention from either...We have the same taste in women too (exotic looking and hot), so it is going to be great...Definitely going to try it next week when we go out...Just got to find a girl willing though which is not hard in the type of clubs we hang in...Curious as how many ladies here would entertain the thought...My best friend is a really hot white guy and people tell me I am a hot black guy...
     
  3. jonb

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    Part of the reason there isn't as much attention to MFM threesomes is because women rarely suggest a threesome. Even when it's MFM, the man usually suggests it. Also, if you do anything beyond two pumps and then cum, you're queer. LOL (Okay, Jana came up with that one. In the words of Apple Computers, sosumi.)

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    Watch out. You're treading a dangerous line. Although it might break him and his you-hating girlfriend up. :evilgrin:
     
  4. B_DoubleMeatWhopper

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    Excuse my ignorance, but what's the difference between MFF anf FMF? Both are two women and one man, are they not? :shrug:
     
  5. Imported

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    chetthomas05:
    Excuse my ignorance, but what's the difference between MFF anf FMF? Both are two women and one man, are they not? :shrug:
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    FMF- 2 strait women and a guy

    MFF - 2 bi women and a guy
     
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    Strait? They were rigid and exacting? (Strait is never really used as as adjective in contemporary English except as an element of the compounds straitjacket and strait-laced.)
     
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    I think he means a mainland Chinese woman and a Taiwanese woman, but I could be wrong.

    Oh wait, that would be two CROSS-strait women.
     
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    :rofl: Jon, have I told you lately that I love you? :pals:
     
  9. Imported

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    chetthomas05:
    FMF- 2 strait women and a guy

    MFF - 2 bi women and a guy
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    Aww. Yes, straight.
     
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    I've had one MFM 3-some. The guy was my best friend and it was one-night-stand in Mexico. I brought a chick back, my friend felt left out, so I invited him to partake and the chick went along with it.

    I believe that being well-endowed helps with the insecurity aspect of it. I knew statistically that I was probably larger than him, so I wasn't worried about the size comparison. I guessed correctly. The irony is that my friend ended up gettting more action from the girl than I did, partly because of my size (partly because I was too drunk). She was reluctant to do oral on me but vigorously sucked him off b/c he wasn't long enough to initiated gagging. She seemed to like stroking my cock more, however, and made numerous references regarding my size.

    I don't know if my friend felt insecure or not. We were both drunk, which obviously helps. It's funny though, because he does seem to have a new respect for me, which is cool. He'll make indirect passing comments regarding my size now. For example, I was pissed off at my boss, and my friend jokingly advised that I "whip out my cock" in front of the boss "just to show him that my dick is bigger."

    As far as the girl, she was also drunk, but she seemed unaturally comfortable with the whole situation. She handled both cocks just like a porno chick. :)
     
  11. Imported

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    Lovertine: The only threesome experience I had was MFM. I'm straight and so was he, but his wife had DP fantasies and that of having sex with another man, so I was the "surprise toy" for the evening. It was a situation of doing whatever was necessary for her pleasure. I personally have no hangups whatever about having a MFM with another straight guy ... I like seeing a woman orgasm, and like being involved in it.

    Mostly it was me doing her, but then him joinging in for DP and for vaginal/oral towards the end. Truly enjoyable, and I'd love to do it again.

    In a case like that, the woman is the center of attention since the men have no sexual desire towards each other.

    I think that the perception of it having gay connotations (undesirable for straight guys) or a competition over penis size really has more to do with the specific people you talk to. And since it's not talked about much, the impressions you get may be skewed.

    And as with any intimate act, one has to (or ought to) be comfortable with the people involved. As long as I didn't feel self-conscious or weird (for any number of relationship issues) with another guy and girl, I'd be pleased to do her with him.
     
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    Aww. Yes, straight.
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    so is there a MFM and FMM too?
     
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    chetthomas, my gut reaction to your lengthy missive on the subject of 3-somes is that you are in analysis paralysis. first, i have no answer to your question of why there isn't more mfm banter on the internet and elsewhere. All i can tell you is that mfm is alive & well and plenty of women enjoy its pleasures whether they blog about it or not. you are just not keeping the right company.
    the other thing is that you (and perhaps others) are too being too catholic in this mfm, mmf, mff, fmf talk. to fully appreciate the 3-some experience i advise you to breakdown the walls of 'straight', 'gay' and 'bi' that exist in your mind. the 3-some by definition is a bi sexual experience in that 2 of the participants are the same gender. mm & ff action should be part of the game. clearly, you watch one another and talk to one another - that's two aspects. let the physical be part of it too. this can be touching, oral or more - that's where you establish personal limits. Let pleasure be your guide.
     
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    Well I have had a couple of MFM because my freind wanted to show his girlfriend my dick and she wanted to feel it in her...Hmm? I wonder if he just wanted to see me do her and then she wanted to see me fuck him also so it was kewl with me...I was ok with it, but I like MMM better...Jose'Latinoboy9
     
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    If you're going to enjoy the threesome experience, you have to get over your hangups about having sex with members of the same sex.
     
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    Yeah, any threesomes I've been in (though only a few) have at least involved touching of the same gender parties. It would be dumb to worry about something like that, I think.

    I think the reason you don't read so much about MFM threesomes, is because women are not encouraged to be open about their sexuality and desires in general, so they are less aware of them, and less vocal even when they are aware. Look at how few women are here! I rest my case. Add to that the extreme homophibia of society in general, then the comparison anxiety of so many men, and you have what we call a great void. Lastly, we can look at the HUGE number of men who have no interest at all in the sexual pleasure of their partners. I hate to say it, but this is a reality any woman can reassure you exists. We aren't supposed to talk about it, but there are a LOT of men who don't give a fuck if we come or not, if we like it or not, if we have fantasies or not. We are ONLY there to satisfy them, and to hell with ourselves. If you ever wonder why more women aren't sexually open, look to your own attitude, and that of your friends as your explaination. YOU wouldn't be interested either if the roles were reversed and YOU only got to orgasm on rare occasions with most of your partners. This is the reality most women face. If we ever find a partner who cares that we enjoy sex, we usually hang on for dear life, even when the relationship is not a healthy one, because that alone is so rare.
     
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    Too true. Especially about homophobia, but also about women's desires. I think men are lucky Xian views of sex were fixated on reproduction; the male orgasm is necessary for reproduction.
     
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    Right-o which is primarily why it is the central focus of religious groups today- it relieves men of any and all responsibility to perform. The ol' pump-pump-squirt method is perfectly acceptable for reproduction. Any man who treats his woman to this form of torture has much to fear from any passing stranger who would give her the attention she deserves. You guys who practise edging and giving as much as you receive know how easy it is to please a woman if you give it a bit of effort. You won't lack for lovers, or respect.
     
  19. jonb

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    Even better if we don't show the classic signs of an unhealthy relationship (e.g., getting abusive, cheating on them, etc.)
     
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    So funny that this is being debated, because I brought up a similar subject in my post from last night. I shall copy it here for you:

    I have a good friend who drives a cab, and we became friends one night after he picked me up and we ended up on the subject of sex. He had picked me up outside of one of the local gay bars. He asked me if I was gay, and I daid yes. As the conversation progressed, I ended up telling him that a lot of my fantasies involved heterosexual sex as well. He asked me if I had ever had sex with a woman, and I said yes, but only a few times while I was in high school and trying to figure out who I was. I then told him that the situations were kind of weird because both girls had a hard time taking me because I was pretty big, but that I had been with guys that loved having sex with me for the same reason. When I told him how big I was, he didn't believe me, so, being inebriated, I whipped it out and showed it to him. His eyes bugged out of his skull - he said he had never seen anything that big before. I just laughed.

    Long story short, I still call him for cab rides, and we have become pretty good friends. We've even gone out for beers and to a couple of local college sports games.

    He keeps telling me that I should try it with a woman again. The funniest thing is that I have actually been thinking about it. It's quite confusing to me. Do you guys think I should do it? The only thing that kind of freaks me out is that he has implied that he would like to watch. Do you think I should be weirded out, or should I just go for it? He has actually offered to introduce me to female friends of his that he says he knows would fuck around with me.

    I get a feeling that he doesn't just want to watch...
     
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