My dad

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

I remember spending time with my neighbors many summers. My neighbors were a family that consisted of mother, father, and their 3 sons. I was good friends with the three sons and they would take trips to the pool and invite me. The dad was really cool and so were his sons. The family dynamic was enviable because they were so open even when it came to nudity. I was invited to go along with them to the pool one day and were told to bring our swim trunks and a dry towel for after. We all went to the mens lockerroom to change into our swim trunks which means we would all be naked in front of one another. No big deal for the father and his sons of course. They didn't flinch as they took off all of their clothes and I was still fumbling with a shoe or something. The awkwardness came when the dad made a joke about that now that I think of it was pretty awful. The joke that the dad made was something along the lines of one of his sons obviously took from their mom's side of the family more. We all laughed about it including the son that was being joked about but now thinking about it I wonder if the son that was the butt of the joke was laughing our of hurt and embarrassment or if this was common in their family. The father was hung pretty big and 2 of his sons looked like they were right behind him while the other son was more or less on the average side in penis length.

 

[622675]

I wonder if the son that was the butt of the joke was laughing

Bad move on the dad’s part, mainly for his lack of sensitivity.

What is more, there is a good chance that the dad was accustomed to putting-foot-in-mouth in other areas of his life. This behavior is usually not limited to just one area.

 

[Beanie]

Never had any conversation or anything about any sort of sex, my sex education was from the internet! The only thing my dad was open about was being naked in front of us which was always the norm but now I’m the opposite. The one thing was that my dad had a massive cock, even flaccid, so I know where I got that from

 

[svrocks]

I know what you mean. I never got the talk. I've never really seen what he's packing aside from one accidental incident and it was very brief exposure.

The only time he ever spoke about it was a bit weird. I'd gone to university and he was coming to visit. We finished our dinner and I was walking him back to the hotel and out of the blue he just said "you should use proection when you're having fun". And he just went silent. It was so out of context that it took a while before I worked out what on earth he was talking about. That was the only talk I ever got. It wasn't even a talk. It was like a splurt.

If I ever have a son, I'll make sure he gets the talk.

 

[jameslpsg]

I know what you mean. I never got the talk. I've never really seen what he's packing aside from one accidental incident and it was very brief exposure.

The only time he ever spoke about it was a bit weird. I'd gone to university and he was coming to visit. We finished our dinner and I was walking him back to the hotel and out of the blue he just said "you should use proection when you're having fun". And he just went silent. It was so out of context that it took a while before I worked out what on earth he was talking about. That was the only talk I ever got. It wasn't even a talk. It was like a splurt.

If I ever have a son, I'll make sure he gets the talk.

It probably was like a spurt, so to speak. He probably was so nervous about saying anything, and probably holding off for so long, bur he "knew" he should say at least something. So - spurt! Sounds like my dad.

 

[1141702]

I remember spending time with my neighbors many summers. My neighbors were a family that consisted of mother, father, and their 3 sons. I was good friends with the three sons and they would take trips to the pool and invite me. The dad was really cool and so were his sons. The family dynamic was enviable because they were so open even when it came to nudity. I was invited to go along with them to the pool one day and were told to bring our swim trunks and a dry towel for after. We all went to the mens lockerroom to change into our swim trunks which means we would all be naked in front of one another. No big deal for the father and his sons of course. They didn't flinch as they took off all of their clothes and I was still fumbling with a shoe or something. The awkwardness came when the dad made a joke about that now that I think of it was pretty awful. The joke that the dad made was something along the lines of one of his sons obviously took from their mom's side of the family more. We all laughed about it including the son that was being joked about but now thinking about it I wonder if the son that was the butt of the joke was laughing our of hurt and embarrassment or if this was common in their family. The father was hung pretty big and 2 of his sons looked like they were right behind him while the other son was more or less on the average side in penis length.

Not really a joke. Dick genetics come from the mothers side, actually. Lol

 

[svrocks]

It probably was like a spurt, so to speak. He probably was so nervous about saying anything, and probably holding off for so long, bur he "knew" he should say at least something. So - spurt! Sounds like my dad.

Probably. He's a good dad, but hardly intimate or comfortable with opening up.

 

[cedarizzo]

I started puberty very early and before most guys in my class. My first sexual discovery was at my neighbor's house. He had quite the collection of porn mags. By the time I got the "talk", it was in the form of a "the Birds & the Bees" book (and that was the title if I remember correctly) from my mom. She had received the book when she was a teenager from her mom who had gotten the book from the church. My mom just handed the book to me and never said anything about it. My mom was pretty religious and never wanted to talk about anything sexual. I always got the feeling that she was pretty frigid sexually.

My dad never told me anything about sex. He was always a very quiet and secretive guy. He had a room in the back of the garage that he would go to every night after dinner. He was an electronic genius and would build all kinds of machines. He built us a computer long before computers were common. He was also a ham radio operator and would talk on his radios for hours each night. When I was probably 12 or 13, I discovered a new side of my dad. I discovered his porn stash. He had hundreds of magazines and 8mm video. Most of the magazines were mainly naked women, but I also found a bunch of mags with naked men and women. I also found some swinger's mags. I think my mom was glad that he was busy with his porn and not bothering her. At one point, my mom found out that I had been borrowing my dad's porn and she got upset. So she made my dad have a talk to me about sex. He just told me to be more careful and that masturbation was normal. He asked me if I had any friends to talk about sex and I mentioned there were a few guys. He asked if I had been active with them and when I said yes, he said that experimenting was good. And then he told me that he had had a few of male friends that he has messed around with. That was an eyeopener for me.

I never became close to my dad until I was 22 and my mother had passed away. He changed and started to be more like a father to my sister and me. He married his second wife a few years later, but he was still close to us. He passed away 8 years after my mom. I was glad that I finally had a father like him, I just wish he had been that way when I was younger. I would have loved to have had a father that I could have asked questions and not felt embarrassed.

 

[bigun8]

Not really a joke. Dick genetics come from the mothers side, actually. Lol

I guess that’s possibly or higher statistically, but my dick and my brothers dick is identical to my dads...size, shape and everything. And while I never saw it, I’m pretty sure my dads was very similar to his dad as he made comments about carrying on the family gene.

 

[curvo]

Not really a joke. Dick genetics come from the mothers side, actually. Lol

Really? Tell more about that

 

[1141702]

Really? Tell more about that

Really? Tell more about that

Is Penis Size Genetic?

 

[uc7dad]

Is Penis Size Genetic?

i think so

 

[1141702]

i think so

That’s a link. Take a click.

 

[uc7dad]

That’s a link. Take a click.

thanks

 

[curvo]

Fascinating science... I was just teasing one of my maternal cousins and sent him the article. Our mothers are sisters... so theoretically... hmmm some similarities. Did we get the same X chromosome?

 

[1141702]

Fascinating science... I was just teasing one of my maternal cousins and sent him the article. Our mothers are sisters... so theoretically... hmmm some similarities. Did we get the same X chromosome?

Interesting thoughts.

 

[NHwrestling87]

I started puberty very early and before most guys in my class. My first sexual discovery was at my neighbor's house. He had quite the collection of porn mags. By the time I got the "talk", it was in the form of a "the Birds & the Bees" book (and that was the title if I remember correctly) from my mom. She had received the book when she was a teenager from her mom who had gotten the book from the church. My mom just handed the book to me and never said anything about it. My mom was pretty religious and never wanted to talk about anything sexual. I always got the feeling that she was pretty frigid sexually.

My dad never told me anything about sex. He was always a very quiet and secretive guy. He had a room in the back of the garage that he would go to every night after dinner. He was an electronic genius and would build all kinds of machines. He built us a computer long before computers were common. He was also a ham radio operator and would talk on his radios for hours each night. When I was probably 12 or 13, I discovered a new side of my dad. I discovered his porn stash. He had hundreds of magazines and 8mm video. Most of the magazines were mainly naked women, but I also found a bunch of mags with naked men and women. I also found some swinger's mags. I think my mom was glad that he was busy with his porn and not bothering her. At one point, my mom found out that I had been borrowing my dad's porn and she got upset. So she made my dad have a talk to me about sex. He just told me to be more careful and that masturbation was normal. He asked me if I had any friends to talk about sex and I mentioned there were a few guys. He asked if I had been active with them and when I said yes, he said that experimenting was good. And then he told me that he had had a few of male friends that he has messed around with. That was an eyeopener for me.

I never became close to my dad until I was 22 and my mother had passed away. He changed and started to be more like a father to my sister and me. He married his second wife a few years later, but he was still close to us. He passed away 8 years after my mom. I was glad that I finally had a father like him, I just wish he had been that way when I was younger. I would have loved to have had a father that I could have asked questions and not felt embarrassed.

what a great post. your dad sounds exemplary.

 

[uc7dad]

what a great post. your dad sounds exemplary.

i agree

 

[ApolloisbetterthanDrago]

So many weird people on this forum. Guys talking about jerking off with family members and staring at their dads cock. I didn't want my dad or family members to talk about penis sizes with me and I didn't want to see my dad or family members naked. I once came home from school early and my dad was nude walking to the shower and that was gross enough.

 

[japetty]

So many weird people on this forum. Guys talking about jerking off with family members and staring at their dads cock. I didn't want my dad or family members to talk about penis sizes with me and I didn't want to see my dad or family members naked. I once came home from school early and my dad was nude walking to the shower and that was gross enough.

I would you are in the minority!