Needing Female Validation

[Tattooed Goddess]

I dont relate to women I believe because I wasnt exposed to them being raised in a household of 5 men and no women. Do you, as a woman, desire to be accepted by other women or groups of women? Does it bother you when you aren't accepted by them? I am not bothered by it personally but i do find it awkward from time to time to not understand them.

And yes this me bringing it to light some of the goings on around here.

 

[286798]

I typically enjoy the company of men more than women. It took me a long time to find my circle of ladies who support and love me unconditionally and kindly call me on my stuff when I'm acting a fool. I cherish these ladies. I don't desire to be accepted by women any more than men, though. I want to be accepted for who I am, period.

If you find that you aren't being accepted by women, there are 2 plausible explanations... either you're not with the right women, or you're not the right woman.

This is not be bringing to light some of the goings on around here, but it sure seems to apply.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I typically enjoy the company of men more than women. It took me a long time to find my circle of ladies who support and love me unconditionally and kindly call me on my stuff when I'm acting a fool. I cherish these ladies. I don't desire to be accepted by women any more than men, though. I want to be accepted for who I am, period.

If you find that you aren't being accepted by women, there are 2 plausible explanations... either you're not with the right women, or you're not the right woman.

This is not be bringing to light some of the goings on around here, but it sure seems to apply.

Fair enough. I see women empathize with the more emotional women and get hateful towards the one who doesnt get offended as easily. Loners dont need tribes. Tribal leaders take offense to those who dont need to be a part of the tribe.

And since it does bring to light what's going on because i see it, experience it and I created the thread because of the hypocracy and double standard to allow emotionally sensitive people get away with their bullshit but calling others out on theirs.....you can't tell me there's no water when I'm swimming in it.

How's the fight club going? Oh wait....cant mention it. But I'm sure it's all shits and giggles for days in the kangaroo court. Just giving y'all more material to hash out. Also, follow other women around and call them out....wait...dont.....we gotta keep the pack mentality.

 

[286798]

um, considering you were the one who got hateful, who's the emotional one?

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

um, considering you were the one who got hateful, who's the emotional one?

Hate is an emotion. So is bawling all night over being called out for taking up for perverts. But hey, I'm a bitch so I deserve to have the team come after me. Dont worry...its typical behavior when someone swims upstream.

Also hating on people for using trigger words to the point of controlling the entire forum....that's totally acceptable too. The shit show is pretty obvious no matter how much you think you have it under wraps in the RLG.

If a woman is sad....the women come to cry with her and feel her pain. When a woman is happy....well just ignore her. The collective silence is loud af. If you think this has to only do with the latest debacle...you're wrong. I've been watching Rome burn for a long time. I'm the only one willing to point it out.

The pack is pissy and I ain't skeered.

 

[286798]

If you want to call a heartfelt inquiry on someone's wellbeing/emotional state "coming after you" I suppose you're entitled to that opinion... but I sure don't share that perspective.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I appreciate your honest candor. And I truly mean that. What appears to be shit stirring is actually a bit of curiosity mixed with a desire to get understanding, but in a public forum rather than in a secret chamber being judged by my uhhhh my genital peers privately.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

You insulted us TG. You publicly insulted one of us, then collectively insulted ALL of us when I tried to be civil about it in RLG.

I'm not playing along. I'm not bringing up anything from your personal life to insult you the way you did to someone who we're supposed to support.

Bring to light some of the goings on here? Ok. You bucked the sisterhood. That's what went down.

 

[286798]

I don't believe you're happy. Not for one moment. I don't believe much of anything you post, except when you're intentionally and maliciously trying to hurt others... that I believe is genuine.

I also don't believe this is an effort to understand. I think it's a thirsty attempt to bait women into talking to you.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

We've been "validating" you here for years. We've been an open ear, and heart for you. Then you called us a henhouse. Told us you were "NEVER one of us".

It hurt me. And I'm not gonna let it happen again.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Btw... Who are the emotionally sensitive ones? I definitely get emotional here with you all sometimes, because I thought that's why we were here for each other. Re read some of the threads you've started here. Remind yourself how emotional YOU have been here as well, and how you were shown support and honesty through all of it.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

We've been "validating" you here for years. We've been an open ear, and heart for you. Then you called us a henhouse. Told us you were "NEVER one of us".

It hurt me. And I'm not gonna let it happen again.

Ahhh yes....the one who seeks to control the whole forum and the words they use.

Im quite happy. Just not so insecure about bucking the sisterhood I was never a part of.

If that chick posted about a jerk off perv and someone said he may have had stomach issues....oh y'all would have been all over that person questioning how that made her feel.

I've been watching this for a long time. This desire to hen peck everyone who doesnt walk lock step with the tribe.

Cant even say the word baby...even if you arent speaking of infants. Cant say phrases like crying over spilled milk because it triggers you. Rather than to seek professional help for what you're going through. You seek to control people and their words. Weve all been in the trenches with you... some of us have been through similar things yet didnt need to have to control all trigger words anyone might say, that dont even have anything to do with intentionally trying to hurt you, that you have to control them.

It makes you all feel better to think I'm unhappy for pointing out the rtg might have issues deciphering good behavior from bad when it comes to men. Makes her cry all night to hear that possibility.

I've seen my life flash before my eyes and I'm living my best life and grabbing life by the horns and rather than you all being happy for a fellow sister....you think it's all made up happiness. I refuse to let life pass me by and do nothing to better myself.

Wallow in your sadness...all of you. You're bringing people down because you refuse to get better or take the advice they keep.giving me for standing up for myself...that advice you all.give me is to get mental help. Been there done that. Maybe you should do it too.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Ahhh yes....the one who seeks to control the whole forum and the words they use.

Im quite happy. Just not so insecure about bucking the sisterhood I was never a part of.

If that chick posted about a jerk off perv and someone said he may have had stomach issues....oh y'all would have been all over that person questioning how that made her feel.

I've been watching this for a long time. This desire to hen peck everyone who doesnt walk lock step with the tribe.

Cant even say the word baby...even if you arent speaking of infants. Cant say phrases like crying over spilled milk because it triggers you. Rather than to seek professional help for what you're going through. You seek to control people and their words. Weve all been in the trenches with you... some of us have been through similar things yet didnt need to have to control all trigger words anyone might say, that dont even have anything to do with intentionally trying to hurt you, that you have to control them.

It makes you all feel better to think I'm unhappy for pointing out the rtg might have issues deciphering good behavior from bad when it comes to men. Makes her cry all night to hear that possibility.

I've seen my life flash before my eyes and I'm living my best life and grabbing life by the horns and rather than you all being happy for a fellow sister....you think it's all made up happiness. I refuse to let life pass me by and do nothing to better myself.

Wallow in your sadness...all of you. You're bringing people down because you refuse to get better or take the advice they keep.giving me for standing up for myself...that advice you all.give me is to get mental help. Been there done that. Maybe you should do it too.

We all see exactly who you are now. I expected the insults about having lost my child.

Thanks for finally letting everyone else in on the "goings on".

 

[286798]

Not nice, TG. Not cool at all.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

For the last time: I AM IN THERAPY.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I don't believe you're happy. Not for one moment. I don't believe much of anything you post, except when you're intentionally and maliciously trying to hurt others... that I believe is genuine.

I also don't believe this is an effort to understand. I think it's a thirsty attempt to bait women into talking to you.

Actually I know you all believe its fake happiness. I've felt your hatred towards me for not being in the sad section all the time now. I'm making decisions that are gaining me great things. If you want to take it as fake happiness. I'll never change your mind anyway. I'll keep on doing what I'm doing because it is working to make better decisions. I don't appreciate being pulled into the rlg and treated like shit by women who only support women who are suffering. You really see who are your friends when you pull yourself up and get out of your misery.

Happiness didnt find me...I went out and found it. It bothers some people because they cant find it. Not my problem. And tnj you hurt people constantly but since you lost a baby no one calls you out on it. People hurt for you, and I was one of them, but you push them away. Long before this issue.

And yes I've changed. Sorry it didnt get the womens approval. There's a huge hypocracy here. I happen to point it out.


Ain't skeered.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Oh fuck off already, everyone has been reading along and can see that over the past few months you've been on a mission to push Yourself out of the coven and be the center of fucking attention.

When we expressed concern, you told us to eat shit. Well, I'm done with concern. Have a nice life. Enjoy every second of it without my friendship.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

You insulted us TG. You publicly insulted one of us, then collectively insulted ALL of us when I tried to be civil about it in RLG.

I'm not playing along. I'm not bringing up anything from your personal life to insult you the way you did to someone who we're supposed to support.

Bring to light some of the goings on here? Ok. You bucked the sisterhood. That's what went down.

She was very supportive in suggesting my jerk off dinner companion had nervous stomach. Sounds supportive as fuck to me. I can imagine if it happened to you and a fellow *sister* said that....youd hand her her ass. We both know it. You hand us our asses for much less damn near daily

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

And I'm the only one with my hands on the knife in my back. You can't twist shit.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Oh fuck off already, everyone has been reading along and can see that over the past few months you've been on a mission to push Yourself out of the coven and be the center of fucking attention.

When we expressed concern, you told us to eat shit. Well, I'm done with concern. Have a nice life. Enjoy every second of it without my friendship.

You need to worry about yourself and not being the judge in kangaroo court. No one appointed you to that position. Gossip masked as concern doesnt get by me.