"no black guys"

[deleted37010]

Not EVERYTHING is about race. We have the last clown in the white house for this. He AND his wife made EVERYTHING about race, and honestly, why we are having so much trouble now.

obama is why we have race issues? obama and michelle are why? seriously?
this nation was founded on the ownership of human beings... spare me the black president caused our racial problems by daring to be black while president...

 

[Mister2101]

Many good comments. More than a few comments I would call racist. My opinion. I'm white and bisexual. I enjoy sex, and relationships, with all races and both sexes. Trans sexual women turn me on a great deal. So do black women and black men.
Some men like red heads or blonds. Big breasts or a big booty. Long legs, and small breasts turn some men on. I'm most attracted to a long-legged, dark-skinned black woman with a great ass.......
Some gay men like big hairy bears. Some like feminine men. Or straight-acting men. I like them all, but am most attracted to a good looking black man. Just very sexy to me.
While these are all simply individual preferences to me, I can see where someone saying No blacks or No asians can be received as being racist. One would have to know that individual persons intent in why they chose to state their preference that way to better clarify if that person is truly a racist...or merely being insensitive to how their words are received by others. Again, just my opinion. Peace.

 

[deleted37010]

One would have to know that individual persons intent in why they chose to state their preference that way to better clarify if that person is truly a racist...or merely being insensitive to how their words are received by others. Again, just my opinion. Peace.

well said!

 

[napwayne]

This has been discussed before many times. In most cases, if you're black and gay, men of other races either do not want you at all or they only want you for your penis because they think you're hung and you will most likely top. That's it. I don't care if you're white and you just read this, if you're not white and you just read this. This is literally the reality for most gay/bi/whatever black men. I feel like a decent number of black men are broken (from living in post-slavery societies) and have just come to accept their role as the big black brute with BBC among gays (similar to those black people that had their brains removed from Get Out if anyone has seen that movie). Whatever floats your boat I guess.

This is very true. In the hookup world especially, the black man is reduced to his dick size.

 

[deleted15556]

I don't care how hot you are if your profile says no blacks, no fems, no fats or any of that bullshit there's no me either. Like you're so amazingly beautiful you can't just politely ignore someone that you're not attracted to if they send you a message? Racist or just narcissistic with no empathy I don't want anything to do with you.

Amen

 

[902369]

Typical White guy response.

Exactly, a homosexual white gay male response at that, as if gay marriage wasn't made legal in the U.S. under Obama's administration. White people in the United States are so delusional.

 

[chrisrobin]

Hey guys why is it that you always seem to think racial discrimination is always white against blacks?
Racial discrimination and racial bias has been going on for centuries.
In the 70's I was shopping on Rodeo Drive. Having been brought up to be friendly and polite I gave up my seat to ladies, opened doors for ladies and never barged through an open door if someone else was coming in the other way.
So there I was about to go out through big doors into the street, this black guy barges in and naturally I opened the door wider for him to get through and stood aside, smiled and made to go through the door. The guy stopped, turned and snarled "don't want no fucking favours from no honkey"
which really made my day
but pleased to say it didn't change the way I behaved, I still open doors and stand back to let others through.
So, lets get one things straight, racial discrimination goes both ways.
its just not fashionable to remark on it.

 

[deleted37010]

Hey guys why is it that you always seem to think racial discrimination is always white against blacks?
Racial discrimination and racial bias has been going on for centuries.
In the 70's I was shopping on Rodeo Drive. Having been brought up to be friendly and polite I gave up my seat to ladies, opened doors for ladies and never barged through an open door if someone else was coming in the other way.
So there I was about to go out through big doors into the street, this black guy barges in and naturally I opened the door wider for him to get through and stood aside, smiled and made to go through the door. The guy stopped, turned and snarled "don't want no fucking favours from no honkey"
which really made my day
but pleased to say it didn't change the way I behaved, I still open doors and stand back to let others through.
So, lets get one things straight, racial discrimination goes both ways.
its just not fashionable to remark on it.

(i think) the op was specific... hence the replies address that specificity...

Scrolling through grindr i noticed that a lot of guys have no black guys in their description. Why is this?

Like I said in another thread I am bi for black only, so this kind of confuses me lol

 

[902369]

Hey guys why is it that you always seem to think racial discrimination is always white against blacks?
Racial discrimination and racial bias has been going on for centuries.
In the 70's I was shopping on Rodeo Drive. Having been brought up to be friendly and polite I gave up my seat to ladies, opened doors for ladies and never barged through an open door if someone else was coming in the other way.
So there I was about to go out through big doors into the street, this black guy barges in and naturally I opened the door wider for him to get through and stood aside, smiled and made to go through the door. The guy stopped, turned and snarled "don't want no fucking favours from no honkey"
which really made my day
but pleased to say it didn't change the way I behaved, I still open doors and stand back to let others through.
So, lets get one things straight, racial discrimination goes both ways.
its just not fashionable to remark on it.

Racial discrimination can only go both ways once black people have mastered the art of enslaving millions in their past lives and in current times continuously discriminating against others based on the color of their skin. Until then, white people will always be the problem when it comes to discrimination and racism because frankly your people not only started it, but continue to uphold it - duh! To say racial discrimination goes both ways is literally laughable. This is a typical white response. And to think people actually believe that white people in Europe are a tad bit smarter and more sensitive to racism than their descendants in the Americas - hah!

 

[trailerguy]

Being somewhat bi, I have found black females to be sexy in a special way that I can't describe. I have nearly gone "all the way" with one but backed out for fear of someone walking in on us.
As for black guys I find some very sexy indeed, others not so much, just as I do with whites or Asians, Hispanics etc. It's a case by case thing. I have never been with a black dude, but it doesn't mean I wouldn't.

 

[dylz]

what on earth are some of these people going on about?

"not everything is about race." well, this thread is about people (preemptively and openly) rejecting others based solely upon being black, which is therefore by definition "about race."

"racial discrimination isn't always whites against blacks." that's great trevor but this thread is about discrimination against black people on the basis of their being black. (also lololol, anti-white prejudice has NEVER been ingrained into or the basis of pervasive and influential institutions, either in the united states or literally anywhere else... maybe that might serve as a clue as to why one person's dumb comment didn't ruin your day or have an effect on how you view and treat others? sheesh.)

why do (white) people feel the strong need to bring up this irrelevant nonsense when frank discussion of anti-black prejudice occurs? why is it one of these posts that was decrying the way people get offended over the slightest trivial nonsense when it appears to be they who get worked up over things that supposedly don't even concern them? doth they protest too much?

 

[sry59simon]

What ever happened to live and let, live, my memaw used to say that when we leave this world a soul has no color.

 

[Smaccoms]

Not EVERYTHING is about race. We have the last clown in the white house for this. He AND his wife made EVERYTHING about race, and honestly, why we are having so much trouble now.

Do you know what actually happens when you get offended??

NOTHING!!! You get over it and MOVE ON. Whether it's a dating/sex partner preference, or who is or isn't going to bake your wedding cake. It's just NOT that big of a deal in the grans scheme of things

This is so racist, of course skin color is a big deal! I cannot believe you just compared blackness to the wedding cake business. Have you no sense of the world around you? It's called systemic oppression you fool. Talk about ignorance being bliss, good grief!

 

[Smaccoms]

Hey guys why is it that you always seem to think racial discrimination is always white against blacks?
Racial discrimination and racial bias has been going on for centuries.
In the 70's I was shopping on Rodeo Drive. Having been brought up to be friendly and polite I gave up my seat to ladies, opened doors for ladies and never barged through an open door if someone else was coming in the other way.
So there I was about to go out through big doors into the street, this black guy barges in and naturally I opened the door wider for him to get through and stood aside, smiled and made to go through the door. The guy stopped, turned and snarled "don't want no fucking favours from no honkey"
which really made my day
but pleased to say it didn't change the way I behaved, I still open doors and stand back to let others through.
So, lets get one things straight, racial discrimination goes both ways.
its just not fashionable to remark on it.

Oh no, a black guy got angry at you for 5 seconds! I feel your "reverse racist" pain! *SARCASM GALORE*

 

[328982]

And to think people actually believe that white people in Europe are a tad bit smarter and more sensitive to racism than their descendants in the Americas - hah!

Unfortunately not. Shamefully well into the 1960s in the UK there were 'No coloureds, No dogs, No Irish' signs in lodgings. (Some doubt whether these signs really existed based on the well known fact that the Brits love their canine friends ) It seems to me that if you are discrimating against people based solely on the colour of their skin, you really have to examine why that is and not just fall back on 'personal preference' or pseudo-science.

 

[scotty2hotty3979]

I find that racist comes in because the white fellow isn't packing like this man is. Who cares what colour their skin is we are all human beings

 

[Exbiker]

I'm in a civil partnership with a non white man.

Not totally black I guess. More of a dark brown.

I find it's ok when people put this kind of statement in contact ads.

It means I don't need to go to the trouble of saying "only nice, intelligent people please".

I can simply ignore them.



But it is stupid, graceless and unethical.

 

[Auggiecakes]

gqy dating is the reason I'm celibate.




"I'm pretty laid back" (biggest lie ever!)

"Hwp" (90% of those who demand this don't even fit the description)

"Jocks only" (when was the last time you threw a ball?)

"No fem, no fat, no asians or blacks" (no, just no)

"DL here." (Baby it's 2017 grow a pair)

I'm not a piece of meat. I refuse to subject myself to this. Just for you to chew me up and spit me out if you don't like the taste.

I honestly rather be alone.

 

[bp1970]

i am attracted to white, middle eastern/indian, and hispanic men, as well as black, asian, pacific and native american women. I guess that makes me racist towrad white, middle eastern/indian and hispanic women, in addition to black, asian, pacific and native american men.

That said I totaly feel with the idea that when black men are in fact portrayed in sex all that people care about is the size of their dick, not their worth as human beings. this is especially true in cuckold vids I've often watched and when I see a humans worth judged by how they are sexually worthy I just get upset. even if you did find more black male representation in porn it would take more than a good bit of work to make people judge them more than by their dick size. black male representation (or the lack of it) is especially clear in straight hardcore porn sites.

 

[StormyB]

Preference stems from something too; I like the color blue more than I like the color red for a reason--I may not know exactly why, but I do. So if you say 'no blacks' then why? Is it simply the color of our skin? and you don't find that to be racist? And not all 'blacks' are actually the color black, so by dismissing all 'blacks' for some trait you dislike, you're basically just enforcing stereotypes. Saying 'no fats' rude, but it really is personal choice. We get what you don't like. Saying 'no fems' again, rude, but we understand what you don't like. Saying ' no blacks, no asians' but why? We all don't have the same features, we all don't have the same skin color, and we are not all the pants to the ground, slang talking thugs we are portrayed as by most media. So by definition of racism, if you are dismissing us based on these stereotypes, then you are a racist. Racism doesn't always have to be the aggressive form ( the n-word calling kkk member), it can also be covert ( the company that only seems to hire a certain complexion, but guarantees it is a friendly, professional environment). So yes it is a matter of preference, but preferences can be influenced by racism.