Objectifying Men

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To be honest: I fantasize about it, but I am not sure if I would like it. It depends on the person objectifying me. If my partner (F) would want it, I would not have a problem with it. Again: I fantasize a lot about this..
 

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For me, one definition of objectification would be looking at somebody you don't know very well and evaluating that person as a potential sexual partner.

Or focusing more on another person's "sexyness" or physical characteristics (she's got great breasts!, oooh look at his abs!) rather than the complete package that makes up the complete human being.

I think pretty much everybody does that, women included. Seems like a pretty normal part of attraction, etc. The problem is when that is the only thing you do and you don't go farther than the physical.

Anyway, that is my take on it.
 
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... pumas milfs cougars

:eek:fftopic:

Ok I need clarifications on this;

I know what milfs and cougars are... what is a puma?

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and about the topic:

Objectifying Men? yes please! :biggrin2:

every time this happened to me it was quite enjoyable.

... maybe it has to do with the fact that those women who do that
invariably do it to guys they think are attractive at least in some way.
Any woman want to express how she finds me attractive is fine by me.
 

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I feel like a decent way of defining sexual objectification of men or women is asking if when person A looks at person B and they only see what person B can do for them (the needs and happiness of person B be damned) then it's objectification.

I actually think that's where a lot of women's contempt for their portrayal in media comes from (the images of women soley there for the pleasure of a male audience) and where the fantasy for men comes from* ("A woman will sleep with me for simply existing as I am? Sign me up."

I have a theory about a driving factor in male oriented porn but I'll save that for another post.
 
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Role reversal is nice sometimes.....and we've been wired for years to treat women a certian way....either as a sex object or to put them on a pedastal. I kinda like it when a gal, particularlly one who is/was in some type of relationship, used me (my dick) for her gratification, and not as a more permanent arrangement. Especially when they came over, undressed, got serviced and left with minimal conversation.

A woman who dominates in that fashion can be quite a turn-on...especially when I ended up begging for more...
 

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:eek:fftopic:

Ok I need clarifications on this;

I know what milfs and cougars are... what is a puma?

----

and about the topic:

Objectifying Men? yes please! :biggrin2:

every time this happened to me it was quite enjoyable.

... maybe it has to do with the fact that those women who do that
invariably do it to guys they think are attractive at least in some way.
Any woman want to express how she finds me attractive is fine by me.

A Puma would be from late twenties to late thirties, their prey is of course younger.
 

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Well, I guess I could be a golddigger so I'm outa this thread.
 

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More lovely backstage boys at Dolce&Gabbana including the knee weakening Andrea Preti!

YouTube - fashiontv | FTV.com - MILAN MEN F/W 11-12 - DOLCE & GABBANA BACKSTAGE

Gah! The man at 334 is very very sexy, he looks rugged and has the most amazing smile. YUMMO! Who is he?

357 is sooooooooooo cute! I can't decide. I think I'm leaning towards the first one.... maybe...

409 is also attractive and the guy in the Napoli boxing shirt (though his hair is much to neat.)

Now have I objectified them to your satisfaction?
 
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Gah! The man at 334 is very very sexy, he looks rugged and has the most amazing smile. YUMMO! Who is he?

357 is sooooooooooo cute! I can't decide. I think I'm leaning towards the first one.... maybe...

409 is also attractive and the guy in the Napoli boxing shirt (though his hair is much to neat.)

Now have I objectified them to your satisfaction?



A text book example of objectification! Congratulations :wink:


334 you say? Could that be David Gandy? David Gandy - Google Search
 

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A text book example of objectification! Congratulations :wink:


334 you say? Could that be David Gandy? David Gandy - Google Search


Nope Gandy is beautiful David Gandy - Male Model Monday - Full Size Photo - Socialite Life no doubt about that. But it's the guy right after Gandy at 334 with the water bottle in his hand. He's wearing a washed denim jacket and he puts his hand out towards the camera. Then he smiles and he just looks ravishing. Look at the dark scruffy shadow on his face. Me-Ow! Oh and I think his ear is pierced it sparkles. Anyway I love his smile.
 
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Nope Gandy is beautiful David Gandy - Male Model Monday - Full Size Photo - Socialite Life no doubt about that. But it's the guy right after Gandy at 334 with the water bottle in his hand. He's wearing a washed denim jacket and he puts his hand out towards the camera. Then he smiles and he just looks ravishing. Look at the dark scruffy shadow on his face. Me-Ow! Oh and I think his ear is pierced it sparkles. Anyway I love his smile.


Oh yeah! I see the fella you mean, hanging out with two other models having a laugh. Yeah he's hot! Not sure who he is though.... I'll have to track him down :tongue: