Picking up Str8 guys

'pulling'. All I have to say is that these men NEED to know that we are Trans when it comes down to it. Of course, use your best judgement. Let them know but not put them on the spot. Plus, let them know as soon as it is rightfully proper. Don't say it at a bar to them because they will just go tell their friends (I made that mistake - never again). Just DECLINE THEIR OFFER and them. Doesn't matter how hott he is because it's for YOUR safety. When they know, they then have the choice to pursue or to discontinue. At least this way, he is making an informed and conscious choice and therefore will not retaliate against you (as long as you were polite, respectful, kind and firm and DID NOT sexually advance upon him ir allow him to kiss, hold or touch you - keep him at a comfortable distance) All spoken from experience. But back to 'pulling'. It goes both ways. Doesn't matter who approaches who in starting the conversation. If you happen to get his number and were not sexually comming on to him, he needs to be told in that first call or within the first 10 min of texting back n forth of messages. Sure, let him know you a bit first then go ahead and let him know. In my experience with phone calls and text messages, they decline 2/3rds of the time after. They always thank me and let me know that I was beautiful and highly respectful of them regardless if they chose to continue with me or not. That's how it should be: respectful. Not sending nudes, asking for nudes or being sexual. Can't. Because he will most likely get upset. Gotta do all that AFTER he responds back with a YES.
 
How are you girls meeting straight men

How do you flirt with them and pick them up lol
Tell me your most unethical rizz and flirting
Being unethical is only calling to be harmed. I believe this kind of instigating behavior is unacceptable. Rizz mongering. Nope. It's worse for a Trans to behave in this manner. It is a sure way to get physically battered, kidnapped and killed. My husband actually SAW 2 of the 3 things happen to a young Transgender Prostitute - right at a Wal-Mart ! There were 2 girls standing. A female standing next to a Trans-gurl (they were obviously friends) The Trans-gurl called him over and immediately started speaking of 'sexual favors for money' right there at the inside of the walkway between the two main doors of outside and inside where the shopping carts were. The Trans-gurl was not looking very girlish - and he knew immediately. This was my husband's first time seeing 'this kind of person face to face' (his words, not mine), he then declined her advances. Then she said, "Well, if you change your mind..." So my husband then went off to his brothers car to put groceries away. Then he looked up and saw that Transgurl was now walking off with a big husky black man and thought, "Well look at that. They got a customer. I wonder if he knows." Then turned his head to tend to what he was doing. A few moments later he looked up again and saw the black guy jolt back, look the gurl up n down and make movements of disgust and then hall out n DECK the Trans-gurl in the face so hard, he heard a *SMACK* and it obviously knocked her out because she then slumped and was then caught and the black guy then quickly opened the passenger door, stuffed her inside, slamed the door ran around to the drivers side and SPEED OFF like a bat outta hell !!! As they say, " - It happened so fast !!!" My husband was shocked and didn't DO or say anything !!! He is one of those kinds of people who don't do confrontation - and BECAUSE he didn't say or do anything - it is 99% a guarantee that that Trans-gurl got murdered by either strangulation then rapped after being killed or possibly before while barely alive, beat to a pulp then driven off somewhere and dumped being left for dead or just dumped as a dead and beaten corpse. A few days later, my husband went to that same Walmart and saw that same young lady friend that was there with her Trans-gurl friend holding up a picture of her now MISSING friend asking people if they saw her or knew anything....he still didn't say anything. AND HE SAW WHAT HAPPENED. This all took place about 2 years before we even met. When he told me this story - I was in DISBELIEF that he didn't say or do ANYTHING and he had 3 chances to do it !!! BUT DID NOTHING !!! I can never forgive or forget about this and now that Trans-gurl was most likely DEAD. So, Mr. Man, this is what CAN (and does) happen when guys are not fully informed that a person who is Transgender, a Transsexual, a Cross Dresser or anything of the sort does NOT announce properly who and what they are to another person when they (the person presenting themselves as a feminine form) sexually advance upon another who is UNKNOWING or NOT informed. This is NOT a Game. Yes, in this particular case, the Trans-Gurl did NOT inform and the man did NOT approve, the man DID harm, hurt and most likely MURDERED and or hid or dropped-off their body. That black man had it in him TO KILL. I hope that that man has whats comming for him 1,000 times WORSE than what he did - but most likely no. That's how life works: You don't always get 'your just deserts'. You can do whatever you want all the way til you get caught - if you even/ever get caught. Some say, "I only answer to God." Well...only THEY will see. We don't always get to know."