Picking up Str8 guys

[Ridinghixxoo]

How are you girls meeting straight men

How do you flirt with them and pick them up lol
Tell me your most unethical rizz and flirting

 

[MrCurious6969]

How are you girls meeting straight men

How do you flirt with them and pick them up lol
Tell me your most unethical rizz and flirting

A trans woman could probably pull me with it even trying lol

 

[jrsh]

We're not pulling them, they are pulling us

 

[JSS.JLk]

'pulling'. All I have to say is that these men NEED to know that we are Trans when it comes down to it. Of course, use your best judgement. Let them know but not put them on the spot. Plus, let them know as soon as it is rightfully proper. Don't say it at a bar to them because they will just go tell their friends (I made that mistake - never again). Just DECLINE THEIR OFFER and them. Doesn't matter how hott he is because it's for YOUR safety. When they know, they then have the choice to pursue or to discontinue. At least this way, he is making an informed and conscious choice and therefore will not retaliate against you (as long as you were polite, respectful, kind and firm and DID NOT sexually advance upon him ir allow him to kiss, hold or touch you - keep him at a comfortable distance) All spoken from experience. But back to 'pulling'. It goes both ways. Doesn't matter who approaches who in starting the conversation. If you happen to get his number and were not sexually comming on to him, he needs to be told in that first call or within the first 10 min of texting back n forth of messages. Sure, let him know you a bit first then go ahead and let him know. In my experience with phone calls and text messages, they decline 2/3rds of the time after. They always thank me and let me know that I was beautiful and highly respectful of them regardless if they chose to continue with me or not. That's how it should be: respectful. Not sending nudes, asking for nudes or being sexual. Can't. Because he will most likely get upset. Gotta do all that AFTER he responds back with a YES.

 

[JSS.JLk]

How are you girls meeting straight men

How do you flirt with them and pick them up lol
Tell me your most unethical rizz and flirting

Being unethical is only calling to be harmed. I believe this kind of instigating behavior is unacceptable. Rizz mongering. Nope. It's worse for a Trans to behave in this manner. It is a sure way to get physically battered, kidnapped and killed. My husband actually SAW 2 of the 3 things happen to a young Transgender Prostitute - right at a Wal-Mart ! There were 2 girls standing. A female standing next to a Trans-gurl (they were obviously friends) The Trans-gurl called him over and immediately started speaking of 'sexual favors for money' right there at the inside of the walkway between the two main doors of outside and inside where the shopping carts were. The Trans-gurl was not looking very girlish - and he knew immediately. This was my husband's first time seeing 'this kind of person face to face' (his words, not mine), he then declined her advances. Then she said, "Well, if you change your mind..." So my husband then went off to his brothers car to put groceries away. Then he looked up and saw that Transgurl was now walking off with a big husky black man and thought, "Well look at that. They got a customer. I wonder if he knows." Then turned his head to tend to what he was doing. A few moments later he looked up again and saw the black guy jolt back, look the gurl up n down and make movements of disgust and then hall out n DECK the Trans-gurl in the face so hard, he heard a *SMACK* and it obviously knocked her out because she then slumped and was then caught and the black guy then quickly opened the passenger door, stuffed her inside, slamed the door ran around to the drivers side and SPEED OFF like a bat outta hell !!! As they say, " - It happened so fast !!!" My husband was shocked and didn't DO or say anything !!! He is one of those kinds of people who don't do confrontation - and BECAUSE he didn't say or do anything - it is 99% a guarantee that that Trans-gurl got murdered by either strangulation then rapped after being killed or possibly before while barely alive, beat to a pulp then driven off somewhere and dumped being left for dead or just dumped as a dead and beaten corpse. A few days later, my husband went to that same Walmart and saw that same young lady friend that was there with her Trans-gurl friend holding up a picture of her now MISSING friend asking people if they saw her or knew anything....he still didn't say anything. AND HE SAW WHAT HAPPENED. This all took place about 2 years before we even met. When he told me this story - I was in DISBELIEF that he didn't say or do ANYTHING and he had 3 chances to do it !!! BUT DID NOTHING !!! I can never forgive or forget about this and now that Trans-gurl was most likely DEAD. So, Mr. Man, this is what CAN (and does) happen when guys are not fully informed that a person who is Transgender, a Transsexual, a Cross Dresser or anything of the sort does NOT announce properly who and what they are to another person when they (the person presenting themselves as a feminine form) sexually advance upon another who is UNKNOWING or NOT informed. This is NOT a Game. Yes, in this particular case, the Trans-Gurl did NOT inform and the man did NOT approve, the man DID harm, hurt and most likely MURDERED and or hid or dropped-off their body. That black man had it in him TO KILL. I hope that that man has whats comming for him 1,000 times WORSE than what he did - but most likely no. That's how life works: You don't always get 'your just deserts'. You can do whatever you want all the way til you get caught - if you even/ever get caught. Some say, "I only answer to God." Well...only THEY will see. We don't always get to know."

 

[cwloin]

In my experience, the ratio of men interested in trans girls to trans girls interested in men is generally not favorable to the men.

I think that those men that dream of "one day" having a girlfriend of their ... well, dreams ... greatly outnumber said girls. I could be wrong, though -- this is just subjective experience. Also very high chance of being projection.

I may just suck at figuring out how to flirt with them. I'm bisexual (I often use the word "pansexual" explicitly to convey that I'm open to anyone regardless of gender, including anyone's transitioning status or whether they see themselves as being nonbinary completely), and spent some time volunteering at my local Pride Center for a while. I was hoping to meet other LGBTQ people for friendships, and connections in general. There was this one trans girl that was often there (she'd come in to use the free Internet, as I gather that she was using pretty much everything she earned for her treatment) that I was absolutely MAD about ... so shy, demure, incredibly pretty.

I still remember how I couldn't get the mental image of her immacuately smooth, pale legs out of my head; how how they looked while she wore her sundresses in the summer that I saw her there. For whatever reason, I had about as much luck summoning the bravery necessary to try to court her as I usually was with any girl, cisgendered included. I later saw her with another trans girl (it often seems to happen), and I took it to mean that I was likely not even in the Universe of her type and silently gave up. Maybe I shouldn't have. :-(

I've known many trans individuals, over the years, and while I seem to have no problem attracting men (I even briefly dated a trans man, FTM, at one point), the trans women that I've pined over seem as unattainable as as unicorn to me. I'm also incredibly fond of male-identifying twinks who also refer to themselves as "femboys," though I have equally bad luck with them.

I have to be honest and say that I'm also just attracted to outright androgynous beauty (and it is a thing) in and of itself.

Anyway, it doesn't help that I've had the most intense feelings recently for a trans girl, and she may as well be on the Moon. I'm terrified of even trying and getting my heart broken.

I don't know where my confidence goes with them. I've bedded an 18-year-old twink as a 39-year-old man, adorable and freshly shaved and devoid of all body hair, sweet-smelling and with a fondness for larger, older, stronger men ... someone I should not have been able to attract by what average people would think. I've fought off multiple crushes from women that I work with ... but I just cannot remember that some people do find me attractive (or at one point did) when I try to talk to her. :-(