Guys if you want your pm answering for fuck's sake steer clear of any of the following unless they're part of a much bigger message.
Amen, sistah!!!
-Wanna cam - If I (or most women) want to cam we pick who we cam with and it's seldom a stranger.
Yes guys, please don't hound us to cam!
-Wanna add me to messenger-Why the fuck would we want to add you to messenger, we don't know you and given the tone of your message we don't want to
Asking "msn or yahoo?" in this day & age is the equivalent of going to a bar back in the day and asking "your place or mine?" -- but at least there so some kind of verbal foreplay before that question was asked!!! (No, wait, I do seem to recall that some jerks were around back then... my bad!)
-Great pics-We know that in the eyes of most men any naked pics are great pics so this doesn't make us feel all warm and special.
I happen to agree with No_Strings on this point.
-I'm a professional photographer, and aren't you the lucky one cos I'm offering to take pics of you.-Yes you're a professional photographer and probably a fighter pilot in your spare time, yes you and every other guy on the net.
To quote my friend who is a professional photographer: "Any idiot with a digital camera can call themselves a professional photographer these days!"
-ASL-The words we dread above all other, in any case you lazy bastard check our profile. How can anyone have so little imagination as to actually send this as a pm?
Yeah, that one gets old pretty fast, which is why I created this user name -- now only 1/3 of the guys I've been harrassed by online have asked for my ASL!
-Wanna chat-No I'd rather wax my cunt.
Don't call us, we'll call you, if and when we have the time! (Just because I'm online here doesn't mean you can interrupt from posting in the
This or That thread just to chat with you!)
-I love older women - Great well get your mum to drop you off after boy scouts and I'll hump you senseless. Really guys I don't want to be approached just because I'm older.
Yeah, this one wears thin some days... and other days it grates on my nerves!
There are a few other standard pm's guys send, I'm sure every woman on here could add to the above list, we know they've sent them a million times and they send them out indiscriminately to practically every woman they come across, basically it's insulting that they haven't bothered to take the time to come up with something original that might show they've even bothered to look beyond our pictures to the details we might have filled in on our profile.
I've had some lovely pm's that have told me something about what the guy enjoys, why he's on here and why he wants to speak to me in particular. I always respond to these, but why should I waste my time responding to someone who couldn't even be bothered to type more than the same few tired old words he's trotted out since the day he joined this site? A private message that displays all the conversational skills of 2 lbs of tripe isn't worth answering and it often pisses me off that I even bothered opening it.
I've learned quickly that I can't believe it when a guy sends a pm that starts with "I usually don't pm women I don't know but..." either because those he can still be creepy after you do give him a chance to chat with you!
If you haven't got photos on here I'd rather you didn't bother messaging me, I don't understand why you'd think I'd take the time to answer you when you haven't bothered to extend the same courtesy to me that I have to you - being naked and on show. You might very well go 'but I'm a nice guy,' - it's a site with picture posting, we're all going to choose a nice guy who's posted pics over a nice guy who's mean and selfish with his nakedness.
The "creepy guy" didn't have any pictures -- I got suckered into chatting with him because he had more than 300 posts, he could write in complete, and somewhat witty, sentences, and could actually spell correctly. (It was the incentuous references to his mother that creeped me out!)
Guys: if you're bold enough to demand we chat with you, you'd damn well be bold enough to put pictures on your profile!
And finally - if you do insist on sending out the same message to a plethora of women at least have the fucking sense not to do this
Recipients: Hibiscus, Jessicafawn76, kitten, madame_zora, mercurialbliss, nursejudy, sizequeencameron87, SpoiledPrincess, WildHoney, xljgirl03x
I haven't gotten one of these so far -- gee, I feel so left out!
Endnote: Thanks to you and Madame Zora I've wised up a bit... I went invisible (just for a week to figure things out around here), updated my profile, and have since created an ignore list. During my invisibility I did realize that I like this forum and it is genuinely interesting & supportive... a lot of the people here are witty and insightful... oh, yeah, and have big dicks! :biggrin1: