Prostate massage

Latest addition. If fully engaged it moves the massager inside when you stroke with cock ring on.
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That looks really fun so of course I clicked on it and it's unavailable as there must be many people looking for things to do during this stupid virus. Hilarious.
 
Quick update on my butt plug. It no longer hurt like crazy when I insert the plug. However, I am still unable to get any pleasure using it. I went groceries shopping with it, push it around, and sit on it, still unable to find my P-spot. What am I doing wrong? Could it be it is too short to hit my prostate?

I agree and have the same question. I like the fact that it's in but I wouldn't say that I can make it pleasurable just yet. My perineum is ridiculously sensitive and I can make myself come with a finger or 2 so I know my prostate loves that externally but so far the plug does nothing more than open me up. Would love some advice here.
 
If you want the best possible chance at a prostate orgasm, I HIGHLY recommend the nJoy Pure Wand

For it's price, it can hit all the right spots and allow you to cum from that alone, by just rocking it back and forth once inserted. When you feel the build-up like you are going to cum, keep it up and it will happen
 
I don't think a normal butt plug is the way to work the prostate. I have several and I like them for the feeling of fullness they create, But a carefully angled dildo will work better, and if you have the patience to experiment with an aneros, it can be awesome. For a an easy direct hit on the prostate, I would recommend the basic anal vibrator which has been around for years. My uncle says he started using one in the 1970s. It's pretty basic — plastic but bent enough to hit the spot when you slide it in.
I also have a combination cock ring butt stimulator that I got in Germany. If I'm wearing it while I'm fucking, it can be pretty mind-blowing the way it works over my rear with every thrust into my gf or buddy
 
Pro tip: Get a glass or metal wand. You need to feel where it's pressing. Stand with one leg up on a chair or counter. Now you have easy access. For me, I push up against the back side of my cock from the inside. Imagine trying to push the tool into the base of your cock. I use a fair amount of pressure and rubbing. Add a few cock strokes as needed to keep the sexual stimulation. If you still can't, stroke hard. Then just prior to cumming, really rub your prostate.
 
I agree and have the same question. I like the fact that it's in but I wouldn't say that I can make it pleasurable just yet. My perineum is ridiculously sensitive and I can make myself come with a finger or 2 so I know my prostate loves that externally but so far the plug does nothing more than open me up. Would love some advice here.
Aneros is good.
 
I just bought a tantus sport dildo last night. With a bottle of poppers and some porn I started trying to find my g spot. No luck yet, gotta figure out what it feels like when I’ve found it. Maybe fingers are better to use....
 
I have been using the Aneros program for years now. It needs a lot of practice, kegel exercises and relaxation. Your brain and nerves around your perineum and prostate need to rewire. Most recommended to not touch your dick at all! You might want to try and sleep with it inserted too. Good luck!
 
I have been using the Aneros program for years now. It needs a lot of practice, kegel exercises and relaxation. Your brain and nerves around your perineum and prostate need to rewire. Most recommended to not touch your dick at all! You might want to try and sleep with it inserted too. Good luck!
I have been playing with my Aneros for more than 6 months now. For most of the time, no success. However, today, I tried a different position (standing up), and rotating it with my left hand. Suddenly, I felt it hit something, and have the sensation of wanting to pee. I continue for almost 1 hour, and everytime, as the sensation intensify, I clench my butt, and the feeling goes away. I have to "force" myself to relax, and after about an hour, I came without touching my cock (not a lot, just a little cum, about the size of a dime). It was a very strange feeling, but good.

Like some people here have mentioned, it takes lots of practice and relaxation. I am definitely not giving up, and going to practice more and learn to relax. ;)
 
I've had mixed results with various products:

Aneros - I've tried multiple times but I just can't get it to work for me

Rude Boy - too soft, too short, vibrations too weak

Lovense Edge - really great! Rechargeable, nice and firm yet bendy and the vibes are really strong. It has lots of different programs and can be controlled via an app

Dildos - still my weapon of choice ;)

A big, thick dildo is still the only thing that can give me a prostate orgasm. Then again, I've never had a real cock in my ass, so there's always a chance one of those could do it too...
 
I have been playing with my Aneros for more than 6 months now. For most of the time, no success. However, today, I tried a different position (standing up), and rotating it with my left hand. Suddenly, I felt it hit something, and have the sensation of wanting to pee. I continue for almost 1 hour, and everytime, as the sensation intensify, I clench my butt, and the feeling goes away. I have to "force" myself to relax, and after about an hour, I came without touching my cock (not a lot, just a little cum, about the size of a dime). It was a very strange feeling, but good.

Like some people here have mentioned, it takes lots of practice and relaxation. I am definitely not giving up, and going to practice more and learn to relax. ;)
I find if I don't cum for at least a week......so get very very horny......and then edge myself off and on for a couple of more days (still no orgasms)......and then use the Aneros (or other device / dildo) while watching some good gay anal sex porn. See how that works out for you.......
 
I find if I don't cum for at least a week......so get very very horny......and then edge myself off and on for a couple of more days (still no orgasms)......and then use the Aneros (or other device / dildo) while watching some good gay anal sex porn. See how that works out for you.......
A couple of days ago I was using my Nexus Excel (this seems to work best for me) and wass able to cum hands free. I had never done this before trying from time to time. I tried a new position, face down arms extended above my head and was using my core to move the massager. It only took a minute to get there and it took me by surprise.

I'll try again to see if I can repeat the outcome.
 
A couple of days ago I was using my Nexus Excel (this seems to work best for me) and wass able to cum hands free. I had never done this before trying from time to time. I tried a new position, face down arms extended above my head and was using my core to move the massager. It only took a minute to get there and it took me by surprise.

I'll try again to see if I can repeat the outcome.
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A couple of days ago I was using my Nexus Excel (this seems to work best for me) and wass able to cum hands free. I had never done this before trying from time to time. I tried a new position, face down arms extended above my head and was using my core to move the massager. It only took a minute to get there and it took me by surprise.

I'll try again to see if I can repeat the outcome.
Happy for you brother. Different devices (i.e. dildo, plug, vibrator, prostrate massager)....different positions......different lubes......different angles and depth into your ass.....all play a role in finding that "spot" where your prostrate gets hit in just the right way to bring forth all that pleasure ......and a hands-free orgasm. Again, happy for you. And once you've "figured this out" you should be able to do it again and again. At least that is how it is for me. I can now use either a nice life-like 7" dildo and or my prostrate massager and in less than 30 minutes, I'm hard as a rock, leaking precum and ready to blow my load.......
The "challenge" now is to try and edge myself from anal penetration and prostrate massage only.......to try and hold off cumming hands free for as long as possible.......no stroking or touching my own cock......just a wonderful wonderful experience.....the physical sexual pleasure flowing from deep inside my ass is so strong...so powerful......and so damn good....
 
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