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While browsing through the LPSG threads I nearly always take time to read your comments. Most often, they are articulate and show a depth of understanding about the topic at hand. That said, your sense of negative body image and personal value often leave me distracted.Thank you for finding and posting real world bodies that go in the opposite direction: too thin. I looked like this until my thyroid went south.
For those who wish they had this kind of body, get used to:
People assuming you're weak and try to take advantage of you.
Complete strangers coming right up to you and ask you what your illness is.
Telling you to eat something.
Telling you to work out.
Not being able to take your shirt off outside of a nudist environment because complete strangers tell you to your face your body is disgusting and you should put a shirt on.
NEVER bulking up no matter how much weight you can lift. press, etc.
Stares and expressions of shock and disgust when you take your shirt off, even if nobody says anything as mentioned above.
One more thing: The ONLY people who will ever believe any of the above happens are other guys who have a similar, ectomorphic build. Everyone else thinks you imagine it all.
Ok, rant over. Thank you for listening
Your comment here points to a graphic posted by CarddifDillon. I guess you are making some reference to the slender nature of the guys pictured. Here are a couple of observations.
First, if you hadn’t pointed out that the guys were a bit on the lean side, I wouldn’t have noticed. They looked happy, health, and appeared to be enjoying each other’s nude company. (Personally I am more attracted to circumcised dick, so that was the negative thing I saw in the picture.)
Just following your post, fckabull has posted the pic of a well-built but not exceptionally great looking guy. But that is where it ends. Who knows if the guy in the pic is a great guy or has an asshole personality? If he is an ass hole then dick, balls, body, or blow job skill set is not going do him a lot of good.
However, here is the thing that caught my attention. Inside fckabull’s profile, he has posted around 34 pages of male models. His intent (I guess) is to show guys with the kind of looks that turn him on. Interesting thing is that many of them don’t look a lot different that the guys you have reference as poster children needing some kind of help. Guess I am a bit confused.
It is my first thought that you have been paying too much attention to the wrong people (and you may be one of those wrong people). I think I can speak for a large number of guys on and off of LPSG who might spend two minutes getting accustomed to how you look or act with or without clothes, but from that point on it will all go to personality and bonding between you and them. So much of physical appearance is like the wrapping on any holiday gift. Once you get past it, (and it wont take long) it is what's inside of the box that counts.
I keep getting the idea that you are cheating yourself by letting first impressions take on more importance than they deserve. What you think is a downside may actually offer a unique strategy for finding what you are looking for. Use it.