Of course women exist outside of reproduction, as do men, what made you believe that I felt otherwise? And I wasn't asking about "mom status". I was simply expressing a nice gesture to mothers who happen to be here. I would have done the same during Father's day if I was posting on the male forum.
And what is the state of porn these days and what does that have to do with my comment? My heart goes out to any individual or couple who is struggling with infertility or are unable to conceive children of their own. I also believe in the freedom of people who have the choice not to do so.
All of that being said are you suggesting that any talk of parenthood, children, or conception is prohibited from here?
Thank you for your response and I hope that you reply again.
I waited to reply to this thread.
Don't tell random people happy mother's day. Last may I lost my baby at 6 months pregnant. Hearing that shit kills me. It fucking kills me.
I can't have kids. I've lost 2. I don't think you may have ever had to think of it, but random people telling infertile women "happy mother's day" makes me want to pull my fucking hair out of my skull.
My heart has no more fucking strings to pull. Fuck this question.
No, you shouldn't discuss fertility and reproduction with random women if you have any consideration for the fact that for some of us it's triggering enough to make me want to literally vomit.
Thanking successful mother's for giving birth? An unintentional SLAP IN THE FACE to women like me who reached 6 months of gestation and had to have our dead child removed from our bodies surgically, because you know... We couldn't give birth. We didn't "succeed".
Remember that shit next mother's day. Everyone reading. All of you.
How's that for pulling on your fucking heartstrings?
Save the well wishes of parents for people you personally know in your life. Strangers? Don't fucking tell them that shit.